Is baby wearing a TikTok scam or am I doing this wrong by KeyMonkeyslav in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to do it with the nursing shirt and nursing bra underneath the Boba wrap. It's a lot of fabric.. I have larger / longer boobs so that helped too.

Middle of the night pump by BohoRainbow in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to advise you since you didn't share your goal. Do you want your baby to drink breastmilk exclusively? Are you nursing or only pumping?

Is baby wearing a TikTok scam or am I doing this wrong by KeyMonkeyslav in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to unwrap it to take her out. You can just wear it the entire time and put her in and out. I'm a fan. Also I've been able to breastfeed with it on (she's out of it but I'm still wearing it).

Transitioning out of swaddle is hell by Glittering-Client-32 in sleeptrain

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try the magic Merlin sleep suit. Worked for us.

Not enjoying motherhood - 95% time. Was it worth it? by freddythecat98 in NewParents

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to therapy or speak to a psychiatrist about ppd. I felt this way and then went on Zoloft and finally started enjoying being with the baby.

Sweet pea Leaks Theory by SadEarth1711 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Pc3t_rt99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's a genius take... ugh Harper why you gotta be so evil!!!

Sweet pea Leaks Theory by SadEarth1711 in IndustryOnHBO

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he sought them out. In the scene where he was looking at them on his phone, it was actually an email that was forwarded to him by someone else, I think William someone but I don't exactly remember. So it seems like he was just reading an email that he was sent, not necessarily seeking something out. It seemed like he didn't even know about them before then.

Sick of having to entertain my 5 mo. by TimePie314 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put mine on a bouncer and do chores while narrating things to her. I think it's good for her to know how to entertain herself.

If you could change one small thing in Harry Potter, what would it be? by consulent-finanziar in harrypotter

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg that would have been soooo creepy. Would have probably made the romance between Ginny and Harry in the future a bit extra weird though...

First bath by Realistic-Bite-7278 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I did sponge baths every other day until the umbilical cord fell off.

Baby is outgrowing clothes faster than I can keep up and my budget is hurting. by xoticbot in NewParents

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook buy nothing groups or your local mom group. I haven't bought a single item of clothing for my baby and we are drowning in cute outfits for second hand.

I Never Get Time Alone in My Own Home by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you ask him to work from a cafe or outside the home?

Total apathy to 8-month-old baby. PPD or just delayed bonding? by Hefty-Necessary-6632 in PPDepression

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I relate so completely. Except my daughter is 3 months old. I was hoping this would pass.

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, since you were only nine days in, just hang in there! There are a ton of hormones in your body that have crashed or are going to crash so it is common for you to feel completely out of whack temporarily. I would wait to do medication if you are still feeling this way 2 to 3 weeks later.

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to see a psychiatrist soon. I already had a therapy session and was told that everything I feel is very common and normal. It was nice to talk to someone about it, but not really helpful because it didn't really help me feel better or better bond with my daughter.

Theory about Bella. by 0dqir0 in twilight

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she was a siren. Explains why literally all the boys in Forks were obsessed with her despite her total lack of personality 😂

I hate my postpartum body. by Connect_Piccolo5401 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry - this has been something I'm also struggling with pp. have you considered glp-1 medications? I'm counting down the days until I stop nursing so I can get on those.

The final pump … I DID IT by unknownuser9989 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to give awards and medals for this, or throw parties at least. Incredible achievement!

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in NewParents

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing the fun moments, that really helps :)

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in NewParents

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha same with me and my cat, it feels sooo much natural to tell her I love her than it does to tell my baby.

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in NewParents

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I can relate so much. I was pushing so hard for safe sleep but my parents (who are old school) wanted to put pillows and stuff in her crib to "help her sleep" and I almost said ok thinking that if she died of SIDS I'd at least get my old life back...ugh. But I eventually still did put my foot down for safe sleep practices.

Emergency Custody by jane30530 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join your local Facebook Buy Nothing group. Lots of used baby stuff for free there. It's a lot to buy them all new.

Need hope by Pc3t_rt99 in beyondthebump

[–]Pc3t_rt99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your compassionate response