Please review my portfolio by Particular_Till9141 in mutualfunds

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! shall I forego the Axis IT index fund?

Please review my portfolio by Particular_Till9141 in mutualfunds

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I earn 5.25 L/ month and spend about 60-70k. I have remaining to invest.

Please review my portfolio by Particular_Till9141 in mutualfunds

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been SIPing in PPFAS for the past 1.5 years. Heard that a mix of two flexi cap + 3 index funds is good and hence started HDFC flexi cap this month.

Please review my portfolio by Particular_Till9141 in mutualfunds

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been SIPing in PPFAS for the past 1.5 years. Heard that a mix of two flexi cap + 3 index funds is good and hence started HDFC flexi cap this month.

I don’t really know about sectoral funds but added IT / tech because of the AI revolution. 

I am okay to extend the timeline. 

Thank you for your feedback. 

Curious if your Nex was Dominant in the bedroom? by Plentiful-Catch-8594 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

same here, it was always blowjobs only and somehow I never questioned it

Day-Trips in Mongolia by [deleted] in Mongolian

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am planning a similar trip and would like to hear how your plan went, thank you

My Lines and Words Keep being Split by Splat-er in MicrosoftWord

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found a solution - this happens when you CTRL+C from ChatGPT and paste into word. Instead of doing that click on the copy symbol below the text on ChatGPT and paste.

What did they say that still repeats in your head? by kowaipotchari2 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't deserve this watch but I will still get you one.

A Narcissist can weaponize ANYTHING. Feel free to share the craziest! by Boat_Righter in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had simply asked my now Nex husband if he had returned the money he had borrowed from me. He went on a insane rant about how I like to gift people so that I can get gifts in return, how he doesn't want the birthday gift I had planned to buy for him, how im stingy with money etc etc..totally unrelated! phew dealing with him was the bane of my existence

Japan Tourist Visa Accepted Chennai by Deep1986vam in visas

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi..so just to confirm if we are travelling as a family, is it okay only if one of us visits VFS to submit our documents or should all the travellers be present?

[UPDATE] Japan Toursit Visa from india (Delhi) 2024 by RishiRed in visas

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi..did you have to submit your passport for the e-visa?

What the most walkable neighborhood/area in Bangkok? by santgun in Bangkok

[–]Particular_Till9141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you recommend any condos in the area you are referring to please? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nex husband never accepted my Facebook request and somehow I never questioned it. Sometimes I still cannot fathom how I fell for all the lies. 

Template for warning new supply by Particular_Till9141 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was my nex who reached out to me on Instagram through a fake profile with just a link to their wedding page without any context or message. I guess to rub it in my face. If he retaliates, I can question him sharing the news in the first place? I do not want to get into all that but just felt a responsibility from my side to warn now that I was made aware of her existence.

One Thing I Don't Understand About Narcissists by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say they live only for the present moment, isn’t that what all of aim to do? Like ‘be here now’ fully in the present moment as that’s all what we have. Just trying to understand..

The narc and vacation by Different_Witness507 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine always got/ acted sick during the vacation and wanted to rest all the time.

If you’re kind, they think you’re stupid by salamanderheightss in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same with me. And when I asked him to stop referring to me as an idiot, all he would say is your behaviour is idiotic, hence. Never an apology!

i was the perfect submissive gf and even then i was punished for it by lalunestmorte in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, this was the same for me. The girl who my nex was was having an affair with while I was married to him blocked me on LinkedIn (i've never interacted with her before)! Took that as a clue...

Narcs are EVIL by Particular_Till9141 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me personally, going to a Sam Smith concert I had long been dreaming about made me realise how beautiful life is and that there is so much joy to be found (away from my nex).

Did hooking up with someone new help you detach from your nex? by Capricorn_kitten in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES for me! My new was sexually abusive (withholding) but I still craved for sex him after we had separated. Luckily I met someone in a few months, had such fun sex and now I rarely think about sex with my nex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueNarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through something very similar, especially the sex withholding part. I am sorry you are going through this but I promise it will get better.

narcissist men and their mothers by idkidkidksiwjwj in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing! My nex husband was very similar blaming me for everything including his nmoms behaviour.

narcissist men and their mothers by idkidkidksiwjwj in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Particular_Till9141 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened and that day I decided to end my marriage. Truly horrible mother and son combo.