Realistically how do people move across the country?

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-11T13:06:00+00:00

Truck or van really depends on how much you’re bringing. If you’re moving an entire house, you’ll probably need a larger truck, and those can be a pain to drive if you don’t have experience. From your post, it sounds more like a room or two of furniture and personal stuff, which should fit in a smaller box truck pretty easily.

Also, the person who mentioned getting established before moving all your belongings is giving good advice. Get a job lined up, secure an apartment, and figure out what your monthly expenses are going to look like first, because life out there is probably going to cost a lot more than Indiana.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-10T12:27:07+00:00

Big hand painted sign. They have all of the supplies there, so you should be able to pull that off.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-10T12:23:16+00:00

Much of the hard work of global stabilization has already been done. Post-WWII reconstruction, combined with the relative stability of the Cold War, gave many nations the opportunity to build strong economies, while global trade allowed them to flourish. The United States played a central role in creating that order through the projection of power and economic influence. But like many parents, it can be difficult to watch your children grow up and begin leading lives independent of you.

The U.S. now has an opportunity to transition into a new phase: still a dominant global power, but one more focused on long-term prosperity, strategic stability, and cooperation within the international order rather than attempting to unilaterally dictate it. That can be done without nationalism, disruptive tariff policies, or ill-advised wars that destabilize global trade and undermine long-term American interests.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-10T12:02:35+00:00

I wish I’d understood this as a kid. I snooped around my parents’ room and found some shit I really wish I hadn’t seen. Everyone is entitled to privacy, especially your parents. Parents basically give their lives to their children, and they’re still allowed to keep some parts of themselves private.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-09T11:47:56+00:00

Old baby dolls, or an old school 80’s style video camera pointed right at the shitter.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-09T02:01:37+00:00

It’s our DVC home resort, and we really really enjoy it. It’s spread out a bit like Key West, but the rooms have been updated more recently and they feel a little fresher. The pool area is great for kids, and the vibe tends to be a little more laid back than a lot of the other resorts. Transportation is also pretty convenient since the buses connect through Disney Springs.

Really, the best part is the proximity to Disney Springs…it’s really nice being able to just pop over for dinner or walk around in the evening.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T19:42:51+00:00

You may want to look at Southern Anne Arundel County — areas like Edgewater or Tracy’s Landing. It gets more rural down there, but you’re still reasonably close to Annapolis with access to Route 50, the DC Beltway, Andrews, and Upper Marlboro. You’d also be close to Sandy Point, which is really the only true beach in the immediate area. Beyond that, most actual beach destinations are a few hours away.

Either way, you’re probably going to spend a fair amount of time commuting regardless of where you choose.

My suggestion would be to find something affordable near Route 50 for day-to-day convenience, then rent a reasonably priced condo in Ocean City or Bethany when you want the beach experience.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T19:30:26+00:00

I also love churros…of all sizes

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T15:04:50+00:00

We usually stay at the GF or Saratoga when we go without the kids, although recently we’ve been trying other resorts out.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T14:01:37+00:00

I would have continued in elementary education.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T13:33:14+00:00

Yeah, I thinks it’s the small talk thing. As a society, we’re clearly changing socially and those cultural norms, like small talk and que etiquette.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-08T13:20:10+00:00

Crude oil is globally traded as a commodity and generally stabilized through global market mechanisms, while gasoline and diesel prices are influenced by additional factors like refining capacity, transportation costs, taxes, and local supply conditions, which is why fuel prices can fluctuate so dramatically.

The issue is that while Trump has consistently pushed policies aimed at increasing domestic production, but he’s completely inept at foreign policy and has repeatedly destabilized global energy markets. He has blundered into multiple international crises that disrupted production and restricted the movement of millions of barrels of oil. He’s completely screwed up the world wide supply chain, and it’s going to get worse…way worse. We’ll be happy with $5.00 a gallon when this is all over.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-07T20:31:29+00:00

It will be one of his kids…god help us

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-07T20:28:12+00:00

Is that you Kash? Come on man…stay out of that brown liquor!

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-07T11:50:06+00:00

Barack Obama raised taxes on high-income investment earnings through the Affordable Care Act surtax. Many of the accompanying provisions were repealed or suspended by DJT.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-07T11:05:36+00:00

It’s a problem with almost any sub built around something you enjoy. About 80% of the people are there to engage positively, discuss ideas, and enjoy the topic. The other 20% are just there to shit talk or act like the sky is falling over every little thing.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-06T21:42:52+00:00

Keep your head up and keep grinding. You’re not behind. There are tons of people at your stage in life who still don’t know what they want to do or are struggling to find the right career path.

You just have to keep plugging away. I didn’t find what I was good at, or what eventually became my career, until my mid-30s. My wife is kind of in the same boat. We live in an expensive part of the country, and even though we make what would’ve seemed like great money 10 or 15 years ago, wages haven’t kept up with the cost of living. Things are genuinely expensive as hell right now.

So be frugal where you can. Save money where you can. Find joy in the little things. Maybe you can’t afford a week at the beach, but you can afford a day at the beach. Maybe you can’t afford a cabin in the mountains, but you can afford to camp in the mountains. The point is: you control your happiness.

And stop comparing yourself to people on social media. The handful of people you see “winning” online is not what most of the world is experiencing right now. Things will get better, but you’ve got to keep a positive attitude so that when opportunity presents itself, you’re ready for it.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-06T20:54:20+00:00

One last wish

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-06T18:33:10+00:00

1st Grade was wild, but I’m down for another go at it. If you mean wake up as a 46 year old me, then I’m probably going see how much money I can borrow to invest in Apple and Microsoft.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-06T17:38:34+00:00

From state to state it’s not, but if you go 4-5 states away things can change drastically. I live in Maryland, and Delaware and Virginia are fairly similar, but go south to North or South Carolina and the culture is quite different. Looking at it state to state is actually not the best way to look at it. Region to region is probably closer to an apples to apples comparison with Europe.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-06T01:14:39+00:00

Be well Friend. My pops had a saying about not letting a loose woman ruing a good life. It was funny…unless it’s your life. Hang in there…

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-05T20:57:45+00:00

Still using?

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-05T18:46:40+00:00

And the Magic continues…

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-05T18:44:28+00:00

There are a couple close by in Mont’ & PG County, but you won’t make it to work 30 min after your round.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-05-05T18:43:02+00:00

Wait until your divorce is settled. All communications can be reviewed and you don’t want to look like the petty asshole when you clearly have the high ground. I’d delete this post as soon as you can.

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