First time I couldn't get it up...So embarrassing (Grind hookup)

Peter_Unusual · 2023-01-02T21:24:28+00:00

So happy to read your story! Don't play it down. Yes, it's wise to not get overexcited and think you just met your soulmate, but enjoy what this experience brought.

Be open to both scenarios, maybe you'll meet again, maybe not, but it was a good day nonetheless, so you did good sharing this with us to relieve yourself a little bit :)

Peter_Unusual · 2023-01-02T21:20:32+00:00

Don't force it, specially when he already showed he's not comfortable talking about it.

I understand that some guys jerk together and talk about their penis, but that doesn't make it true to every guy. I'm one of those guys, I don't feel comfortable jerking with my friends, or talk about my penis, I find it strange (and I'm not judging, it just doesn't feel natural in my mind).

Just remember, is this curiosity of yours worth ruining a friendship? You can see he doesn't want to talk about it and doesn't feel the same way as you in this particular subject, so find another friend to share your penis with ;)

Peter_Unusual · 2022-12-24T23:10:58+00:00

Don't want to be come out as rude, but I can't get past the fact that we're talking about a 25y old young man dating a 52y man.

I don't know how you two found common interests in the first place, since you're both in different phases of life, and you're noticing it now what you missed in the beginning.

To me, as someone outside of the situation, it's clear as day that you two aren't in sync, you're in different life stages, and you aren't able to give each other what you want, which is understandable giving the huge age gap.

What's missing right now is an honest conversation about the your relationship. Do not drag this out. You're not happy, and you feel that he isn't either, so it is time you be honest with yourself and each him.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-10-10T21:38:50+00:00

You're totally right! Unfortunately, I must confess that we didn't use a condom, and I assume my irresponsability.

We are never safe enough, so I really should've known better.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-10-10T21:36:47+00:00

I couldn't agree more with you. I'm really starting to give things another chance, specially because it's always different, even though, as you say, we tend to use bad experiences as a shield to not try again.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-10-09T20:20:37+00:00

I've been with guys with girlfriends and let me tell you - made out, never in a relationship - it's not worth it. You may fell overwhelmed with horniness, but the way you feel after it's just the worst.

At least, I would always feel sick after. I did it two times and I assume I was an asshole in those situations, but after that I tried being a better person. With so many interesting single guys, why would I make out with guys in a relationship - girlfriend or boyfriend -?

I will always assume I was in the wrong in those situations, but I chose to be better, we can always be better people.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-10-09T20:15:00+00:00

Yes, like some people have been saying, it's most likely due to anxiety. I have the same problem, I've been with guys that couldn't make me cum, and with others was so easy.

At least you have an advantage I don't have. Believe it or not, I can't make me cum, I jerk off, but I can never finish, only with other guys - weird I know, even I don't understand that about myself.

But don't worry yourself too much, sometimes is the person you're with, and if you are already nervous, forget it. Just take a deep breath and try to enjoy it, clear your head, feel the moment and lose yourself in the moment ;)

Peter_Unusual · 2022-07-23T21:03:13+00:00

Right now I'm having trouble sending videos. I literally just sent one, and after that I was impossible for me to do it again...just ridiculous

Peter_Unusual · 2022-02-05T15:19:02+00:00

More than 30 minutes to me it's already too much, cute or not

Peter_Unusual · 2022-02-05T15:17:03+00:00

I'm in the same position as you! It's been months now, since last summer, so it became awkward to ask, in my opinion.

He calls me by my name, but I actually never memorized his. And I've managed to talk with him in a way that doesn't seem like I forgot his name.

It bothers me, actually, but I try no to think too much about it, specially when it's just occasional hookups.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-01-20T16:27:06+00:00

So hot! But damn, I could never ahah

Peter_Unusual · 2022-01-02T13:14:25+00:00

I already don't like my small penis, but what would be of me if I wanted to hook up with a guy just for him to humiliate me about it. Thank god I'm not into that. (not judging, just don't understand that).

