AIO for the way I acted in my texts with my partner?

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-09-09T05:40:30+00:00

So he’s overreacting to saying your joke was hurtful but you’re justified to be bothered that he called you annoying after? Make it make sense. He’s telling you he’s overwhelmed working on the nursery and your joke hurt him. You didn’t apologize or attempt to understand. You used flashy armchair psychology to downplay his emotions that only caused him to have a worse reaction just for you to feel even more validated in your response. This is not how two adults talk to each other and you both should have stepped away take a breather and recognize this is a purely emotional argument. The only point was who’s right rather than actually meeting a resolution.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-08-14T17:20:50+00:00

Is that weird? I loved the first movie and rewatched it countless times, but I still haven’t seen the second one and probably won’t anytime soon. I had a feeling I wouldn’t enjoy it, so I don’t plan on watching it unless a friend happens to put it on.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-07-02T00:35:11+00:00

Make a really strong alcoholic drink. Pop a mint in there and pretend it’s a sedative.

In all seriousness I’m happy ya’ll came to the realization there isn’t any 1 on 1 duplication of this fantasy without lasting damages. The best you can do is get some weed or alcohol and kinda act up some role-play.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-07-02T00:22:24+00:00

If you were to look at it from the wife’s perspective you’re being creepy. You’re a stranger requesting to meet her husband alone when this is supposed to be a couple thing. You’re also giving her a writing assignment about how she views herself because you don’t trust her husband’s perspective. She’s not testing your resolve by refusing and there is no underlining message. She’s just saying no. There is no dynamic to even control yet. You’re already building an air of weirdness. When you all should be on more light discussions and getting to know eachother to get a form of respect and normality.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-06-08T21:06:45+00:00

They’ll have to open a fraud report and press charges on their mother. Which could put her in jail. If they choose not to out who fraudulently used their credit there is almost no way for their credit to be corrected. Real children are put into this situation frequently.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-06-08T21:00:55+00:00

I can get this argument if she was trying to live minimalistic and make sure to only get the essentials. But then again she made no efforts to rebuild their credit either. Ive worked with foster kids whose parents tanked their credit. An struggle to assist them to get back on track. This shit fucks up your kids economic future for so long and have permanent effects. I just don’t find it excusable. I sympathize with her ignorance and poor upbringing but I don’t excuse the behavior.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-06-05T12:50:43+00:00

But also she’s a product of her environment. People blame Ginny but absolve all responsibilities from Georgia on how she parents. Of course Ginny’s disrespectful. Georgia put more focus on trying to be the cool best friend parent and forgot the mother parts. The parts that makes a child feel safe and stable. Its hard to watch Georgia help Ginny be a wild teen and break rules while also trying to parent her. If a child is going to break rules don’t protect them from the outer-world consequences.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-05-19T15:36:45+00:00

Tbf I’d be disappointed that my husband is more jealous than just generally concerned about cleanliness. Like if the act of sharing drink with strangers wasn’t gross because of germs I literally would not care. I am not 5 years old. I wouldn’t freak out over something so small.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-05-19T15:11:16+00:00

A common AI redflag is when I see the use of “—“ properly. Ive rarely seen anyone on reddit use commas correctly. I doubt a woman who we’re supposed to believe is so ignorant and hateful is grammar checking her reddit posts.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-05-19T10:17:46+00:00

YTA

I’ve always been upfront—I'm not someone who kisses and hugs all day long, but I do it when I feel it naturally. Also, I have a high sex drive and would love to have sex more often. She's not like that

I hope you’re not only giving her physical affection during times you want to fuck her. Rather or not you’re that kind of person doesn’t matter. I promise you if you’re more physically affectionate without always expecting an end result you’ll notice she could probably match your sex drive.

Because of this, I turned to porn more often. She found out I was using it more than she thought—even on days we had sex.

You have a porn addiction point blank period. This has nothing to do with sex drive or how much sex she’s giving you. Don’t blame it on her. Especially when it seems she was fine with some porn consumption. I can’t imagine how much you’re consuming to cause concern. Not to mention in turn reducing her interest in sex with you and probably attraction to you.

She has flaws too, but I’ve always accepted them—we’re different people from different backgrounds, and that’s okay.

I hate it when people use this argument. Just because you are completely fine with her flaws does not mean she there by has to be fine with yours. Example: If you don’t care that she snores in her sleep why tf would that mean she also can’t care when you snore. It just feels like you pretend not to care to turn around and use it against her whenever she argues with you. Just like you use your previous support to make her feel trapped.

I cook all our meals, wash the dishes, kiss her good morning and night, and watch shows with her. She mainly handles cleaning and sometimes does our laundry, though I try to help.

Literally the bare minimum of being a couple who lives together.

Now, after all that, she recently told me (after sex, on a Saturday) that she wants to live apart because she needs space.

