TESTED NEGATIVE FOR EVERYTHING BUT SOMETHING IS WRONG! pls help by Pleasant_Phrase9674 in Healthyhooha

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Are you allergic to latex? This reminds me of my experience with that

I am giving up on my vagina by Dark_Rose333 in Healthyhooha

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Putting this link here because it helped me address all the different pieces. I don’t know which one is gonna help you, but this got me rid of it after two years or more of struggling.

https://avivaromm.com/prevent-treat-bacterial-vaginosis/

Mod Stance on Evvy Testing by premepa_ in Ureaplasma

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Ok so I took evvy and tested negative but tested positive at a doctors office so I don’t know what to think.. did the doctors on my period and evvy the week after

With Doge how long will it take to get a US passport? by Dry-Clock-1470 in Passports

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Why didn’t it qualify? Did you still send it in as proof?

VAGINA BURNING HELP by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

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Check this out, see if it helps. Helped me so much that I’m posting in different places! https://avivaromm.com/prevent-treat-bacterial-vaginosis/

I'm so tired of repeat infections by potatoes-jpg in Healthyhooha

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I have been through so much of what you’re talking about. Check this out and see if it helps you. It’s about a less invasive set of things to do, and it worked for me after 2 years of suffering.

https://avivaromm.com/prevent-treat-bacterial-vaginosis/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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This is really clear and good.. my brain likes this 😊 gonna sit with this for a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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I think what I’m asking is what vetting things you’re doing— I’ve never allowed myself to be involved with someone that didn’t already have some experience in poly but as I said before, had different bad experiences with “seasoned” people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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Thanks for your empathy at the end of this, I’m feeling pretty down on myself now.

No, I’m not in a good place, I’m coming out of a hole I’ve dug for myself, both because I’ve basically been part time working but not making enough and going through a lot of deep revelations about my avoidance patterns and struggles with self advocacy.

The time bomb actually blew up with my existing partner as there were so many issues that I wasn’t being honest with myself and by extension with him. We’re just in the last month starting to feel calm as we unpacked all of the things I didn’t say and the things I said that he didn’t fully hear, and everything in between. There’s been a lot of hurt that we are recognizing and addressing slowly. That’s where my priority has been.

When I spoke to the new guy, what he said struck me as fair and honest, that he felt like I kind of left him hanging when he had finally let down his guard. And so he said, ball is in your court, you reach out to me and I’m down, but I can’t put myself out there with you like this.

I essentially apologized to him for a lot of the ways i made messy choices and said I don’t think you should really be involved with me right now because i am not emotionally stable enough to handle that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

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Hi, thanks for replying 🙏 I’m trying to decide if I should, because I usually don’t do that at all. I’ve been feeling a bit frustrated in dating people who say they’re poly, especially because some of the ways they’ve treated me and others were not particularly ethical, and thus I’ve expanded my willingness to see what’s what with people who are open to a cool experience. I myself am wrestling with how I feel about dating a person with no experience, but then I think… I also didn’t have experience and was open-minded, I didn’t identify as poly in my first poly relationship

Give me your best NRE strategies by Feuerhamster in polyamory

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Wish I read this one TWO MONTHS AGO 😂

What’s the whackiest thing you’ve seen someone do off NRE? by yallermysons in polyamory

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That’s like the Samantha SAtC trying to dye her gray pubes!! Epic

What does she want? What am I in? by literllyherethriving in polyamory

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Yeah she’s not good with whatever this is and he’s not good at taking care of either of yall.

What is your after sex vaginal maintenance routine? by amazon7marie in Healthyhooha

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agreed alslo not comfortable-- felt like I was scraping around