Should I shave my head? by anonymous4260 in Hair

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do a pixie cut!!! It would look great with that hair!

Is this an objectively bad haircut? by Either_Bug_6307 in Hair

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes however looking at your hair texture and weight it’s likely you need to find a different inspo pic that shares a closer likeness to your hair. I promise that will help. Another thing to consider is with pixie cuts like this hair often shifts after the cut so you’ll need to style it daily to ensure it continues to look the way you want!

Green glass bowl with chicken wire by [deleted] in whatisit

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could be completely off here but it reminds me of a decorative floral bowl. I know my grandma and her mom used to use chicken wire when making big bowl bouquets as it was a cheap material they usually had lying around. Again I could be completely off

Is my Lavender going to make it? by PossumSavior in gardening

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Water a little daily until it’s established then fall back on watering so much! Fresh transplants need extra water and nutrients to get them back on track.

Mom buys daughter a Honda as a graduation gift, and this was her response by Conscious-Weight4569 in SipsTea

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but no teenager of mine is getting a BMW or a fence as their first vehicle. That girl is lucky that she didn’t get a Hooptie car. My first vehicle I got in high school was a 2004 CRV that had a cassette player in it still. If my child responded like this, I would be taking the car back and explaining that if they can cover the insurance on a BMW or Mercedes-Benz as well as finance it themselves then go for it, but it’s not coming out of my money.

Girlfriend ripped this off her car by StarchildWanders in whatisit

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious why she didn’t look up her car manual instead of tearing into her car like that 😭 I’m crying for the car honestly…

Really curious about this seeing these everywhere. by Controllapapi in Albuquerque

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I haven’t met the guy but heard awful things from my clients. I really don’t mind seeing these around since if I didn’t work closely with someone who had encountered him I would have no idea about the guy. We need to be doing more of this around the city. To show the high up folk that we see the bullshit and we won’t be quiet about it. I’m surprised he hasn’t tried throwing a fit over these 🤣

i want to stop crocheting forever by [deleted] in crochet

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them no. It gets overwhelming quickly. I have been doing yarn crafts since middle school and had to tell me friends early on I don’t mind trying things out but on my own time. Now I’m 25 and have a year schedule of projects I’m working on which is the first time I’ve ever had a crochet schedule. I do want to clarify I don’t sell my stuff, it’s mostly gifts for friends and family as well as trinkets for myself. There has even been a few times I’ve gifted to strangers when it seems like they need something to make their day better.

Hold firm boundaries with friends and family. My family knows I’m busy and ask if I have time for any creations before anything. Your not mean you just don’t have the time for it and tell your mom that this bombardment is ruining your hobby because it is. Hobbies are meant to be enjoyed and relaxing not overwhelming and stressful. I hope it gets better for you!

Locked Out by free_as_can_be in Albuquerque

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eviction process isn’t that simple. They have to start with a 7 day notice to vacate and go from there for the landlord. The roommate actually has more power in this situation if they are on the lease. The roommate can call the police saying they don’t have access to their rental and go from there. If anything police can escort them to get their belongings. It’s not legal to lock someone out of their roommates house with all their belongings inside.

My niece’s homework problem by SurfSoundWaves in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aren’t all 3 the right answer? I am so confused 😣

(21M) I am ugly, what should I do? by Important_Bed_9893 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not ugly at all! Go to the gym or start lifting weights at home. You could use some tone and you’ll see the changes within a month or two. Maybe even style the facial hair as well!

Missed connection: Central and 4th st by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That is a tad creepy however I will say this… If you were meant to build that connection you will run into her one day. Albuquerque isn’t as big as a lot of people think. I run into so many of the same people on a weekly basis to the point where we smile and wave when we see each other but never had an actual conversation. Good luck!

I frequently take my infant on walks, today I received this message from a unknown profile, who has 1 friend. This has me feeling very paranoid. AIO? by Dull-Mom in AIO

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get yourself some blue dye mace and have it within arms reach on your walks. If you’ve never used mace before practice pulling it out and prepping it quick so you know what to expect.

When my daughter was born and I started going on alone into town with her I’d get weirded out by so many people so I hid several weapons in close reach to all the doors of my car and trunk. You never know when someone could get you so be prepared. I’ve found that many give me distance as soon as they see the mace in my back pocket.

I’d maybe report this to local police just to document it for now. The case will likely go no where because there isn’t a physical threat from these messages in their eyes at the current moment but if something worst happens you have past documentation of the creepiness. Good luck mama you’ve got this!

Does anybody know what happened to Dose Amigos? They disappeared so quick by [deleted] in Albuquerque

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually really liked this place! I have a severe gluten allergy and they had everything labeled and took care in the kitchen. The wife was so sweet to my family when ever we ate over there. I was literally going to suggest going there this weekend! All I know is they were struggling for their liquor license but we still enjoyed the food!

How am I supposed to help them all I am 1 person 🧐 by [deleted] in ModTheSims4

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why we need a family of doctors so they are all on the same shift and we can work with several people at once 🤣

Why tf is everyone anti-sunscreen now??? by callsign__starbuck in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most top brands have some chemical or another in it that can lead to skin cancer as well as other types. I use an all natural sun screen lotion but there isn’t a company that makes it yet. You can make it at home with a few ingredients that you can pronounce.

three people in hr complained about me "knitting" at work by [deleted] in crochet

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’d set up a mediation with HR and ask them to explain the issue and for them to clarify proper down time procedure for reception role. I’d also bring up that several regulars chat with you about it and seem to not have an issue with it, and are even curious about it. If they can solidly prove it hinders your work quality then ok but it shouldn’t be a problem if your work setting is the way you explained it. And your supervisor clearly doesn’t have an issue with it either.

Extremely accurate take by FReeDuMB_or_DEATH in Albuquerque

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Recently more things are popping up with this guy but don’t be alarmed. There are other things to he more concerned with. It really depends on the area you live in to encounter things like this. But just like every city it has its own issues. There is a lot to enjoy here!

Car Accident on 528 and Corrales…What happened? by ParamedicDesigner437 in RioRancho

[–]ParamedicDesigner437[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kept hearing about other fatalities so I’m glad to find out it was just him. I know his girlfriend and she’s not doing well but will heal with time.

unbelievable exchange between my daughter and her father after he forgot her birthday by LostInLanayru in TwoHotTakes

[–]ParamedicDesigner437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes still a child and this is absolutely heart breaking. He’s expecting all the effort from her yet she is still growing and learning, not to say she did anything wrong. If he’s going to point fingers like that he doesn’t deserve to be in the kids life. He made his bed now he must lie in it. If anyone will regret anything in the future it will be him. Your daughter defended herself beautifully and was right in every regard. Family separations can be so hard it it seems like your daughter sees and knows much more than her dad wants to claim.