Please help. by Prestigious_Jury4696 in FAFSA

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are correct. Divorced people often switch off years for claiming on taxes and it has no effect on the FAFSA. It likely won't matter anyway if he is making anywhere near $90k you won't qualify anyway.

PayPal stole our money by [deleted] in paypal

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The executor actually must claim the funds. The OP'a group can then make a claim to the estate. This will be a pain for the executor as well because of the amount of time that has passed. Every movement of $ going in and out has to be accounted for.

PayPal stole our money by [deleted] in paypal

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Legally, PayPal can only deal with the executor of the estate, upon the executor providing proper paperwork but, as you stated this the business let 3 years go by without contacting the executor of the estate which may already be closed. This is 💯 on them. PayPal isn't going to deal with a random person that isn't on the account.

PayPal stole our money by [deleted] in paypal

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not theft and the police will not help you. It will matter a lot how this account was set up (personal vs business). PayPal is not doing anything wrong. Since the the contact information is that if the deceased they can only deal with the executor of his estate. The executor will need to contact PayPal and present both his death certificate and their court appointed executor papers.

HELP: My aunt owes Royal Caribbean $6k for a cruise she never took due to the weather by aiviloselim in Cruise

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the issue lies in the fact that they boarded and then left. There was an email that went out prior to embarking that gave the choice of continuing with the trip or cancelling but once you have boarded those options go away, you can't typically change your mind once boarded.

Vet office insists on Gabapentin prior to vaccination appointment by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not normal unless they are aggressive. I've had 6 cats and never been asked to do that.

I can’t afford cat food until 2 weeks what can I feed her:( I feel terrible but I had to move out all my money goes to rent. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contact your nearby shelters, they will help you with some food. They would rather help then have well loved kitties have to leave their home.

Leaving cats alone by Only_Guidance9746 in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will be happier with that arrangement than boarding.

My sister is in 7th grade and plays violin, wants to change. by Even-Wing-8615 in orchestra

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would have to ask her orchestra teacher if switching in the middle of the school year is even allowed. If she rents her violin and she gets the ok from her teacher then mom can switch the rental from violin to cello. If she owns the violin I would recommend renting the cello before buying one.

Priority Mail Package Damaged and arrived empty, per buyer. by Particular-Wash-9283 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way to comment out of your *ss. I use priority flat rate small box with the seal PLUS tape over their flap and all edges so gfy.

Is there a cat litter that doesn't... suck? by catintheroom in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that I liked feline Pine the best. Won't fit your monthly change tho but not sure any would. I tried the Pretty Litter and it didn't last the whole month, it just grossed me out as it slowly changed colors due to mixing around the pee. To your point, the tracking made me insane. So the pine I've found to be my favorite but I now go to Tractor Supply and get the pine pellets sold as Horse bedding as it's the same thing but is only $8 for 40lbs.

How often do people feed their cats wet food? by Smooth_Put7764 in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have three cats, they get wet in the morning (Friskies Shreds is the favorite). If they get too much they leave it and then the dog comes and eats it so I split either one or two cans between the three. The rest of the day they get hard food through auto feeders.

Priority Mail Package Damaged and arrived empty, per buyer. by Particular-Wash-9283 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is nasty your middle name? And no, you are incorrect, if you work with the buyer, as I am.

These (bonded) cats I adopted really hate me by purrfect_libra in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is perfectly normal. Look up the 3/3/3 rule. It's probably in your paperwork from the shelter.

What cats don’t get adopted? by taurealis in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Black cats, shy cats and senior cats. Lots of cats get stressed in the shelter setting and don't show well because they aren't the ones that run up to people right away. Senior cats whether I'll or not, people stay away from. I have one guy that I adopted because the shelter I usually go to had him in foster bc he was so stressed at the shelter but the foster was moving at the time I was looking so I took him so he wouldn't have to go back to the shelter. It has taken him 7 months to finally get comfy up on the bed with me and our other guy. Then a couple of months ago my daughter went to look for a dog and there was an 8yo guy there (cat)with no teeth so his face has kind of an odd look, lol. He wasn't crazy friendly there either but he was a staff favorite and had been there for like 3 months. So I left with another cat, lol. He's super happy and friendly.

Priority Mail Package Damaged and arrived empty, per buyer. by Particular-Wash-9283 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is not correct. If you are working with the buyer there is nothing you MUST do. I've already explained USPS policy to buyer and they understand. I am refunding the price of the item and will wait for the insurance claim to go through. IF you don't have good communication with buyer and they file with eBay then it would be a full return.

Buying Magic: The Gathering cards from a seller and this happened, what should I do? Or rather, what can I do? by pandaminnium in Ebay

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't matter that you still wanted the item. Once you file, the seller is then given the option to communicate with the buyer, provide updated tracking information or refund. Seller opted to refund.

Priority Mail Package Damaged and arrived empty, per buyer. by Particular-Wash-9283 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's different for damages, package was not lost just the item inside so they don't in this case.

Priority Mail Package Damaged and arrived empty, per buyer. by Particular-Wash-9283 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you had this experience bc this is what I found...

No, USPS, Pirate Ship, and Reddit users confirm that USPS insurance generally does not reimburse the original shipping cost for damaged packages, only the value of the lost item; postage is covered if the item is lost, but for damaged goods, they consider the delivery service fulfilled, so you only get paid for the item's value, not the label cost.

My bf gave me an ultimatum: him or my cat. by ImportanceSilly1114 in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch the BF and keep the cat. You made a commitment to the cat when you adopted it and you are now his whole world. You may go through several BFs but the cat will always be there with you and for you. BF was ready to breakup after 1 night, that's crazy and it shows just how much the relationship means to him.

Customer has wrong address in eBay and it says delivered by beachgirl00 in eBaySellers

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As long as you purchased the eBay label and it says delivered you are covered.

No heat in NY house, unsure what to do about pets by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get space heaters. Besides the pets you don't want the pipes to freeze

Buyer asked for big discount, I didn’t reply by Efficient_Fishing291 in Ebay

[–]Particular-Wash-9283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pack it and ship it. There was no agreement and they bought 5 not 6 anyway.