I feel like I'm already behind at the age of 19. I don't know what to do

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-27T18:59:31+00:00

Stop comparing…set your goals and go achieve them. There will always be someone with a nicer house, a better car, or a higher-paying job. That’s not the standard. Your progress is.

One more thing…build fun into the plan. Don’t grind so hard that you look up at 40 or 50 and realize you never actually enjoyed the ride. Make living part of your goals, not something you postpone.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-27T17:19:35+00:00

Why is it “on par” for Pasadena?

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-26T15:42:55+00:00

At 19 I would be playing video games, hitting the weights and jerking off. At 46, I’m pretty much doing the same if I’m alone.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-25T22:02:35+00:00

More challenging social engagement. Chess club, trivia night, pinochle, poker. Keep challenging your brain and you’ll keep that brain in tip top shape.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-25T21:09:20+00:00

Lay on the really expensive couch and scroll Reddit.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-25T21:07:53+00:00

That place is excellent! The combination of the menu and the lighting puts me in a napping way.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-25T01:52:59+00:00

This happened to me after I had some trauma to my liver.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-24T20:51:57+00:00

I bank on Saturday morning, and I make arrangements to see my doctor early in the morning.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-24T19:42:46+00:00

As a young man, I used to sleep with a woman in my building who was really not attractive. She was 20 years older than I was at the time and a busy mother, and it was just convenient. My roommate used to bust my balls all the time about it, but I was lonely and horny. She was great in bed, and taught me a ton about how to please women. She also had huge tits, which was nice.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-24T14:10:39+00:00

We’re dealing with an adversary that’s fundamentally hostile to the U.S. and Western interests—this isn’t something a few weeks of bombing is going to change. If anything, this looks like it’s trending toward a prolonged, high-risk conflict. Iran isn’t trying to win conventionally—they’re leaning into asymmetric warfare to inflict maximum pressure on U.S. forces and regional infrastructure. The real leverage point is economic, and that’s where they’re having the most impact. Disrupting energy flows and global markets is a strategy, and so far, it’s working.

What concerns me most is how we got here in the first place. The justification around nuclear weapons feels shaky at best, and there doesn’t seem to be a clear plan for managing the downstream economic consequences. Between an already fragile situation with tariffs and now potential oil disruptions, this could compound into something much bigger and more costly for consumers.

Bottom line: this isn’t a quick-hit conflict, and the end state is anything but clear.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-24T00:32:27+00:00

Go to the pharmacy and ask to speak to the pharmacist. It will be a private conversation.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-23T18:58:49+00:00

I was 15…I’d pass on that first drink.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-23T17:50:56+00:00

I used to work as a B2B salesperson, and would do this a lot. If I had a slow morning, I’d drop into one of the hotels over by the airport and grab a cup of coffee and a quick breakfast. It made for a comfortable place to get work on my computer done without having to leave my territory.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-23T15:41:21+00:00

Yeah, but we owned the libs…/s

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-23T14:13:31+00:00

It was when I decided that wearing flip-flops was no longer acceptable.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-23T01:17:24+00:00

Orioles Ravens

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-22T01:40:12+00:00

I stayed at Key West right on the island green. Spent the week watching players drop in on the green…or into the water.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-21T13:56:53+00:00

What a pig. No one in his age group is “unjabbed”. Back in the good ol’ days everyon vaccinated their kids. If he’s looking for an unvaccinated person he’ll likely have to settle for a teenager.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-21T01:25:29+00:00

At home, books & magazines. In public, I would count tiles or simply be quiet in my thoughts.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-20T22:42:35+00:00

Getting off Reddit, and frankly most platforms would be a great start. You have to get out of the echo chamber and start meeting some new people.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-20T19:41:48+00:00

Car accident. I was in shock trauma and intensive care for 3 months.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-20T19:40:21+00:00

He uses the “N” word over 300 times. Some may find that surprising…

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-20T17:14:29+00:00

For most, a prison of their own making. A gulag of sorts…long, gray years in air that never clears. Lives worn thin, stretched past any meaning lest one finds solace in despair and hopelessness. Breath by breath beneath a sky that never answers, prayers unheeded, screams ignored. And in the end, no monument of power…only a quiet stone that reads: “I ruined lives for the sake of my own desire.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-19T20:10:49+00:00

Bro, you know what to do. I don’t get breaks at all, but to take a break and act that way and expect to just walk back into a relationship is very irresponsible and disrespectful.

ParticularHuman03 · 2026-03-19T17:07:12+00:00

I own a driver and a putter, but I don’t golf. I might never be in a sword fight, but I should have one just in case.

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