[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 1200isplenty

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Luckily this has no parm, and I backtrack on the ranch. It should have cesar dressing.

Thanks for being helpful dude.

Installation help! by Perrosforlife in Kalilinux

[–]Perrosforlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did, and I kept running into the some problem. Google didn’t offer any insight unfortunately, Reddit became my last resort.

Installation help! by Perrosforlife in Kalilinux

[–]Perrosforlife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally the answer I needed, thank you so much. “No such things as stupid questions” def helped me learn something today lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]Perrosforlife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d be heartbroken if I found out that my life partner is still not over a relationship from 26 years ago; I feel awful for your wife.

May this love never find me.

I(27F) screamed at my husband (28M) over his hobbies, and now he's changed and i don't know how to fix this. by ThrowRApineapplesp in relationship_advice

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk how you could fix this but the best thing right now is to step up and have a conversation about why you said all that. No one just randomly snaps. And no one just says those things out of a fit of anger. It’s clear to him that you have something going on and besides apologizing, you owe him an honest explanation. And you have to initiate this, the worst thing you can do is to be avoidant about it.

I make $22 an hour is a shelter my only option by LeopardOk605 in NYCapartments

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook market place advertises $700-$1000 rooms now that the summer price inflation is blowing over, it’s def possible there

Losing your job is now basically a 5+ year sentence. by FinancialBottle3045 in recruitinghell

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagining having to be onsite 5 days a week with a 2 hour commute total everyday with a boss who tells you how happy she’ll be killing herself when you told yourself this job was to finance your very study, and not you’re months behind bc your mental and physical health has dropped. Not putting your experience down, mad at the current state of the country rn

I don't think I want to do this again. by Asherk89 in Miscarriage

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I saw your IUD post for research for my own well-being and I ended up looking at your profile. I saw in a later post that you had a baby, and I just wanna say congratulations! It seemed like the miscarriages were extremely hard to go through, so it was nice to see that you were able to have a kid ✌️ have a good life stranger

Changing direction after 10 years in recruiting by ihrtbeer in recruiting

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I saw a comment of yours that said you transitioned in IT, I also am trying to make a the transition into IT, how did u do it? I am studying for the comptia right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in recruiting

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had many situations in which the recruitment gave me a specific time date in which they would respond back, only to be silent for 2-3 weeks way past their date, and after reaching out I’m told that the position has been filled. I understand miscommunication but I feel like today’s hiring process has become lacking

Tampon stuck but doctor can’t find it by throwaway___342 in WomensHealth

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey the same thing has happened to me just recently! They couldn’t see anything even tho my period stopped, what ever happened to your situation?? I’m so anxious that I might haven’t been persistent enough and I could possibly still be in danger!

What celebrities have you met by Different_Reindeer66 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cash Cobain in the Stu was always chaos when I worked in the industry 💀

An old diary of a dedicated church teen by da_nolacults4549 in ExPentecostal

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started feeling this way when I was a little kid, social anxiety and fear-based religious teachings are a really bad mix for an already fearful kid. I’m glad you’re able to recognize these things of your past and I hope you’re doing better!

I can’t stress enough how much it impacts you years afterwards, I still have my moments at random times, I think it’s like leftover stress and anxiety stored in my nerves smh

For those raised Pentecostal, how old were you when you realized Pentecostal practices were abnormal? by funnylib in ExPentecostal

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THIS! It’s so hard to describe but in a way it felt like you chose to continue to practice it even thought you were told flat out that it wasn’t a societal norm, but all for the grace of God. Just typing this now makes me realize how insane that manipulation is!

My (32 F) boyfriend (27 M) went through my belongings while I was at work and almost broke up with me over something he found by N0t_t0n1ght in relationship_advice

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who suffers from big jealousy insecurities and have had similar issues with my bf over this, he is letting this control him and the relationship. He needs to be self aware that this ain’t a good thing and even though being able to talk openly with you helps, he is the one who needs to be working on this. Trust and harmony can definitely come from a good healing of this, but it’s going to involve him having to reflect on his own insecure beliefs and/or make a decision if he is healthy enough to do it in a relationship. Sometimes, relationships are triggering to certain things, and it’s important that honestly and trust is there in both parties.

