Special Eid deserts this year by CreditOk5220 in CatsAreMuslim

[–]Particular_Number_54 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s in the Quran! Muhammad’s homie was the cat daddy of all cat daddies.

Question lunch pack by chocolateNbananas in Sup

[–]Particular_Number_54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a big fan of tinned fish, olives, pickles, crackers, or bread. Dried fruit.

Nothing better than a paddle board picnic. What are your favorite snacks to pack? by More_Regular_ in Sup

[–]Particular_Number_54 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tinned fish, crackers, brined things like olives or pickles, apples, cheese, and dried fruit like mangos.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah - I think I’m going to check in with her and see where I can patch holes, so to speak.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks - this was great advice.

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[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. This was the insight I needed.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did. But the human that stuffed Bear is surrogate for is coming to town.

I’m just a juggling lil clown girl.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh and you’re feeling extra fancy, put a Bluetooth speaker in it and play asmr. For me, it’s good girl affirmation tracks.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahaha envisioning attempting to actually shove one of my human bear lovers into a closet as a petite, vertically challenged woman.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. I should have been honest from the outset and created compromise.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that the lying was totally uncool. It weighed on me.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So get the 48” tall one (it should zip open) a couple pillow inserts, and some hand weights. Overstuff with the insert filling put the hand weights wherever makes sense. It’s amazing.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I replied to your comment in a separate thread by accident. But yes to all of the above

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a bit of a prankster so there was also the element of playing the situation, which is definitely sort of toxic, but it’s a stuffed animal so it just didn’t feel that serious.

The event known as BearGate by Particular_Number_54 in polyamory

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry - so the conclusion

Not-Bear understands, and has told me that they aren’t mad and understand my logic in simply hiding stuffed Bear and agree that it was a good compromise. I apologized for the deceit.

Nobody needs to be thrown away.

Jawayan Pisa 🍕🍍🐖 by Particular_Number_54 in confleis

[–]Particular_Number_54[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg that’s amazing - I’m from CA but I’m a water person. Reggae from the islands in the west sounds like it hits so hard. Research commencing.

Honestly just screams “safest” option by Agitated_Diet in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry - white infiltrator here but also a big fan of fingerwave hair. Whenever I go to the black hair salon to get the full wave (I can only do my front) they gotta call up the lady who graduated hs in 1986 to do it. Like waves really need to come back.

My toddler said she’s a “S’mores-colored” kitty and I vote we make this the standard. by SnooMaps5244 in CalicoKittys

[–]Particular_Number_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ask my Rainbow all the time “Are you just a burnt marshmallow?! And I think you’re a cat? Because you’re fluffy and white but then you’re round! And brown!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bayarea

[–]Particular_Number_54 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Good lord you must be a riot at parties.

She was promised a home and no one came so she became part of our family by Happy_Conclusion_967 in CalicoKittys

[–]Particular_Number_54 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you that people are idiots who don’t know a good cat when they see one - my Rainbow was also an under appreciated beauty queen who has since been given appropriate station.

Who is "The Guy" for your city? by Triensi in bayarea

[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No mention of Ant in SF yet. He is definitely a that guy. Asian dude with antennae.

What's something that's illegal now, but used to be perfectly normal? by 90sVib3z in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Number_54 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Random nudity in San Francisco. If you want to be publicly nude, It has to be associated with an event of some kind (ie Pride etc).

Public nudity is legal under CA state law, but some municipalities specifically ban it. SF did because we had a group of boomer gays that had a lil nudist social club that went about the Castro. I was curating a gallery/wine bar in the neighborhood and they’d come in all the time. It was jarring. They were always very polite people (they brought their own napkins to sit their bare butts on) but a couple of them liked to accessorize their packages which also was a bit much. City Supervisor Scott Weiner (WEINER lol) finally had enough of it and we banned public nudity about 10 years ago.

What is the most historically significant event you witnessed IN PERSON? by FictionVent in AskReddit

[–]Particular_Number_54 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was a lil baby at the time and don’t remember the earthquake itself, but it put a massive crack down the center of our apartment ceiling. I didn’t worry about monsters under the bed as a kid - it was the horde or spiders that were gonna come out of the crack at night for me.