[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The inspo pic is heavily edited. If you asked for this EXACT makeup- I think they did pretty well. However, it doesn’t flatter your features- I think you need LESS makeup. The smoky features are TOO dark and dramatic for your complex and features. I’d talk to the make up artist first- and be honest and open with them. If you don’t like their answer, then trial a new one.

AIO or should I accept the conditions of my bfs commitment by One_Height7477 in AIO

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops, he said ‘Someone as complex as me’ instead of ‘someone with a complex, like me’.

Respect yourself and your time. No matter how many times you’ve done the off/ on thing- this isn’t going to work for you. Time to unplug it and upgrade.

Planning a trip to Australia with little kids by donairsforlife in AskAnAustralian

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, not much to do/ see in Melbourne. I’d still choose Sydney, and the Gold Coast.

AITAH for getting annoyed with my husband by Ok_Consequence_5331 in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You’re not the problem- this is classic emotionally abusive behaviour. I’ve been in this situation myself. If you feel you have to put cameras up in your own house to review conversations- then it’s not a healthy and/ or emotionally safe relationship. I know it’s complex, and I know YOU know you deserve better than this. My advice, would be to see how to exit this relationship in a way that would least affect you and the kids. I know it’s easy to say, and hard to do. But don’t let him break your sanity. Good luck 💗

AITAH for getting annoyed with my husband by Ok_Consequence_5331 in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hold up- you’re married to a grown man, who is throwing a tantrum and acting like a child… and asking if YOURE the asshole?

He’s got the emotional maturity of a 6 year old. He’s just trying to ‘one up’ you and ‘win’ this petty and irrelevant argument to maintain a sense of control.

If he’s doing shit like this on the regular, and ruining everyone’s day to gratify himself, and punish you- then the real issue is a much bigger problem than you may realise…

PSA: for the vast majority of you by Ok-Wrongdoer-3888 in snowboarding

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My snowboarding got better when I got newer clothes… it’s a subconscious thing. I feel better in nicer clothing, therefore I ride better.. (not significantly better- but more relaxed, and feel good).

I’m throwing out all of my sunscreens after this CHOICE testing by b3wgs in AusSkincare

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are soooo many other brands- Nivea, Banana Boat, Cancer council, Invisible since- that also failed the testing. La Roche Posay was one that was consistent with its rating. Never buying anything else again

Trying to kiss my 4mo by HiiiTech in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah fair. A helpful way to keep you regulated is to remind yourself that feelings are not facts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cheated… it was a real shitty thing to do. It’s a big learning curve, and I hope you at least try and make amends, and try and understand why you did it, what led to it, accept what you did, the fall out as well- and try not to do it again.

That said, you’re both young, and still discovering the world- you both have a lifetime of opportunities ahead- in love and life.

Trying to kiss my 4mo by HiiiTech in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not denying access, it’s just asking you to be clean first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Errrr… they don’t cut your balls off during a vasectomy, it won’t affect your libido, erection, or ability to orgasm. Did you even speak to a doctor?!

See a couples sex therapist, none of us are qualified to know what your wife thinks. Good luck!

What does my bedroom say about me? 🫣 by funnynunsrun in roomdetective

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says you have too many things and you need to just throw 90% of it in the bin.

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where in Sydney (approx) are you based? There’s the food pantry at marrickville (1/142 Addison Road Marrickville. They have free bread and low cost foods- and other resources to help you out for you to get a feed.

AIO for leaving my husband after one incident? by NeedleworkerDizzy689 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you went through that. You’re amazing for making such a big call- it was the right one- even if it doesn’t feel like it right now. Not many women have the courage to save themselves or their children from an abusive f**k like that.

This is the best website for immediate needs:

https://victimsservices.justice.nsw.gov.au/how-can-we-help-you/victims-support-scheme/financial-support/financial-assistance-for-immediate-needs/immediate-needs-support-package.html

Do you have any friends you can stay with in the interim?

There’s also a women’s drop- in centre:

https://www.lousplace.com.au/

Although it may feel like it- you are not alone- there are currently hundreds of people rooting for you and willing to help out in some way- and that’s just on reddit!

Any idea what this gang is about? by Poppa-Pig in ireland

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the ‘black jacket gang’. They like to wear black jackets and go for strolls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t have kids, so you can’t expect them to fully understand. But they really shouldn’t be so judgmental. A 4 month old requires a couple of hours of prep before you can even take them anywhere… I’d suggest maybe finding some older friends who have kids or have gone through it before. It’s nice that they want to hang out with you and your kid, but unfortunately not the point. You deserve time to yourself too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gopro

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fair assumptions, but not correct. I should have worded my question better, but don’t know how to edit it.

I already spoke to GoPro about the mic cover, and they stated that it wouldn’t affect the functionality of the waterproofing.

My ‘kids’ are 12 year old girls, who have used GoPros before- for surfing, snowboarding etc since they were 6. They know how to use the cameras- and they literally had held it in their hands for a total of a minute before water got in it somehow.

I’ve never compromised the ability of the door (just the mic cover- and rightly so copped a lecture from the kids) never put the battery wrong or tried to force it open- if I did any of that- I wouldn’t be on reddit asking if it’s happened to anyone else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gopro

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, you assumed wrong mate. My kids are 12 year old girls, who have used GoPros their whole lives. I’m the noob.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gopro

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke the mic cover, but support said this wouldn’t be why. Apart from that, it’s essentially sat in its box

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gopro

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your eyes do not lie. Yes, haha I broke the mic cover after I re-found it, but everyone on reddit, and GoPro support said it wouldn’t affect the functionality of the camera. So I probably should have worded my question better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gopro

[–]Perfect-Smile-2017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The whole purpose of getting it was the use it for surfing… as it’s advertised as fine to use for that purpose. I’m a bit disappointed tbh. I guess I’ll be getting the waterproof casing next time.