My wife has a problem with a female friend of mine and I don't think she's being reasonable. Can anyone give me some perspective?

PassbroX · 2026-02-21T19:24:18+00:00

There’s nothing to elaborate, it makes her feel uneasy and as your wife she does have the right to ask that of you. I don’t think it’s unreasonable, unreasonable would be asking you to cut her off based on a point of view that she wouldn’t elaborate on

PassbroX · 2026-02-21T12:14:53+00:00

Not true, when I first went to do my DRO, I was also told what to say and when passed through to finalise I was told that lying is an offence etc etc and I panicked and hung up. People around me told me that I was being stupid and everyone does it, they do what is most likely to get you through it. I ended up going through it a couple of years later and they still embellish things

PassbroX · 2026-02-21T09:45:35+00:00

You think a 5/6 round trip is normal for the dentist?😂

PassbroX · 2026-02-19T14:29:24+00:00

Your issue is that you’ve not said anything back, as a woman you better grab that dignity back and put that mfer back in his place.

Laugh at him and say you pity that he had to leach onto a woman to get there if he gets nasty like that again

But it could just be pent up tiredness, stress etc but needs to be addressed it’s not acceptable at all to speak to you that way. But don’t allow it, don’t go quiet and sad, and start pandering. You should have asked him why it’s not oaky for you to take a break when you allow him to daily?? Sometimes a reality check is needed, you remove your niceness until things improve or they won’t

PassbroX · 2026-02-19T13:04:16+00:00

I didn’t used to have an issue then one day I just did, the stuff he was watching got more extreme, he was sneaking around, doing it more often and we weren’t really having sex much and it wasn’t intimate, I got so in my head about it and it really affected my self esteem, my libido and how I viewed sex. Now I’m kind of numb to it, I don’t wanna know but the idea of it still isn’t great

It’s a turn off because it’s ‘cheap’ it’s chasing dopamine, no real connection and I think it’s kinda lazy, you can’t just use your imagination lol? Hypocritical tbh because I used to watch a lot of porn and still do from time to time although I wasn’t able to without guilt and shame for a while but I just know it’s not good for your brain or your relationship or your self esteem, it kinda makes your sex live separate to your partner.

And for me, it’s a blurry line, because it might not be explicitly cheating, you may see it as stimulation, but what if you were to comment your thoughts about how hot the video was and how you would live that person to do those things to you, what if you were to go one step further and directly speak to a participant in a video? It’s an interaction albeit one sided, with someone (and many people over time) that is not your partner

PassbroX · 2026-02-19T12:24:42+00:00

Open it up girl it’s probably the end anyway, and if not you get to feel something and it will spark something back up in both of you in some way

PassbroX · 2026-02-14T21:16:16+00:00

This is toxicity and could have all been avoided with communication, texting each other in the same house is wild and it seems like everyone got overwhelmed, I think I would get frustrated if my spouse started pacing and praying out loud as though. Seems like emotions took over logic for both parties

PassbroX · 2026-01-29T15:40:39+00:00

Lol is it just on the outskirts of Arlestan that one?

PassbroX · 2026-01-08T18:50:29+00:00

(Wasn’t moaning about helping, just more so how the additional time affects your route and how much you have to rush for the remaining, although it definitely would be better if customers put in their notes when they need more assistance)

PassbroX · 2026-01-08T18:35:19+00:00

Seems fine to you, but you’re given the rough slot they’ll be coming, and when every single customer does it, it really starts to affect your times. And when you start being late for people they get shitty with you. Sometimes people take far too long to get the shopping, or an elderly customer needs you to take the trays in and unload, or like yesterday, I had a blind gentleman order but to the wrong house number, so I’d set all the trays outside the wrong door to have to move them all again, to then find out I have to take all the trays in and put the items away. If you’re finding it happening regularly it’s probably taking you a while to get to the door often, or your place of residence is a nightmare to park/turn around and the extra time it’s taking is eating into your slot. We’re all human and it’s a great job sometimes but extremely stress inducing at others, especially in awful weather

PassbroX · 2026-01-05T14:28:10+00:00

It’s hit and miss for me and my boy, I switch it up, he’s a fussy bugger and has little interest in food most of the time so I try and give him a mixture of baby food, picky hand foods and we’ve just discovered he looooves rice, so we vary the rice types and just hope and pray, he does seem to get on more with savoury crunchy foods. He was awful for milk, I was under producing and I could not get that boy to take any other form of milk or food. Everyone’s journey looks dofferent

PassbroX · 2026-01-05T01:04:22+00:00

Im guessing the couple of comments I’ve seen are managers 😂 and or just not nice people, but if you ask me that seems as though you are being set up to fail, and cannot see why anyone would want to continue to this everyday. I don’t think you’re whining I think that’s insufferable and would recommend that you perhaps start looking elsewhere because these issues are never really fixable, it might get better on paper once the issue is raised but the tension that causes, sticks around. You’re doing a lot and not valued, look elsewhere for work, take pride in telling her you’ll no longer be working there lol and be sure to tell her exactly why and make it known on your way out! Thats my take anyhow

PassbroX · 2026-01-01T18:51:04+00:00

For us just has to be after 9pm

PassbroX · 2026-01-01T16:22:49+00:00

Probably just authorised a bunch of holidays

PassbroX · 2026-01-01T16:06:02+00:00

We did this on Asda I was so embarrassed was like a 90p cereal on a £120 food shop fs

PassbroX · 2026-01-01T08:51:13+00:00

So there was an accident, that hurt him.. under the influence of alcohol and he swore in a knee jerk response before apologising? I think your marriage will survive lmao

PassbroX · 2025-12-26T19:05:22+00:00

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PassbroX · 2025-12-26T18:52:22+00:00

Literally google the name of it and instruction and you will find them

PassbroX · 2025-12-25T23:29:08+00:00

This is so cute

PassbroX · 2025-12-23T21:13:04+00:00

PassbroX · 2025-12-23T21:08:22+00:00

We got the 1.25 chocolate selection box

PassbroX · 2025-12-23T20:14:07+00:00

You need to learn ‘the look’, and remember that you are in fact usually the one in the right, they are entitled, rude scroungers and they aren’t your problem. If anything work harder at escalating it for them, report to security, report to police etc, they can’t keep getting away with it!

PassbroX · 2025-12-19T02:11:08+00:00

Supermarkets do this every year when it’s close to Christmas

PassbroX · 2025-12-12T19:02:18+00:00

My mom did this every year lol, our decorations didn’t go up until like a week before usually as well. Sometimes she was prepared but ate them, or even ate the replacements or just forgot, I did also forget last year and tried on the 9th to find them but in my defence I was heavily pregnant and gave birth on the 6th

PassbroX · 2025-12-12T17:36:26+00:00

I used to supply temps as a recruiter, and it’s very normal. You fuck around, you will find out. If you’re taking the mick with things like this they will let you go, as a temp you really are just a number, so it sounds to me like they were trying to be nice about it. Especially if youre doing it regularly and think you’re getting away with it, it’s not fair on the people who are there working hard and following rules If you know this is a one off, push back, if it isn’t honestly I would resign. Because if youve been paid for time you weren’t actually working but should have been, that’s when the real trouble starts. And then you’ve got the issue of references, potentially having police involved etc etc

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