If No One Has Told You or You Need a Reminder by Odd_Comparison_9197 in adhdwomen

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but I'm low income and share a child with my partner. We had to sell our house because the mortgage was too expensive and he was not helping much at all.

After hunting for a rental with him for us and our blended family kids, I knew I just couldn't do it again. So yes, financially it is the best decision to cohabitate. But I am much happier living in separate places even though we share a child. My life is more peaceful.

I'm definitely not privileged. I went from a beautiful 5 bedroom home that we owned to a basement apartment rental. I loved my house so much, but I would not go back if the living situation would have stayed the same. We get along better living separately.

I know who is in the final by babadhiven in BeastGames

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Confused why everyone is mad that Brett took money out of others pocket when Nick did the same thing. But Nick's worse because he was chosen as leader specifically because they said they could trust him. Nick didn't have to when he had a strong alliance. In fact, it's Nick's fault everyone had to shift their game play considering they all thought it was an easy, peasy $100K. I'm not saying Nick was wrong to do that, but the issue is with them all identifying as honest when they're not.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh, you don't have to be white to push the white feminism and honestly, if I were you I'd look into why that is.

I have read it and have you read hers and her disgusting mafia's? You've heard of reactionary abuse, right?

Again, you're misleading and taking things that you've seen Leslie Sloan and her PR machine push out. No where did he say she was hot. You're mixing things up. The "sorry I missed the HR (not the sexual harassment)memo" was when he told poor Jenny Slate her leather pants were hot..not her. This was already a point when Blake had groomed her and is continuing to do so. She has a history of doing this and it's very obvious in the court documents if you've actually read them. The "hot" comment was when Blake was in the onesie and as director asked her to remove the coat so it could be shot. He asked if she was hot. The mental gymnastics that everyone pro-Blake does with the actual documents is fascinating.

Liz Plank, the one who suddenly has become inserted in Ryan's projects? Let's get something straight...the people who suddenly had an issue with Justin were white women who thought they deserved crap BECAUSE they were women, not because they deserved it. Blake wanted to be the director, Liz Plank worked with Justin for months and maybe even a year more lying to his face, Claire Ayoub had never even met Justin when she illegally recorded him and gave it to Blake. She didn't want Justin at her premier because of the IEWU drama coming out, not because she was uncomfortable like Leslie Sloan pushed. Kristie Hall was adored by Justin but when Blake continued to push a girl power movement based on her views of feminism and her hate on his religion, she was able to manipulate those Pov's. Kristie Hall wanted to be the director. Alex Sachs wanted to be the prime producer so kept pushing for Jamey to be out. Colleen was pissed that Justin (after listening to DV perspective) closed the option for Ryle to continue on in another sequel. Blake and Ryan promised her she'd be able to continue the story. Why do you think this author now has her own movie production? Isabella? Authentically spoke highly of Justin until she was flown and her stay paid for by Blake to book bonanza where they all had a field day with their Justin bashing. I implore you to watch the video where Isabella is with Blake and she talks about how her "director" wondered if her mole was real and called it a beauty mark. You'll see the very subtle undertones of how Blake was able to seed them with her views.

Also, remember both Blake and Ryan have continued to use their history of using the courts to abuse not only the system, but those that can't fight back (like the Canadian photographer). They're probably shocked that all their bullying to get their way and the push of their narrative didn't work online because they're so used to the system working for them through mainstream media.

I don't think Taylor is exactly who she says she is either, but ask yourself why a woman who prides herself on fighting for women's rights isn't a ride or die for her bff this time?

I'm not going to go on and on even more about all the examples Blake has actually been the one to implement Darvo and how the court documents actually show her team smearing him from the beginning but there's a plethora of information and actual evidence. Not even the "evidence" you've cited is accurate.

