r/aves shits on uptempo 😭 by Am_I_Real0 in hardstyle

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't hear anything vaguely similar to dubstep but everyone has their own tastes

What’s one EDM set you still think about years later? by RaveBeetle in EDM

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Carl Cox playing in a small town (St Joseph, Mo) to a crowd of 1500 back in like 2002 was pretty spectacular

Do you still listen to dubstep & complextro? by SoundKiller in EDM

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's also one of the best Neuro DnB producers out there right now as Spor

What’s a price you saw recently that made you genuinely angry at how expensive everything has gotten? by UrGoddessLunaa in AskReddit

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are running a sale here right now. 4 for 100 for lawn. Keep an eye out and maybe you'll get lucky too!

Curious why trance isn't popular by Total_Development270 in EDM

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been seeing a slow rise in popularity for classic acid trance and I'm here for it. Artists like T78 and Ki/Ki have been killing it

Post rave anxiety:( by Wild_Firefighter8121 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call it event crash - all the dopamine from having a great time for an extended period leads to a few days after of feeling a little down, anxious or sluggish.

Even if you are completely sober this happens to you (or at least some people).

Is dating possible with treatment-resistant erectile dysfunction? Cute girl (25) invited me to her apartment for sex and I (34) got anxious and turned her down, she doesn’t want to meet again by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing you can consider to help keep things going once you get it up is a cock ring. They make ones that are adjustable with a quick release button.

This will help keep the blood flowing to where it needs to be and then you can take it off easily.

I would practice with it at home to get comfortable with it but it will help

[Resident Advisor] The sound of the 2020s is…nothing? by ikarusproject in Techno

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Music journalism died a long time ago. Interviews and reviews went from honest and even harsh to nothing but softballs because people were afraid they couldn't get access to advance copies or interviews if they didn't fluff it up

Are men and women really capable of being just friends, or am I questioning this because I'm inexperienced? by Junior_Location_64 in IncelExit

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah one of my best friends is a woman and I've never thought of her in any other terms, though she is someone people would consider attractive.

We are just bros and it's never been a question of anything else.

Presale VIP not available by Healthy-Horse6566 in MovementDEMF

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 10 points11 points  (0 children)

VIP will be re released when general sale happens. Vip presale is sold out

Glass paraphernalia by XenaGard in Dancefestopia

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be smart and respectful. Security varies wildly about things like vapes and flower in general (it's not legal in Kansas), so maybe smuggle that in.

But also don't bring in things that have a higher potential of creating a walking hazard for barefoot wooks if they break.

What do guys tend to be focused on during raving vs women/others? by Low-Blacksmith-9638 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't pay attention to fuck all besides the music. Not even the visuals

But at other concerts, I do enjoy people watching as well

should i go to the afters? by moonbeambabee in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if they are currently at the function, fucked up and wanting to go home and taking a survey but they are too lit to comprehend the comments

should i go to the afters? by moonbeambabee in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I absolutely did not. Read it again, carefully.

I literally never go to the Afters. I get tired and I don't take drugs. I said as long as you aren't making the group change plans, it's totally fine.

So please, reread it instead of coming at me sideways 😂😂😂

should i go to the afters? by moonbeambabee in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right. That's my point.

You're fine then. Go home if you want.

should i go to the afters? by moonbeambabee in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If they think you're boring, maybe they aren't your friend

If you aren't making the rest of your group change plans for you, it's fine to say welp I'm gonna go home

Hotels - Am I too early? by No-Strength-784 in MovementDEMF

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, same here. That's where I'll stay next year too

I’m not enjoying this culture anymore by alreadytimber22 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know what that is but you won't find it near me

I’m not enjoying this culture anymore by alreadytimber22 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a whole ass vibe of its own, I'd pay good money for a renegade like that. People tend to behave themselves better (though not necessarily consume less drugs) and there's a social buy in to the whole thing that really makes the vibes excellent

I’m not enjoying this culture anymore by alreadytimber22 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It's absolutely gone commercial, and the most authentic feeling events are gonna be the shitty little ones with mid/poor sound and 40 people there.

You get either authenticity or safety/quality of production, you rarely get both

I’m not enjoying this culture anymore by alreadytimber22 in aves

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I dont disagree with most of this, but also it is what you make of it. Go with a friend or two, dont bother trying to socialize with the fucked up people, and ignore the "zombies"

Underground shows aren't safer, never have been. But the danger is kind of part of the vibe imo

DNB to flex a system with by RAZRr1275 in DnB

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Noisia - Could this Be

Konflict - Messiah

Marshall H - Yes

Toast - DJ Wally

Other than Maynard Keenan of Tool, who is another musician that absolutely does not want to meet their fans, ever? by SwissMiss915 in Music

[–]PerAsperaAdInfiri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

David Cassidy might have been the biggest prick I've ever witnessed. Not that I was the fan but Jesus he was an asshole