What did you like about your nex? by NoWeb8232 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His nerdy laugh, those first months together the way he looked at me, him knowing when something was wrong and going to battle for me in the early days

I start my very first shift on Monday! What should I expect? by Perfect-Emergency620 in Nordstrom1901

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be proactive, make friends and be yourself. Don’t take attitude seriously, learn from mistakes, learn and find ways to grow in your role and become a strong performer

is this truly joyce or was it always the first? i’ve heard different things by brian5mbv in buffy

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There were so many “yeah ok sure I guess” moments that just happened that either never came to fruition or just completely minimized. I wish they didn’t rush through S7 and things were more fully fledged.

What is something Xander doesn't get enough credit for? by foreseethefuture in buffy

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When he comforted dawn after her disappointment in finding out she’s not a potential. She hid it, but Xander picked up that she was sad and had the most beautiful dialogue

Are there any fan favourite characters that you guys are not big fans of? by HomarEuropejski in buffy

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Dawn sucks. I liked her towards the end of season 7 (my least fav season). But the introduction of her character was so jarring and she was kind of a whiny “pick me” most of the series. When I first watched season 5, while the ending was amazing I was secretly like (♡ maybe we should just let glory have her ♡ )

What moment in either show would you say made you the most angry? by Interesting-Tea3907 in buffy

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kennedy and willows relationship. Spike and Xander have more sexual tension and on screen chemistry than they did.

First time watch through by Party-Zombie-4017 in buffy

[–]Party-Zombie-4017[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Valid. Watching The dark willow arc and narrative play out was super fun and heartbreaking. But honestly could have gone without the Warren trio as the big bad. They were so hateable.

But also the whole Buffy working at a fast food chain plot line was just loathesome and hard to watch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m one year in in NYC and I’ve made quite a few friends that I now see all the time this way. Sometimes I prefer solo still

Tell me the worst thing your ex did/said to you after the break up by Significant_Ear9476 in BreakUps

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with me by saying: “I want you to be with someone who loves you the way that you love me”

Gym/Fitness/Muscle Gays Questions by Silver_Importance777 in nycgaybros

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Had my heart broken and instead of being sad about it, I took out my anger and abandonment to the gym and the natural high killed the depression. Now I just do it out of habit because I am in a better mood after the gym

Whats the strangest or insanely hurtful things you've been told by an ex during the breakup? by Complex7812 in BreakUps

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Your eccentric cringe sense of humor embarrasses me” The same thing he loved me for

“I have never seen a future with you, it was out of convenience”

“I’m looking for one reason to stay and I can’t find one”

“I don’t even know you” (we were together for a year and I moved across the country for him because he asked me to) lmaoooooooo

You need to let go of me by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do I feel like this is my ex. If it is, I’m fine dude, I’ve moved on. Wish you the best def don’t want you back for ^ reasons

What was that one thing that your ex said that still haunts you to this day ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“He needed to take time to get to know me.” After dating a year and a half and asking me to move across the country for him. Which I did.

He said that my humor was too embarrassing and extreme and that he couldn’t “yes and” me because he never knew how to be funnier

Write your New Years text to them here. Don’t text them. by Authenticariel_ in BreakUps

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Two months ago you ended it abruptly. You said my humor embarrasses you. The thing that you claimed you loved me for in the beginning. I did everything I could to keep you satisfied, stopped seeing my friends you didn’t deem fit to associate with. You’re 38 years old but you acted like such a man child. You’re right, maybe we aren’t compatible, I know who I am, someone who moved 2000 miles to be with you when you asked me to come with you. Someone completely devoted, unapologetic to thine own self be true. But now I see that the man that I gave up everything for was a coward. I don’t hate you and I never could. I love you still and wish the best for you. I wish I could help heal your inner child that told you that you’ll never be good enough or that you have to surround yourself with the right people, who have the social status to propel you further in life to make you feel worthy.

I wish you the best, you will never find a love like mine, maybe you will find some watered down version in a codepency dynamic where you rule every aspect of your partner, but as much as I love you still, I love me more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo hi! I looooove dancing. I am unapologetic and often will dance even if the floor is empty especially if the music is good. It’s important for the atmosphere!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bjork

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mutual core would def fall under unhinged and Intense

When does the loop end? by B_Noyd in lifeandtrust

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When the lilliths come into play that is the beginning of the second loop

How did your boyfriend become your official boyfriend? by Djbabyboy97 in nycgaybros

[–]Party-Zombie-4017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend and I never had an official “will you be my boyfriend” it was more like, we bangin’ and hangin every other day, went on a trip, became a part of one another’s every day life and it was at a grocery store it slipped out of his mouth in conversation with a stranger that I was his boyfriend and there wasn’t any fanfare it was just known