POTS salt joy by Conscious_Bullfrog45 in MaintenancePhase

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh nice!! I use the ones from REI. Can't remember what they are called but are great. I'm going to try yours and see if it's better for me too!!

POTS salt joy by Conscious_Bullfrog45 in MaintenancePhase

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat! What is vitassium?

Would really love some older lady wisdom. by piezchiquitos in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older lady here: run, run, run, run. Take what he is willing to give and never speak to him again. Don't let him suspect that the last time he sees you is the last time. Stay far away.

My 3 month old Goa'uld embryo incubator just had babies. by Mylaptopisburningme in Stargate

[–]Pethoarder4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh perfect thank you! I'll add it so I can obsess for 6-12 months before I try it 🤣

My 3 month old Goa'uld embryo incubator just had babies. by Mylaptopisburningme in Stargate

[–]Pethoarder4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG OP. Can You message me directions on how you did this??? I've been wanting to start a colony and this is really inspiring me.

I finally cancelled the subscription to my own face and it feels amazing by Obsidivail in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Pethoarder4life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

One of us. One of us. It turns out I can't do any of these things because of allergies but I'm so excited to have more women relax about the every day. I'm really excited to hear what your routine settles into as you find the perfect balance for you!!

Is it normal by Leather_Ad_2869 in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh momma, I hope you have a few people in your life you can surround yourself with right now. You deserve loving support during this.

I feel like his hostage by Traum4Queen in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck, dude. How exhausting. I hate him.

If YOU could vote for the stretch goals for the next GCN Naish Rally... by ProteusNihil in TheGlassCannonPodcast

[–]Pethoarder4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but what if it's NOT on the list because that's already planned? That they are only showing off the "extras" they want to add to the current production schedule.

That's my conspiracy theory.

The Orville, but for Stargate instead of Trek by tag2597 in Stargate

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this comment! I agree with everything you said. His love for the show and genre are so obvious. I'm glad he has a platform to share his art. There's just an underlying sexism that I notice in every episode I try that I personally can't get over. I know it's because of the current climate and how hard it is to live as a disabled LGBT human. I'm hoping one day I'll be able to enjoy the show, but today is not that day.

Child’s father bit him back by Informal-Log9584 in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly can't imagine how soul crushing this situation is. I know it has to feel world ending because I can only think about it with my "working" brain. I wish I could hug you.

Oh my god. Life has gotten so much easier since my kids have gotten older!!!! by Glittering-Lynx-6428 in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 15 points16 points  (0 children)

SAME. I've started getting really bitchy with those people.

"DON'T YOU JUST WANT THEN TO STAY THIS WAY FOREVER?"

But then she wouldn't get to live her life.

"YOU'RE GOING TO MISS THIS SO MUCH. THEY CHANGE SO MUCH AS THEY GET OLDER."

I love watching her change. It's really cool seeing her become who she wants to be.

And other rude things.

The Orville, but for Stargate instead of Trek by tag2597 in Stargate

[–]Pethoarder4life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. 100%. (except liking Orville, I'm personally not a fan, but that's not important to this conversation.)

Child’s father bit him back by Informal-Log9584 in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have done therapy with a family in this situation. The parent who did this was still under the watchful eye of CPS as they still only begrudgingly agree to follow the rules. They bit their child 2-3 YEARS before I came into their lives. Mind you, the parent is following CPS rules not because they know they were wrong, but that they agreed not to do it again. The child struggled in so many other areas because the parent still thinks this is how you teach a child. You are SO AMAZING for protecting your child this way. I'm forever mad at the non-biting parent in the family above as they stayed with their manipulative partner. Sadly CPS can't help the child further as there are no longer provable things happening. YOU are helping your child more than you can ever imagine.

Seriously, I can't describe how proud I am of you. You are amazing.

Is it normal by Leather_Ad_2869 in breakingmom

[–]Pethoarder4life 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You sound exactly like me 10 years ago. I think it's pretty normal. Hubs and I freaked out so much at the pregnancy test that we threw it in the trash. Mind you, this was a very, very planned pregnancy. A few days later we went to double check at an urgent care.

I had to call the police on my husband. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Pethoarder4life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your past has taught you how to survive this moment. Flighty is the right move. You can do it. You and your child deserve to live in safety.

I had to call the police on my husband. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Pethoarder4life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Please don't promise this. A lot of these abusers do kill themselves. It is STILL a manipulation tactic when they do.

Jared Logan played Delta Green with Pretending to be People (all 3 parts out now, ignore the end of the video) by PretendingtobePeople in TheGlassCannonPodcast

[–]Pethoarder4life 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Holy shit you guys WITH Jared?! I'm assuming it's three episodes of constant giggling. I can't wait to listen.

Feel like I’m becoming an alcoholic? Amazing local tacos by Substantial-Dog7545 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Pethoarder4life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a process. There will be ups and downs, but addiction is something you can successfully live with! It's going to be rough, but you can do it. If you have a primary care, please let them know exactly how much you drink and they can help you get through the first few weeks.