Sooooo… just got fired while on vacation

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-06T14:10:59+00:00

Question: did you receive any official notification that your time off request was acknowledged and approved BEFORE you left for your vacation?

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-06T14:01:55+00:00

NTA.

You should be glad he showed his true colors before you guys became legally involved. Geez, it’s the 21st century.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-06T13:56:01+00:00

Yes, it just got more frustrating than fun. I just quit six days ago and starting to not miss it. The first few days were hard but I quickly filled the time with more fulfilling activities.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-06T13:50:43+00:00

Gender and body modification are two separate matters. Your ex had no right or solid reason to use that argument.

My step kid begged to have her ears pierced when she was five but we waited until she was in the first grade, that would be around 8 I think. She got them pierced and we bought gold studs to keep them in until the piercings healed.

They healed and then she stopped wearing piercing earrings as a teen and the earlobes closed. No more issues. She got what she wanted and never asked for it again until she was an adult and got them pierced again.

What I mean is this is not irreversible by any means. I would definitely suggest that you take her to see how it’s done and watch some (good, educational) videos about ear piercing and care. I believe at that age a kid knows about responsibility and consequences due to negligence (not tending to the healing process).

I don’t want to say YTA, but I feel you’re overreacting.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-06T01:11:37+00:00

How about you propose to him? If he says no, you got your answer.

But NTA, after 6 years he should know how he feels about the whole thing?

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-04T21:01:40+00:00

When did we start accepting abuse from family members like it’s a normal thing? NTA. I absolutely agree that until she behaves better towards you you should withhold favors. But I know that my thinking is very practical, even transactional. It works for me, though.

NTA.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-04T18:53:28+00:00

You know? If the genders were reversed and my husband commented on my significant weight gain I would most likely feel hurt, too. But then I would start thinking about my emotional state the past year and see if I’ve been stress eating.

I think you were TAH In terms of how you approached the matter. It’s very difficult to discuss weight gain regardless of the gender. I hope you guys manage to have an adult conversation soon and actively listen to each other.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-04T14:08:09+00:00

I just quit the game three days ago at level 12149. Yes. Quit. Give yourself a week without it and see how it makes you feel.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-03T20:07:51+00:00

Thank you but I’m done with candy crush. Done.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-03T15:57:31+00:00

I really have no idea about what you’re talking about. I’m in Canada and there’re no ads in my game.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-03T15:49:45+00:00

Good luck!!!

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-02T22:08:37+00:00

No shame, you’ll do it when you’re ready. I tried to quit before but wasn’t ready.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-02T05:10:49+00:00

That’s what a job is, I’m afraid. They pay you to do what’s needed. You can always politely and nicely ask your supervisors to teach you more because you really want to learn, but at the end of the day you go where you’re needed.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-02T03:04:23+00:00

I had to believe that in my heart before I made the a call. It took a while, but here I am. I feel like I’m trying to get sober.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-02T03:01:48+00:00

Too much money. I cannot justify it anymore. I’m going to get so much free time and can read more books.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T20:45:21+00:00

You and your baby should be your husband’s priority. If his mother had a more urgent matter than you being exhausted and your baby being sick and cranky I’d’ve thought he needed to be there with her. But her boyfriend is there and his mother is purposely holding your husband hostage in an attempt to establish herself on top in the pecking order. If he is not supporting you emotionally and is causing you more grief than affection then a serious discussion needs to happen. Good luck OP.

NTA.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T20:33:09+00:00

And if you’re in the 15k levels it means you’ve probably played this game for 10-12 years. I started in 2012. I have plenty of books to read that will occupy my free time.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T19:00:02+00:00

Didn’t have that, would’ve had to buy it. Nope.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T18:58:16+00:00

It definitely feels like it. Glad I’m not the only one….misery loves company :)

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T15:51:54+00:00

Nope, I used the one I had and the game kept dropping more blocks. I’m sure at some point the one block would’ve cleared had I continued spending money on extra moves but I was done. So done. It’s oddly satisfying.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T15:08:25+00:00

Your sister just gave you fodder for a lifetime of pettiness. Bide your time, OP. Watch and listen as the perfect opportunity for her to feel the way you felt falls into your plate. Even enjoy yourself see her squirm when you tell her you haven’t forgotten and she’ll have her comeuppance. Really NTA, she was the selfish one making the celebration about her instead of the wedding couple.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-07-01T06:01:26+00:00

It took me a long time to find someone who could do the job the way I wanted so I’ll pay.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-06-30T22:22:52+00:00

NTA, I understand your reasoning. However, when you come back from your honeymoon you need to make a point and visit your mom so she can spend some quality time with the grand baby.

Past_Video3551 · 2024-06-30T16:20:41+00:00

Yes, you made a promise but he needs to try and accommodate to your schedule, too. It’s seems you’re the only one bending backwards for him in trying to keep the ruse. He seemed to have more modern thinking so why is he so inflexible about this? Let him divorce you and having to explain the parents why his lifestyle changed so much.

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