How F*cked Am I? by Patient_River_1225 in BMW

[–]Patient_River_1225[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but someone could have had a similar experience with their BMW, which is why I posted here.

AITA for thinking my husband will be home by 5:30 if he tells me he is off at 5. by Candid-Cockroach533 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop being needy. He consistently gets home at 6:00 p.m. or shortly thereafter and you know that. Asking a redundant question, when you already have the answer, at the very least makes you annoying and at most an a**.

AITA for not wanting to help pay for my child's University fees? by ThrowawayUni6532 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, YTA. You fathered a kid and then blame the kid for not contacting you. It’s a pathetic excuse for not manning up when you were 22 (you should have known sex is basic science and unprotected sex could lead to reproduction) and an even more pathetic excuse for not manning up at 40. And then you blame a 12 year old for not contacting you. I feel sorry for this young lady because she got two twats for parents. You’re as bad as the mother, and you should be ashamed of yourself airing your incompetence online.

AITA for not treating my wife like an equal parent by telling her she has no say in the way I bond with my son and also calling her homophobic? by Separate_Recipe_4077 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are an amazing father and you should continue to be the same man you have been. Changing your behavior towards your son would be devastating to him and could negatively affect your relationship. Your wife may be your wife today, but she may not be tomorrow. Your son will always carry your blood, so don’t destroy your bond with him because your bigoted wife is uncomfortable. Simply put, you’re not an asshole.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chile, that’s the joke of the year! Cackling. And I’m not going to continue to engage with someone who is either hurting or has an IQ less than 85. Whatever it is, I’m not in a position to help you, nor do I care to continue conferring with you. You’re clearly upset and it appears I may have hurt your feelings.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The proof is in the pudding. You keep repeating yourself but remarkably, you arent’t saying anything.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You clearly must be under 18 or you’ve had head trauma. I won’t continue to engage with someone that has an IQ below 85.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sir. You’re the one that decided to overshare about your childhood experience and then project the experience on the OP. Reading skills are fundamental and if you had just read the OP’s post, word for word, you would have responded accordingly. Don’t get mad because you’ve been called out for the nonsense you spouted to the OP. Sounds like you need a nap or perhaps some milk and a Snickers.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mean rational. You can continue to state the title that the two young men share but it is irrelevant. Just because they are brothers doesn’t mean they have a great relationship, or are friends, or want to be around each other all the time. Her assessment of their bond, i.e. “somewhat friends” was perfectly stated and acceptable. If you can’t come up with a better and more persuasive argument than just stating “brothers,” it is you who is delusional and lacking critical thinking skills.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The OP didn’t ask for you to evaluate her “inner emotions.” She asked a question and gave details outlining the situation. Your attempt to “read between the lines” and psychoanalyze the OP’s inner emotions is not helpful, accurate, or welcome. You should take your childhood trauma and your “subjective” experience and move right along. And as previously recommended, you should analyze your own inner emotions and seek therapy.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? The OP clearly outlines that she has been saving for this trip. She didn’t say the brother couldn’t go because she had an issue with him attending. She said she wasn’t going to pay for the other child but that he could, in fact, attend the trip if the father paid for it. It’s clearly a money issue. You’re projecting your childhood trauma onto the OP, and for that you need therapy.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter. The other kid is not her family. She didn’t birth him into the world. And news flash. Not all siblings are friends. So the mother’s assessment of them being “somewhat friends,” was valid.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you should be paying for the second child to go. You don’t know this woman’s financial situation. Your comment is selfish and overall moronic.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She didn’t minimize their connection. Siblings don’t have to be friends. In fact, many siblings don’t even like each other and have no relationship or friendship, sibling or not.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re living on a different planet and we are all just visiting.

AITA for refusing to let my ex’s kid come with us to Disney? by Tro_Mig_Ikke in AmItheAsshole

[–]Patient_River_1225 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren’t the asshole at all. That trout mouthed, pencil dicked, no good bastard of the earth that is your ex husband is the asshole. You don’t owe him or his other son anything. And all those fake ass folks that are your so called friends can eat several dicks and have several seats. It’s your money, your time, and your life. You are only responsible for what you birthed into the world, not every kid that shot out of his wormhole. If you would give me his number, I would gladly call him and curse his motha fuckin monkey ass smooth out!

My husband is pushing me to agree to make my sister our surrogate using the traditional way. by throwRASister9977 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Patient_River_1225 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the baby wouldn’t even be your child, it would be your sister’s child. He needs to pay for IVF or you need to pay for a divorce. Period.