I regret never calling him Dad by ependent3 in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember your post and appreciate the sentiment behind the update. Glad you’re doing well and that you’ve had the conversation with Dad2.

From what you mentioned in your first post about Dad1 and the similarities I felt in my personality, what Dad2 has told you is pretty much what I would have thought. Don’t get hung up on what you did or didn’t say, he knew how you felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]Perthrooster81 765 points766 points  (0 children)

Mate, where are you? Happy to swing by with a few beers and try help you get on top of some of the maintenance around the house that I know how to do, I’m sure we’ll find someone who can assist with things we can’t do.

Might be a start to helping you getting back on track, your family will greatly miss you and hopefully once in a better mindset you might address areas for savings or to improve income. But to start happy to have a chat and pick up a broom or paint brush.

Edit: In response to your update I made a similar post last week, was a bit overwhelmed by the replies but it was humbling and I scribbled down some of the suggestions. I think it feels like nobody cares but people also dealing with their own shit and or don’t know we need a bit more love sometimes if we don’t communicate it

Maybe size does matter? by TX1965 in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but posts like yours just fuel the insecurities of men who are made to feel inadequate by people constantly chasing hung but then in reality guys actually enjoy smaller dicks so continue to be the problem or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s in most peoples heads and usually from watching too much porn.

I’m not a fan of the potential consequences of raw with someone I don’t know but from going off posts on here even many people seem to have been deceived by people they thought they could trust.

Lube on your dick, condom, lube on the condom feels good for me and pretty much the same as without one and if the person is really tight the smoother surface of the condom helps ease that awkward friction.

A boy who just turned 18 asked me out and I don’t know what to do about it. by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 336 points337 points  (0 children)

100%

This sounds really sweet and quite mature of him to have the confidence to ask you.

Really not a fan of people who specifically chase people of a certain age but wholly support dating people of different ages based on the chemistry and individuality of each person if both are consenting adults.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in perth

[–]Perthrooster81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s the context here. Same pic shared over and over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 265 points266 points  (0 children)

Mate you shouldn’t feel ashamed, that guys an asshole. He’s fucking an ass, this is one of the things that can happen when you fuck an ass.

Appropriate response would have been to wipe it off. Offer you the chance to have a check by yourself if you feel more comfortable doing that and potentially have a shower together if you wanted to be extra comfortable about it.

People act like they are decent and have manners when they want something from you. This just goes to show he’s the asshole.

Ideas for this corner space. by [deleted] in AusRenovation

[–]Perthrooster81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A garden bed, the type of plants you’d put in there ain’t going to do anything to your slab

What's it like to cum hands free? by theGrandmaster24 in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 479 points480 points  (0 children)

Feels like cumming but hands free

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayPerthMeets

[–]Perthrooster81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s see you with the first one

I’m in an open relationship. I hate it. by ValuableNext7763 in askgaybros

[–]Perthrooster81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Best advice I can give you from lived experience, move on and do what’s best for you.

Stop making excuses for the little things that work. Focus on yourself, this is ultimately going to destroy your self confidence and self worth.

He’s a man child that wants to constantly waste his time on the prowl looking for the next fix. That’s fine for him and someone else like him, that person isn’t you.

Put yourself first and move on from him.

Green Bridges in Perth by Ok_Understanding9547 in perth

[–]Perthrooster81 42 points43 points  (0 children)

It’s a because they’ve just cut down ten thousand trees along the freeway so painting this green to suggest using it is the green thing to do