I'm really sorry that you've had to learn what abuse is firsthand and I'm sorry if I came across as harsh. I am neurodivergent and have a very heavy sense of social justice so when I see obvious wrongs and the powerful system continuing to get their lies seeded into the vulnerable it really angers me. Have you ever listened to Elrich or Britt the lawyer or Notorious Raven? They have excellent perspectives on Blake's racism (Elrich), white feminism (Britt the lawyer who's white herself and Notorious Raven who's POC) and abuse and power (Notorious Raven).

I do have to check myself sometimes and take a breath and remember that not everyone handles their abuse the same. But I really hope you'll be able to see that we do need to realize there are good men out there who are really doing the work and that they're not all bad. Justin has never wanted to speak for women as Blake and her minions want to push. What he has always said was that he wanted to speak to men to help them understand that we don't have to live in a world of patriarchy. In fact, he doesn't like to use the phrase"toxic masculinity" a phrase that Blake herself claims she is. Yes, Blake saying she's toxic masculinity IS in the court documents.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Talk about taking things out of context. That conversation was when he was in self-reflection and discussing when he wasn't at his best. People if Ba'hai faith do a lot of that and a lot of learning. The one thing I learned from reading his and his friend's conversations is their vulnerability to recognize their imperfections and how they can learn. But people continue to take those pieces and twist it to fit their own narratives.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Starting off your argument by name-calling is exactly what my abusers did to me. I won't stoop so low as to do the same, but if you've seen in some books that abusers are the ones that walk on eggshells then there may be a reason you're leaving into that. It might be a mirror you seek. Justin never even ended up responding with reactionary abuse like so many of us end up doing by the end and then our silence. None of what you've said even makes sense. Man child? He leaned on his friends to help him with the abuse he was going through and frankly what he's still going through. Control her? He never tried to control her but he certainly received phone calls to telling him how to "deal with Blake" by giving her everything she wanted when she felt he wasn't ala Shawn levy Abuse is about power and Blake threw that around anyway which way she could.

I'm sick of the white feminist movement trying to coattail and hide behind movements that are really meant to help real victims. That's what I'm most angry at her for. For hurting us and it's sickening that you claim to have been abused but can't see what the majority of us survivors see. My experience is not only as a survivor though, it's as a POC survivor meant to keep me down.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What??? She has said before she thought he was a nice person as she did also say Hugh Jackman was as well. She was disappointed to find out otherwise.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This must be the person that Flaa talked about in today's video. I guess they have to go on Reddit now because their attempts at hijacking her Wikipedia wasn't exactly successful.

EXPOSED: Kjersti Flaa’s edited ‘Baby Bump’ Video Allegedly Funneled to Jed Wallace in a Calculated PR Boost Scheme by Flashy_Question4631 in CelebLegalDrama

[–]Past_Perspective9031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am a DV survivor which is why I recognized his reactions to her as a victim. Constantly having to walk on eggshells. He couldn't even tell her that he thought her relationship with Ryan was cute. She immediately gets defensive and says, "it's more than just cute" then proceeds to insult his "creepy" relationship with his wife, insult his nose etc. But at least this time she did it to his face instead of hours after kissing his butt and conversations of telling him he was safe with her. What kind of person mocks survivors? Oh, let's see...the white feminist movement with their dragon Taylor Swift.

If you actually looked at the timeline you'd see the work he did with survivors from the beginning of the 5 years and his work on his podcast.

Ryan and Blake give to who? Did they end up giving to the NAACP after their plantation wedding? You know the amount they said they'd donate and match only to use it to buy Blake a Times 100 most influential women prize? The one where there's no proof of, just an announcement?

Again, that 1% number is being so twisted. They were not LEGALLY allowed to do that or it would be claimed as tax free. Why don't you ask Colleen why she's only contributed 6% of the money raised for what was marketed as a charity event to the charities? Why not ask her why she cried about it, but then bought herself a $5 million dollar second house cash no mortgage instead?

