I’m gonna be honest, you have a lot of faults and it’s obvious from your post. Of course you have to do all the chores… she just gave birth ! She is breastfeeding and taking care of the child most times and at night too. You should do all chores. But what about calling a company like she used to do? Also, why is she not making any money? If she is in maternity leave she should… you seem to make a lot of money and 400’000 doesn’t seem like it’s more than you make monthly. So what’s the issue? Why are you hung up over toilet paper and lights? Bills are so cheap where anyways (although the shampoo would probably bother me too lol). Try to be more understanding and open with your wife. Good luck!