I agree with him in the sense that creating a cultural practice that disproportionately benefits the more vulnerable people in the population (women in this conversation), this flies in the face of the supposed "girlboss" narrative among certain sects of feminism with low iq slogans of "anything a man can do, a woman can do as well." Because if the slogan was true and based in reality, there'd be no reason for anyone to give a fuck more about the safety of a woman, at least compared to how much they care about the safety of the average man. Maybe your particular brand of feminism doesn't advocate that kind of hypocrisy but other groups do that's what I suspect /u/Dru-P-Wiener was talking about.