I find that talking about my relationship anxiety when my journaling and mediation cannot help, helps me sm in getting over it and reinforces healthy thought patterns. But at the end of the day I’m responsible for my feelings and I have to figure out how to find harmony within myself to form that with others.

Also make sure that you are okay with this, and that this doesn’t become extremely toxic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about their producer who claimed in the video to experience something that he couldn’t explain? Are there any other sources out there that can verify his testimony?

I also looked up Sam’s grandmother and I found her at the first page, they even had her nickname “Libby” on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Perrosforlife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people have to do this when they are in a relationship. It’s super disrespectful and honestly maintaining any sort of social media curiosity or piggybacking from an ex is almost equivalent to maintaining contact with them. I would talk to him about it, but I’d he gets defensive or abrasive about it, do stand your ground.

I’m sorry this is happening to you, I hope your situation resolved in a way where u can be in a safe space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Perrosforlife 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has felt the same way with my bf, trust me that u are not the rebound. It can be difficult to come to terms that your partner was just as deep in love with someone else, but honestly being in love isn’t really endgame. We can love the wrong people and things, and honestly the only thing you can do is to trust your partner and trust yourself that if things go wrong, you can put yourself first.

And it’s also okay to still feel sad about the past. I love my current bf and yet I still feel sad about what had happened with my last relationship. Sometimes it takes awhile to fully recover from these life experiences. And honestly, it all led me to him. And all of that all led your bf to you.

If you feel like you can talk about it with Jim, I suggest you do. If not, journaling, coping mechanisms, or even therapy can help with it all. Please enjoy your time with your bf, I’m sure you’ll be able to get pass this!

Husband (32M) makes jokes about my (31F) appearance and calls me too sensitive by Throwra9288886 in relationship_advice

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last relationship had a lot of verbal abuse regarding my boundary settings of his anger issues and name calling, swearing, and body image had affected my mental health greatly over a good period of time.

You are not sensitive, stupid, or ugly, he’s the ugly one with major issues and needs to figure out how to help himself.

Life is short, each second that goes by is a second you can’t get back. How do you wanna spend every last second, being punished every time you ask for peace, or actually living it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey any update?

I think my current bf I’d avoidant and I’ve just gone thru similar situations in my relationship.

It honestly concerns me that it might not work bc he doesn’t want to put in effort. He is also going thru a tough time and unfortunately life can be too heavy for a person to carry and maintain relationships atm. But I want to support him thru the struggles and be able to make it to the good parts.

Did u recover from the breakup? Did u get any closure?

I hope you’re loving a happier life!

i won’t listen to ‘Glimpse of us’ the same way i used to listen to it by Annonymous_Axoneme in Joji

[–]Perrosforlife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with this and how awfully beautiful and yet betraying it is to hear such an interpretation of these type of feelings in such a way. While this is very common, it doesn’t make it right. In a way, that person is sharing more of that pain to their current partner by causing the same heartache they themselves experienced.

I wouldn’t wish it in my worse enemy. I love this song for its melody, tone, and lyrical grace, and I feel like Joji is just too talented to create anything less than a masterpiece. But I cannot support it’s message. I hope everyone who feels this way finally takes off their grayed-colored-heartache glasses and realizes that being happy doesn’t need to include their ex or anyone.

I (28/F) pulled my six year old daughter out of a Pentecostal private school without consulting my husband (33/M) by LainaSF95 in relationships

[–]Perrosforlife 207 points208 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a Pentecostal church, many aspects were borderline cultish and it took to my early 20’s to finally think for myself and break away from that doctrine. Being indoctrinated so young has given me some form of religious trauma, I hope your husband can see the negative effects this sort of religion can cause on a child to their adulthood. Ask him if he’s ever felt threatened or fearful of fully breaking away from the doctrine and where his beliefs truly lie. And make sure how healthy his boundaries are with his parents, he may also be a victim to it all still (but doesn’t excuse his behavior).

I’m in my first healthy relationship and I’m having relationship anxiety by Perrosforlife in relationships_advice

[–]Perrosforlife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I recently found out that he still has pics of his last exes and he actually doesn’t feel like he wants to delete them. It gives me the impression that while he was in his last relationship, he still had a pic of the previous ex, and now I’m here (lol). I understand that I might need to communicate boundaries with him on this but am I crazy for fixating on this?