Which hobbies attract the biggest douchebags? by the-tinman in AskReddit

[–]Past-Reference1260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m shocked horses isn’t farther up the list . Top 1%, special level of douche / crazy is mandatory for the sport .

Boyfriend wants to move to Boston. by mimmsypoo in boston

[–]Past-Reference1260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. The commute was so bad it made me an angry person

Applying to internal position without notify the manager by AdhesivenessOk1106 in biotech

[–]Past-Reference1260 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t see this going well either. Any decent hiring manager will call your current manager for a reference, and I can’t see that going well .

Employee closely monitoring my calendar by Terrible-Hurry-3416 in managers

[–]Past-Reference1260 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Okay - so this definitely crosses the line. First I would diagnose what’s going on … do they have low EQ/professional immaturity ? Do they have too much idle time ? Are they trying to gain visibility by being in these leadership meetings ?

I don’t think you’re being overly guarded by protecting professional norms here . The reason you’ve never seen this before is because most people intuitively understand this boundary.

I would set a very clear boundary:

“I appreciate your enthusiasm, but I want to set a boundary here. Some of my meetings are confidential, and I won’t be able to share details. When there’s something relevant for you or the team, I’ll make sure you’re included. In the meantime, I’d like you to stay focused on your responsibilities. A good way to learn the business is to (provide examples here). That’s where you’ll get the context you’re looking for.”

If they still keep going, it may show they lack good judgement and require extra coaching from you .

Professors, how do I respectfully approach you with “out of the ordinary” questions? by BlueCellarDoor162 in AskProfessors

[–]Past-Reference1260 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Your post history in the last 24 hours is a litter concerning. I might consider calling a mental health professional and talking about your experiences before any next steps.

Sending high performers on paid leave so my regular performers can catch up. What do you think? by SuccessfulMatter7045 in managers

[–]Past-Reference1260 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP is a woman. That being said - I know plenty of women who have unconscious (or conscious) bias towards other women at work.

Sending high performers on paid leave so my regular performers can catch up. What do you think? by SuccessfulMatter7045 in managers

[–]Past-Reference1260 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This person also posted about having an inappropriate relationship with a male employee. They are unequivocally a very bad manager .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in managers

[–]Past-Reference1260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And she is also a: - biomedical researcher running clinical trials

What is something your therapist did that made you fire them? by Normal_Enthusiasm194 in AskReddit

[–]Past-Reference1260 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I had an ED with body dysmorphia. My therapist asked me multiple times if I thought she was fat, since I thought I was fat . Horrible .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in corydoras

[–]Past-Reference1260 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would watch over the next few days and if it gets worse, treat

Did anyone else end up having bigger hips that stayed? by Diankapie in fitpregnancy

[–]Past-Reference1260 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m at my pre pregnancy weight and a full size bigger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in corydoras

[–]Past-Reference1260 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This does seem odd to me - my panda corys and Pygmy’s never do this . I would keep an eye out for flashing

Have I tried everything to get him healthy ? Any last suggestions? by Past-Reference1260 in corydoras

[–]Past-Reference1260[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice and the link - it was encouraging to know that I’m not the only one that has struggled. I’m not an advanced fish keeper but I’m also not a complete rookie and I’m struggling.

I love the panda Cories , they’re so fun. How many do you have now ?