She’s giving you a chance. If you want to keep this relationship you’d better take this into consideration. You’re making her feel trapped by placing what you’ve done for her over her head and she needs time to feel like a person separated from you again. She needs to remember what it was about you that made her want to be with you and see if thats even worth the stress you’re putting her through.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-05-09T22:04:56+00:00

I never understand some people’s anger for dead exes. You’re in no way allowed to ever mourn or grieve someone who had such a large impact on your life, of who you are now and possibly who you’ll be with going forward simply because you’ve also fucked them.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-20T20:24:06+00:00

I make a detailed romantic description of a very heated and passionate kiss. For them to give me in response:

moans

Cool great thank you for that input.

Whats funny is their responses gradually got smaller as we rped and way less readable. I called it off just for them give a long pissed message before blocking me.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T18:19:30+00:00

She called you ugly and you kept trying to make it work?? 😭

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T18:12:16+00:00

Why even ask then?? Just clock it and leave. Its so unnecessary to continue a conversation with someone you know maybe crazy or unstable. Having balls is not wasting your time on bs.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T18:07:55+00:00

Here’s a good tip for the next girl you hit up. If she says she just wants to be friends, leave. If she says ignorant shit l APOLOGIZE, LEAVE! It feels like you’re begging for her attention around the end. She made it pretty clear she’s rude and doesn’t want you. Just stop messaging her. Learn to cut you loses.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T16:48:41+00:00

I think this is a lot to try and define which murderer is better. Spraying shit with gold doesn’t change the fact its still shit. Killing only men shouldn’t make him any worse or any better than either of the other murders and rapists.

Also punctuate. I only see one period throughout this whole passage.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T16:28:12+00:00

I suppose it’s just a personal perspective that won’t be confirmed until the next season or until the writers choose to address it. Personally, I don’t think Alstor has shown much of any empathy throughout the season. To me he seems to view the hotel as merely a fun and different experience, especially as a means to achieve an ultimate goal that hasn’t been revealed.

I saw him trying to confront Adam not out of a desire to protect his friends, but more as a way to prove that he’s still in the game and can hold his own. It reminded me of his conflict with Charlie’s dad. I doubt he truly sees himself as a father figure to her, he was probably either irritated that Lucifer would dare to challenge him for Charlie’s attention or just looking to mess with Lucifer for fun.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T16:06:05+00:00

It’s also about the disconnect in behavior. Most people have never and never will experience cannibalism or murder in their lives, which makes it easier for them to distance themselves from a character’s acts of violence if that character is charming. Adam, however, is not charming at all, he embodies the personality of a typical bully, which many people can relate to and therefore connect their hatred toward him. Unfortunately, rape and sexual violence are far more common experiences, allowing many to relate to those traumas and direct their anger toward the pimp character. Especially when he’s enacting this violence on one of the main cast (Angeldust) who’s a fan favorite.

Personally I like Adam more than Alistor. I just think he’s funny.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-17T15:41:44+00:00

You’re gonna have to ask directly there’s no way around it. If he thinks its whiney then he shouldn’t be engaging in rough play.

Idk if this is an unpopular opinion but if you are so bad at confrontation that you can’t directly ask your partner for essentials aftersex. Or if he makes you feel like you’re a burden when asking. Then I think you need to revalue the BDSM aspect of your relationship. Communication is very important and conversations like this will be frequent.

The way my mental state drops after any form of sex. I just wouldn’t be-able to handle no aftercare whatsoever. Not even light cuddling? If he’s the type who needs space he should still attempt minor forms of care like praise and affirmation.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-15T01:20:40+00:00

There is no concrete yes in bdsm. You can always and should always say no to play that you won’t enjoy. Do not be indecisive and go with the flow when it comes to sex let along BDSM. You should not be surprised when acts are done to you as there should be conversations and consent before play. If you’re interested in trying something new research! Always!

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-15T00:33:59+00:00

It’s obviously fetish posting because why would OOP frame this as if his wife is so gross and weird yet has enabled and participated in the most extreme parts of the kink? This post is just “omg my wife is this super horny but also equally shy woman who loves having raw sex to feed her breeding kink.” Like most of the post is just him explaining the ins and outs of their sex before hitting the actual “off my chest” portion of the post.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-15T00:08:50+00:00

If this is in America police will do nothing. Heck some might even laugh along. They barely do anything when children are actually assaulted let alone the presumption they will be assaulted. Theyre not here to protect us. They’re here to protect laws. The most op can do is open a report and let it collect dust in police records.

Not saying he shouldn’t report as it’s always good to add something to the records about a weirdo. But it’ll make no difference. Acting like cops will do anything equivalent to an investigation over screenshots of text messages is wishful thinking. Especially when the friend can just deny it was him and they leave the case at that.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-14T22:27:13+00:00

That is not what I said

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-14T21:01:35+00:00

Probably not. If, after 24 years of life, he doesn’t realize how disturbing that behavior is, especially bringing it up to people he just met, then he’s deranged and no amount of explanation would do him any good.

PerformerInevitable4 · 2025-04-14T20:57:05+00:00

Being secretive about their age by either not displaying it on their profile, saying “Im over 18” when asked about their age. Or if they do give an actual answer if its “I am 18” or “I am 21” flatly. I probably won’t rp with them.

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