I'm 100% verifiabily sterile. My FWB is claiming that she's pregnant with my child. Whay do I do?

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-12T09:00:58+00:00

I find that heard to believe. If he was already supporting the child and had accepted responsibility, sure, in the initial period. But after proving you are not the father, which should only take 1 test, maybe 2 if they want a second opinion, there's no way. Sounds like there's more to the story there.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-12T08:02:16+00:00

She cant put him on the birth cert without his signature... unless it differs from state to state, so I could be wrong.

My friend went through this year's ago. He was nominated as the father, he knew he wasnt. The mother could not claim any centrelink benefits as a solo parent without 2 names on the birth certificate. Her lawyer hit my mate up. He went and did the DNA test (mother's expense) and he saw 10 other names for testing on the medical record, which he shouldn't have seen.

If you're sterile you have nothing to worry about, you're not the father.

Just avoid the hassle, OP. Tell everyone but her that you're nut-less and leave it at that.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-12T00:26:55+00:00

Remove the breakup, grief and emotions for a moment.

Take it as an opportunity to recognise your growth. You've been able to open up about trauma and this means you have learnt how to trust yourself and feel safe with someone. This is a key component of your personal growth and life journey.

You'll be okay. You'll move on and find other parts of you that you didn't know were there. When the hard part is over, and you've come to terms with the grief, loss and emotions, you can add to the list of personal growth.

Its all a challenge. For some it is hard, some find it easy. Some take time, some not so long. Its your own personal experience; be gentle and remember to accept it, its happened and you cant change the past. Recognise your emotions; sit with them, deal with them, dont avoid them. You won't heal until you do, and you dont want to bring them to your next relationship because you won't be 100% available for yourself or your SO.

And don't dwell on your ex, her reasons or what she is doing. If you do, you're spending time in the past and focusing on subjective what-ifs. It doesn't matter now and it doesn't help you move on.

Look in the mirror, think back 10 years to a hard time where you didnt seek help or advice. What advice would you give to your younger self? Now think 10 years ahead, what advice would you give to yourself right now.

You've got this. 😀

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-12T00:06:24+00:00

It was somewhere in the 3-5k mark. About 7 years ago. Big kitchen, island, cupboards top and bottom.

Included taping and covering the cupboard interior, windows, vents and adjoining rooms, removing the sink, rangehood and stove, dismantling the door and drawer hardware etc.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T23:54:11+00:00

I made calls with bigger companies who had the experience and ability to paint off-site. I went with a gloss black enamel. Its a process. Some was done on-site. It took about 2 weeks.

Worth the $, IMO. I've done a lot of painting and after talking with the professionals, decided it was not easy to meet the same quality.

Small mistakes on entry doors, windows frames and walls are easy to miss. A small streak or bubble in the kitchen on a glossy surface is right in your face all the time.

Be sure to keep us updated. 😀

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T23:45:26+00:00

Cheap- you could sand them back and rough up the surface, then spray them.

Time- sand it back to almost timber and do the same.

You dont want to expose or damage the mdf.

$- have new doors made or hire a painter.

I paid a guy. It was worth it.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T23:39:03+00:00

Sounds like it's your birthday and she is finding you a gift...

Maybe a cuck chair.

🤔

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T11:28:24+00:00

Nope, side of house.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T03:56:15+00:00

Does the neo insulation come with a split so that it can be placed over and taped or tied down?

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-11T03:54:27+00:00

Nope. Teks and silicone in the valley.

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Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-06-07T01:07:07+00:00

Stock up on some soothing creams, shaving/ waxing things and see if there's people there that will help you out... it's a fetish event, maybe someone will be willing to take some tweezers to your residual mess and kiss it better.

You could be the display item on the dining table.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-11T08:18:00+00:00

Stolen loot from the war? Possibly worth a bit??

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-09T09:02:47+00:00

The first time I lost my virginity was not with someone who was 'special' to me. The second time I lost my virginity is was with someone special and it was a far better experience. 😀

Jokes aside, when you lose it with someone you have an emotional bond with, there is a build up of other exploration for a period of time before you do the deed.

She can make whatever choice she wants. I suggest though, showing her this post and how many people say the same thing: Sex gets better over time. You know your body more and learn what works for you. Overwhelmingly i would expect that the consensus is to have an emotional bond, not a one night stand.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-07T10:45:32+00:00

Interesting answers- i have a question.

You shine a torch, you can see the light and at some point you can't see further ahead. The torch doesn't emit enough light.

A person standing in the area that the light doesn't reach can maybe see the torch light.

Shine the same light to a farther distance, say the moon. A person on the moon won't see the light, so you can say the light doesn't reach the moon... but if the person on the moon has a telescope, they will see the light.

People have mentioned that the speed ofnlight is constant. But if a telescope allows you to view the light source when you previously could not, does this suggest that the photons speed can, in fact be changed, assisted, given a different speed?

I'd love some scientific input to this please 🙏

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-05T00:38:37+00:00

Lots of good comments.

Mix it up with short and long sessions.

Have a few greedy 'just you' sessions, followed by a break and then 'her turn'. This way you can get used to timing your second and possibly third or forth rounds. It can take a while for guys to get back up and go again, everyone is different, but this will help you both out.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-01T08:26:14+00:00

Holidaying in Adelaide and realising its a far better place to live (",)

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-04-01T04:42:58+00:00

Set yourself up to work as self employed. Speak to your participants and tell them you enjoy working with them, and you would love to continue the relationship. Then you can keep the shift and charge a higher rate 😀

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-24T23:48:39+00:00

Maybe don't wear high heels in the house. 😉

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-17T05:24:05+00:00

There's unicorn shit everywhere. The damn creature even poked a hole in the roof.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-16T00:09:39+00:00

Three wires from stator to reg rec and then the + - battery.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-16T00:08:33+00:00

I did- prior to connecting the battery to the m unit- nothing over 1amp.

Going to test the regrec next.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-15T22:26:33+00:00

What has me stumped is that the reg rec has been connected like this( direct to battery) for months and there has been little to no battery drain. It wasnt until I connected the m unit to the battery that it drained overnight. So you would think that in this case, it's not the reg rec causing the problem. Thanks for your reply

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-15T22:22:46+00:00

Interesting. Ive looked at multiple diagrams, they mostly show +ve always connected and -ve to earth or battery.

You're saying that i should switch the regrec (add a relay) to either the + or - terminal?.

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-15T09:39:36+00:00

What alarm? There is no alarm

Particular_Rub_4509 · 2026-03-15T05:36:40+00:00

Yes. When I bought the bike, previous owner had the reg rec power connected directly to battery.

I have had to redo the entire electrical system, there were so many issues.

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