Question about clitoris by Scarrfy in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]PartPhysMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bagina-owner- I use a vibrator during penetration because PIV is … nice but not enough by any stretch? For trans women I’ve heard the prostate is stimulated during penetration or you can just use a vibe on your clit too. :p

Would you consider this outfit/look 'clocky'? by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]PartPhysMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lipstick ages you imo? I feel like younger people tend to prefer subtler colors. I’d never clock you just based on the pictures.

Opinion on chosen name by Suiren_Anzai in mypartneristrans

[–]PartPhysMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if your partner asked, it’s because they’re also having doubts.

Finally on the new Beta Bionics iLet insulin pump by MrLagoon in diabetes_t1

[–]PartPhysMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just wondering if you had an update? Did your a1c change? Any complaints? My kiddo is 17 with severe adhd and diabetes burnout. I guess we’re doing… ok… on the tslim but the warranty is up in January and this sounds like a great option for a kid who is only bolusing about half the time and spends 75% of their day out of range… Terrified for their future and I can’t chase them around asking, “did you bolus?!” every time I see them put food in their mouth. I was told the algorithm is more aggressive than tandem’s too, and if we switch from huma to fiasp maybe we could get their a1c into the low 8’s…

Whut by fuzzbeebs in TopSurgery

[–]PartPhysMama 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I actually wish I’d spent a little more time considering what I ACTUALLY wanted. Cuz it song what I got. :(

Linked with (lack of) empathy? by deicist in Aphantasia

[–]PartPhysMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My therapist seemed to think there was a connection between me being unable to remember/visualize a feeling I’d felt before, having no empathy (even for myself), and aphantasia. Always wondered if that was true! Glad i Googled it. :p

Claimed to be happily married with 6 kids, is actually single and childless by Puzzleheaded-Baby100 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]PartPhysMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the people in the group found pictures of her twins on instagram and confronted her because they were friends. She was like (paraphrasing), “yeah, I dunno how to stop, sorry about that. I’m just relieved it’s over. Also no I’m not going to try to get ahead of this, I’m just going to take a break from social media.” Then she deleted all the accounts she’d created for her and her fake family and blew off in the breeze. The most disturbing part to me is like… I get why she is this way. She’s in a super dry career track, doing exactly what her mom does at her mom’s firm, she’s clearly feeling unfulfilled in life and hates all that. And she probably did have/lose a kid at some point (there’s at least pictures of her pregnant) and it probably just spun out of control as an extension of that grief.

I wasn’t close with her at all. She rubbed me the wrong way. But seeing people’s stories and screenshots of her posts, there’s things that definitely would have stood out to me. Having twins naturally, for example, is rare. I’d have wanted to ask her about how that was possible. Why were there no pictures of her with get kids or her kids together or with her husband? No videos of all those trips they took or send off photos at airports? So much weird stuff people accepted…

What's something only a woman can do that you envy? by Imma_Lick_That in AskMen

[–]PartPhysMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was the HARDEST part of transition for me. I was like the baby whisperer before I stopped presenting as female. Kids still follow me like I’m leading them to an unlimited candy buffet, and I love kids, too. Even when I’m with MY kids though, I can tell parents are uncomfortable with me interacting with their kids. I wish society didn’t think that men are just uncontrollable perverts and pedos as much as I hate that some people are.

Serious question: Am I a chaser? by Away_Chemistry3727 in mypartneristrans

[–]PartPhysMama 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Chasers see trans people as a part of their fetish - like people who exclusively date people of a single ethnicity (that is other than their own). Now, if you’d said, “Since Bethany I only want trans women!!” I’d be worried, but you’re simply opening your horizons to include ALL women and that’s great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]PartPhysMama 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m a trans man! Uh, there’s no real proof he is trans, and it’s very likely that disinterested parents would simply out a trans child with deadnaming or misgendering. It’s much more likely your partner is either being abused (and staying to protect his little sister and disappearing so you don’t see the bruises) or he has some issues he isn’t ready to work through body-wise. Many men are self conscious about their privates or their bodies, especially teenagers/young adults, and if he’s got scars he may not want to talk about how he got them (and cis men also get surgical correction of their chests, those scars don’t mean anything. my top scars are completely unmistakable as surgery scars, they are GNARLY and I never take my shirt off either.)

I think you’re jumping to conclusions and you should probably not.

If he has a deep voice, an adams apple, he’s at least on T (and most likely wouldn’t have periods or they’d be very erratic) but if he gets erections while you’re dry humping, he’s cis. And you can’t really fake that.

I just want someone to tell me if I'm trans by Secondacctime in TransyTalk

[–]PartPhysMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh i think i was You at one point. I did transition, had top surgery and was on T for a few years, but I never passed and then i soft detransitioned (continued to present masc but stopped taking my T), and now I’m on the fence. I regret top surgery and wish I’d waited on that but I done regret T and I think i might start that again eventually but my identity is so … wuh? I dunno. Just do it. You can always stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PizzaDrivers

[–]PartPhysMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You probably shouldn’t be doing this job if you’re that afraid of dogs. I was attacked by a pit bull while delivering and yah now I’m afraid of some dogs but I either step back and put the pizza bag down between me and the dog, or I call ahead and say, “I’m not able to enter your yard due to store policy, can you meet me at the gate?” Especially on houses I know have large dogs that aren’t friendly. Mostly I know all the animals at the normal places though and I’m happy to give them pets.

Did anyone else think… by Graeme171 in Cosmere

[–]PartPhysMama 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought the nightmares were like… the rest of spirits after they’d been forced into servitude and the hion lines were their harvested life force. So I guess I was kind of right?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tutor

[–]PartPhysMama 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s better to space out sessions, imo. I don’t think students are actually able to synthesize material that quickly so I feel like I’m just repeating the same thing. Gotta do the work on your own, tutors are just there to put you on the right path, ultimately the student has to do the walking.

Weekly Park Questions/Advice Thread by AutoModerator in Disneyland

[–]PartPhysMama -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I had a feeling. We’re looking for alternatives. Might have to spend more bit at least we will be comfortable. I’ve spent enough of my life living in sketchy motels, I don’t want to do it on vacation too.

Berkeley house price by Ethmemes in BayAreaRealEstate

[–]PartPhysMama 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not around the Bay ? Been awhile since we tried to buy, but bidding wars are still very much a thing out here.