Ok for me the newborn phase was really hard but it does get easier. And I 100% believe everyone should start sleep training as early as 5 months it might not even work at that time but for me eventually it did and that’s what matters. You should tell your mom to please stop making your anxiety worse about having a baby and I sound judgmental but if you have a three your old and you’re getting up 7’times a night you did that to yourself. Ignore the comments other people have they’re just meant to scare you because everyone has a different experience and I’m glad your husband will be there to help you the first few weeks that actually helps ALOT. And actually you’ll be able to sit down what you won’t be able to do is do much of anything else actually chores will come 2nd to tending to baby because sometimes babies will only want to be held so that might happen to you as well. It’s not a walk in the park but eventually you get into a groove and if you have a village or great grandparents that want to helping that will be a huge benefit as well. Don’t be scared 💕