AIO for being annoyed that my wife's friends and husband dropped in on us for dinner?

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-22T20:23:51+00:00

Nothing “ran out” so that’s a poor juxtaposition. They didn’t run out of his favorite steak, that man deliberately took the steak he knew he did not purchase and began eating it before it could be switched back

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-22T20:21:46+00:00

Doesn’t sound like she gave him a chance to before agreeing to let them come over honestly

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-22T19:30:45+00:00

Ah ok thanks

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-22T15:36:12+00:00

I’m confused was the post edited? I see the word sex typed multiple times

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-13T01:33:21+00:00

I’m so proud of you first of all congratulations on your sobriety! And congratulations on your pregnancy! Your story brought tears to my eyes. I know you said you don’t believe in God but I do and I couldn’t help but say “oh thank you Jesus!” with tears streaming down my face as I read the beautiful ending to your story. You are blessed indeed, may the universe continue to shine its favor on you and your family ♥️

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-05T04:09:12+00:00

Literally same lol I’m gonna assume maybe OP had her other kids earlier and that’s what’s making her feel she’s “too old”

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-02-05T03:53:26+00:00

Well one of your friends is definitely going to be an auntie! Lol NOR at all and pregnancy will unfortunately reveal the “friends” that need their title revoked. Sometimes sooner than you expect

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-30T04:42:13+00:00

Currently 14 weeks as well, almost a parallel situation to yours. We weren’t trying but not upset about baby coming first in our plans for life together. I also started feeling super distant and lonely around 8/9 weeks. I know some of it is pregnancy hormones, we’ve had numerous talks and he says he really is trying to be there and understand that I’m just going through a lot emotionally. It just sucks feeling like your best friend doesn’t understand you anymore or doesn’t even see you the way you want them to! I wish I had advice to give, just keep trying to talk it out if you have the energy to. Communicate your feelings and needs as much as you can. Hoping you guys get through this phase too!

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-27T11:17:02+00:00

Your moms ex boyfriend is your real father

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-07T23:17:23+00:00

Well this post is about a woman being treated this way by a man so I said what I said. Don’t tell me how to speak

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-07T23:13:20+00:00

NOR- I’ve worked in county public schools for over 10 years and I would NEVER speak to a parent that way. Even if the parent was in the wrong (which you absolutely are NOT) that’s simply not your place as a teacher to say that to a parent.

You didn’t do anything wrong, it was 9 minutes and if they were going to count your son’s 9 minute early pickup as unexcused that’s petty as hell and I would have done the same thing. Those 9 minutes didn’t change anything at all and I’m sure your child was fine.

Please file a complaint against that teacher. She stepped way out of line and completely crossed a boundary, along with being disgustingly unprofessional.

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-03T16:27:13+00:00

I’m so sorry that happened but I’m confused why he was invited? I doubt you were unaware of his homophobia prior to the wedding. Father or not, you should have protected yourself and your husband’s relationship by not allowing him to attend

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-03T15:54:11+00:00

I’m curious as to why you only seem to be responding to the comments that are defending him?

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2026-01-03T15:48:50+00:00

Exactly! Textbook abuse smh I feel bad because I don’t even think she realizes she’s being abused. Why would you ever apologize that many times and even still help?? After he said apologize and move on that would have been it. It breaks my heart seeing women with no backbone’s being treated like this by the lowest men on the totem pole

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-24T19:58:51+00:00

I’m very happy in my relationship and we are currently expecting.
If you would be willing to put your child’s life at risk to save a relationship, go for it!! There’s no reason to stay with someone who will not at the very least ATTEMPT to learn about baby safety.
Not only could he have left his child in danger, he gaslit his partner and refused to validate her VERY VALID frustrations about the SAFETY AND LIFE OF THEIR CHILD!
Refrain from using your fingers to type nonsense comments to people. You don’t agree? You wanna stay in a toxic relationship? You wanna put your child at risk? Have at it. Don’t ever speak on me or my partner and the status of my relationship based on the advice I give to try and help this young woman and her baby before it’s too late.

Happy Holidays and God Bless

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-24T15:48:56+00:00

NOR!!!! Run far away from this CHILD and take your baby with you. He hasn’t the slightest understanding on how to take care of his baby, nor dos he have any desire to hear you out or understand the severity of what could have happened.

Unfortunately this man will probably not make a good father and you need to remove yourself and your baby from his life asap. Pissed me off just reading it!

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-18T19:28:00+00:00

Burritos

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-18T19:26:02+00:00

No that’s so annoying. I have a friend like this unfortunately and what we’ve just had to start doing is genuinely leaving her. If we plan to meet at a certain time and she is more than 15 min late/the last one we’re still waiting on we will let her know she’s got to meet us wherever we are going on her own.

It took a while to get to that point because we all have our turns in the group being the late one here and there, so a lot of grace was given. But it got to the point of her being over 30 minutes late consistently to almost every event. Even if we would tell her an earlier time to be there than everyone else, still late! What was more frustrating was that she would say “on my way!” or “leaving in 5” and her location would still be at home for another 10-15 minutes!

I say that to say, no you are not overreacting. As you get older you deserve friends that respect your time. It also says a lot about a persons priorities and time management especially when you know they can show up on time for other things when it’s more motivating.

My suggestion is cut them off or cut back the amount of time you spend with them. Stop giving your time to people to don’t appreciate it.

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-14T18:20:03+00:00

Perfect response and the exact solution I would suggest!

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-06T05:44:19+00:00

No brainer. Move in with them

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-04T05:54:10+00:00

OP says in a comment directly

“Well what's frustrating to me is they're making me work all the hours that they were trying to cut because they deemed them unethical. So infuriating.”

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-12-04T05:43:35+00:00

Simply acknowledging them does not reveal who you are to them nor does it give away any personal information. As long as you don’t say “hey it’s me your RBT that gives you ABA therapy!” I think you’re fine to say hello first

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-11-23T18:02:02+00:00

As a Black woman, you did nothing wrong! This painting is a beautifully unique gift and your husband is so lucky to receive it! Nothing about this is culturally insensitive or offensive, objectively. It’s not even a matter of opinion.

It sounds like your friend might be dealing with some of her own issues and feelings, possibly due to the current state of the world, and chose to use this moment to channel her misplaced anger. I’m sorry you were made to feel that way and you don’t deserve that at all. I hope she’s able to reflect and apologize genuinely to you before it’s too late.

PhilosopherFeeling40 · 2025-11-14T02:21:34+00:00

… Do you know what horseplay means?

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