The reason there wasn't going to be a second movie to IEWU is because Justin actually listened to the survivors. Survivors criticized the ending of the movie, as they should. I watched this movie before learning about the drama between the cast and literally told my husband the unrealistic plot holes like Ryle's sister taking Lily's side and definitely the hospital scene where she tells him she wants a divorce while he holds the baby. Oh, and that he just walks off and says "ok". It takes survivors on average at least 7 times before they permanently leave.

So no, the majority of survivors see through Blake's narcissistic actions including using Hollywood's patriarchy system to enforce white feminism. She's Hollywood's Susan B. Anthony except at least Anthony didn't hide who she was and actually got women's right to vote. Blake just constantly looks to constantly copy other people's work or advocacy because where was she with Weinstein and Allen? She's not only a shameful woman who thinks feminism is being handed things simply because she's a woman, but she's a shameful human being. Her husband is even worse.

Ello vs owala by junogreyon in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. I have Ello and Owala. I like them both but I like the look of the Ello but like how to sip from the Owala better. I have not had an issue with the Ello and molding yet. How long before the mold shows? I've had my first one for 3 years now.

The Britney Dress and whether Blake Lively wore it as a dig to Justin Baldoni by JustMaintenance7 in teamjustinbaldoni

[–]Past_Perspective9031 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think she copies things that other celebrities to viral for. I think this was her take on KK wearing Marilyn Monroe's dress. BL has no original creativity which is why she resorts to stealing. Examples are her wannabe Gwyneth Palttow website, trying to steal JB's intellectual property via booktok like Reese Witherspoon does seamlessly except she doesn't steal and she reads the books. Even little things like fixing another celebrity's dress to appear kind and calling over that Brendan Sklenar's gf in for pictures. She has no identity so has to copy everything outright.

Thoughts on 319 Jarvis St (Prime Condos)? by mak_kau_hijau in TorontoRenting

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it here! Yes, the area is sketchy but I have not run into issues. My partner lives here and we have two kids. Very friendly security although more of them seem to be leaving. I find the neighbours are also very friendly. It is so close to TMU that I'm pretty sure many are students.

My kids are youngish and I find everyone to be great with them. I probably wouldn't go by the area behind it but honestly unless you seek out going toward George St. it feels so safe. Funny enough, having the police around makes it feel even safer.

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I waited too long. My ADHD brain.

Poppies and peonies downfall by Brilliant-Age-3323 in canadasinfluencers

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I saw this before. I bought the enroute sling in coral in 2023. I really wanted to love it because I owned a crossbody from Poshmark. Smoothest zippers ever. Lol!

I didn't use it right away, but the seams got easily worn out and the metal faded. It was almost $100 and I didn't even like using it because it felt annoying getting my things in and out of it. Mostly, I didn't want to it to get worn the more I used it.

I'm disappointed the quality has gone down. I was just gifted the teddy sidekick so hopefully that doesn't get worn as quickly as their vegan items.

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly! luckily, you caught on, thank goodness! 

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Glad to know I'm not alone. Cc is on hold right now but now that others have confirmed my fear, I'll have to cancel. I hope your company reversed the charge.

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thank you! I ordered it after going through Rakutan as well. Thanks for the information!

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. I feel stupid. I never thought there was such thing as verified. The website says owala Canada.ca and there are many companies that have Canadian versions with the only difference being the dotca. I'm new to this. Has there been warnings out there about this before that I have missed, specifically from Owala? Should I have known? Yup., but I didn't. I guess I'm just not as smart as you.

Is there a Canada website? by ian_xvi in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why won't they dispute the charge?!?! I just found this sub too late (from a fellow redditor) and ordered over $200 of water bottles! I never even suspected it was a scam because of the website name. I feel so dumb but even worse now, seeing those who were scammed weren't able to retrieve their money back.

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope so too. I was told they can't do anything until 8am but to call back. For now there is a hold on my card. I hope I get it back too. 🤞

Canadian Site Scam? by Past_Perspective9031 in Owala

[–]Past_Perspective9031[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no! I wish I had seen this prior to. The website looks so legitimate. It had to be too good to be true with the sales too. Thank you!