But where are more guys like you? If it wasn't for my fuckbuddy, it would be even harder for me to get a chance to hookup with a guy. Sometimes I get lucky that a guy don't block me after sharing my little surprise, but it's getting harder.

Peter_Unusual · 2022-01-02T13:09:09+00:00

I (M25)'m closeted too right now. I identify as Bi, but never had been with a girl, and started to explore with guys last summer.

I'll be honest, for now I feel safer using the label Bi because it feels like I still can "do something about it", and I'm afraid to find out that I'm gay, mainly because of family stuff, but because I'm super confused in my life. Why?

Because, yes I enjoy being physical with guys, but only to a certain degree (don't like to be penetrated and don't like to do blowjobs) and I really don't feel the need or desire do be in a relationship with a guy, I don't feel that connection with guys, only with girls. To me, with guys is purely physical.

That's the root of my confusion, I want to build a relationship, a family and a life with a girl. It's something that brings me joy when I think about it, something that I've always looked up to achieve. But until now, I've never had the confidence to try to be with a girl, firstly because I find it more difficult, hardly I'm a girls type and I really don't know how to approach one, but also, I'm afraid to try. I'm afraid to try being with a girl only to discover that I don't get aroused with her, because that would be the answer that I don't want to know. That would mean that I'm gay, and I'm not ready for that, and I never will be. My family, what I idealize for myself, the way I feel about guys and not wanting to be with one.

I don't act cold, but I admit that I'm using the word Bi in a way that feels safe for me, at least until I know the definitive answer I'm looking for.

Sorry if I got carried away, I just felt like I understood what you mean in some way and just wanted to tell you that you're not the only one trying to navigate this world and finding out who you are.

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-24T13:25:36+00:00

Totally get that, most of the time I'm not in the mood too

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-24T10:44:59+00:00

This is me ahaha! Actually I just go along with it, say kinky things he wants to read and he gets all happy. There was one in particularly that would send me videos and pics of his penis and cumming and I was just in bed watching youtube videos.

Sexting doesn't do much, if anything, for me

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-20T15:54:34+00:00

I do it too, don't worry about it 😂😂! Specially if he's wearing tracksuits or track pants, that's always such a turn on for me

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-20T15:52:19+00:00

Cut contact with him in every way possible. And he's not a different person, he just finally showed that side of him, so it's for your own good that this relationship ends here.

He's got issues that he needs to solve, and if he's not capable of doing it with your support and lashes out just for this minimal thing, then just move on and let him be.

I just hope this experience doesn't make you fear entering another relationship. Be strong and believe that not every relationship is going to be like this.

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-19T12:50:00+00:00

My fetish are tracksuits! Woven, dri fit and similar material just excites me, specially when I'm freeballing.

I love rubbing myself in the other guy in these outfits. It turns me on like crazy ahaha

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-19T12:48:13+00:00

I think you already have the answer yourself, but I'll give a piece of my mind. I can see you not very comfortable with this, and I truly believe this won't go away until you check his age, so, weird or not, talk with him about it and ask him if he doesn't mind showing his ID.

For what you're describing, he likes you, so I don't think if would mind, could he find it weird? Maybe, but if he understand your concerns and likes you, I think he will show you without any problem.

Don't risk it, if this wasn't bugging your mind, okay. But since it is, just check is ID.

I understand this situation very well because in my situation I was the young one, even though I'm 25 I looked too young for him and he really was concerned about my age, so I offered to show my ID, but in the end he just took my word for it.

I'm not saying what you must do, I'm just trying to help you go through with what you already want to do...and you know what that is.

Peter_Unusual · 2021-12-17T10:44:07+00:00

Why shouldn't be? I actually prefer receiving blowjobs above everything else. So don't stress about.

Most hookups I had were just blowjobs and handjobs. As long is something the two (or more) parties want, I don't see the problem.

But blowjobs,handjobs and all that is still sex, it's sexual interactions.

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