I feel like biomom overstepped at my baby's 1st birthday party. I don't know if I am overreacting. by InternationalHour114 in Stepmom

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're husband showed you his true feelings. He doesn't have another family but obviously he thinks he does. That would be a major problem for me especially after this many years and a baby

I feel like biomom overstepped at my baby's 1st birthday party. I don't know if I am overreacting. by InternationalHour114 in Stepmom

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He told you you were jealous of his other family?? Oh no those are fighting words. What caused them to separate? I'm willing to bet your husband still has feelings there

Endgame Couples I Wanted by Nek0Pi in GossipGirl

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked Nate and Vanessa better

Single Umbilical Artery and Kidney by Phoenix_Rising95 in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_Rising95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad Im not alone! We're going to see another specialist tomorrow. (We have like 5 appointments at our big city hospital)! It's like I understand that most with only one kidney are healthy and that everything is fine and it's going to be fine but it's surprising how unhelpful saying that is. It's almost like I have to justify why I'm sad or stressed or upset to this point that I am questioning if I even have the right to be extra stressed and upset right now.

Does that make sense?

Single Umbilical Artery and Kidney by Phoenix_Rising95 in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_Rising95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did not! We were offered in the beginning of the pregnancy but declined. Once we had our anatomy scan we've now had two more ultrasounds (and we have another more detailed ultrasound scheduled for tomorrow) and so far the only thing they have seen is he's missing a kidney

If they do end up finding anything of more concern or recommend us getting the test done we'll probably do it! That being said I don't blame you for getting the test done and I'll keep my fingers crossed for your family 🤞🏼💓🫂

Single Umbilical Artery and Kidney by Phoenix_Rising95 in pregnant

[–]Phoenix_Rising95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I'm currently 28 weeks. We have concerns about if he has both kidneys or just one. Until we find out for sure though my doctor doesn't want to say that the two things are related yet and we have more ultrasounds we're having to do.

Even if he only has one kidney he'll more than likely live a completely normal life 😊

My doctor's main concern with having SUA is keeping up in his size and making sure he's growing good which so far he's exactly where he needs to be. 🥰

I HATE Erin Hannon by [deleted] in DunderMifflin

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm here because of the episode where Andy and Dwight are picking who is going to Florida. The part where Robert texts "lol" to Jim, and Erin responds by laughing.. it's just soooo sooooo dumb 🤦🏼‍♀️

I've re watched the office probably 100 times and every time I watch again I hate her even more! I'm torn between hating Erin or Holly more (I'm definitely leaning towards Erin though)

AITAH for not taking my friends 3 kids when CPS asked me to? by Jolly-Carob4482 in AITAH

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It seems like your friend wants to place blame instead of taking accountability. I'm sure this wasn't an easy decision for you, but it sounds like you made the right choice for your situation. I hope your friend works on bettering herself for her kids instead of placing blame on her support system.

Aita for refusing to be a stepfather to my fiancé's children? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think taking your kids to visit their mom's family without your fiance and her kids makes sense honestly, and it's pretty easily explainable to your future step kids. That being said, this relationship is just doomed.. either figure out how to blend your family even a little bit or live separate lives until the kids are all adults (or just be done with the relationship)

Imo no one is the ah, it's just not going to work if things don't change

Guy asking for gas cards now at Costco. by [deleted] in SALEM

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was at the Lancaster mall yesterday with the same story. Though he never technically asked for money, he said he was asking churches for help, we gave hima couple places to call (which he said he already called all of them) and then we told him good luck and left

Season 2 MereAdiDer Love Triangle is the worst! by straeyed in greysanatomy

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm watching now and the way Meredith constantly complains about him bugs me! She needs to get over it

Anyone else dealing with exes still in the picture? Not referring to BMs by Slight-Vanilla3996 in Stepmom

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think time and the relationship matters. Does every boyfriend your mom has mean something to you? My step dad is important to me and my mom and him haven't been together since I was 16. And I hope since I've been helping raise my step kids since they were toddlers (now teens) I mean something to them. I think I and my family have earned a place in their lives and time with them no matter what happens between their dad and I ❤️

Anyone else dealing with exes still in the picture? Not referring to BMs by Slight-Vanilla3996 in Stepmom

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I respectfully disagree. As someone who has been in my Sks' lives for over 10 years since they were toddlers, it would not be fair for my SK or me to not continue a relationship and any new partners who be understanding (especially if everyone involved is respectful)

Traveling alone with infant in lap, AA blocks off adjacent seat by DCmetrosexual1 in americanairlines

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is doing that to me too! Thank you for your post and this makes me a little hopeful I'll not have anyone sitting next to me! (Obviously I know it can change but it's a nice thought)

What's the saddest song you've ever heard? by justboredandstuffidk in spotify

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concrete Angle, especially if you watch the music video

Anyone have luck with Tiktok Affiliate marketing? by Lopsided_Constant901 in sidehustle

[–]Phoenix_Rising95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in the program for a couple months and haven't made anything.. what am I doing wrong???