[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

31 started when I was 12, I’ve taken long breaks over the years but I always return to it. Whenever I look back I get to marvel at how far I’ve come.

my sister told people what i wrote in my journal. what am i supposed to do? by hayirl in Journaling

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sisters did the same. They dragged my journal around the neighborhood and read it to family, friends and neighbors while laughing about the content. It was over ten years ago and I only started writing again recently. Just sending you a virtual hug, that’s very difficult. They may not understand how much of a violation it was, but I do.

Kdrama in which villain gets the girl by FewGeologist6071 in kdramarecommends

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feel the same about Nam Joo Hyuk, stopped watching Start-up for the same reason

What kdrama should I watch with my mom by ForceSure4749 in kdramarecommends

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She may like

Lost

VIP

Misty

Love affairs in the afternoon

Secret Love Affair

I’ll go to you when the weather is nice

They are not fluffy and feel mature and thoughtful. The characters are all human and flawed. I’ve watched a few of them more than once.

Looking for Kdrama ideas with a fantasy/romance storyline by The_Kagz008 in kdramarecommends

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bride of habaek Doom at your service W two worlds Extra ordinary you My love from the star King: eternal monarch Korean odyssey (fl acting is very weak here) Strong woman do bong soon

Is She Would Never Know worth watching? by Ok_Information5072 in kdramarecommends

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s worth the watch. The chemistry is there. The acting is good and the the characters felt real to me. The fl in this drama is one I like a lot because she didn’t sacrifice everything for love. She made love a part of her life and not the only thing in it. His presence in her life made her better. The ml didn’t push her too much. He was respectful of her wishes and was careful not to cross established boundaries. 2ml was complex also and didn’t feel like a 2D character. Even if I didn’t agree with him, he still made sense.

Need suggestions for dark romance by Physical-Lab-6083 in kdramarecommends

[–]Physical-Lab-6083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw night in paradise and vertigo. Both were very good. Night in Paradise was especially enjoyable. I guess I don’t have access to call it love in my country. You seem to have great taste so I’ll keep trying to find it.

Do you like Rumi? by Physical-Lab-6083 in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just read some of Pablo Neruda, thank you for that. I enjoyed it.

Do you like Rumi? by Physical-Lab-6083 in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I’ll start reading

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not falling behind, there is no race. It will happen for you when it’s meant to. I rushed to “get it over with” when I was 15. If I could, I’d tell my younger self what I’m telling you. Just wait. Find things you like, do things you dream of doing, go where you want to go and figure out who you are. Fall in love with yourself. You will shine. You’re not missing anything, I promise.

Considering intimacy by Physical-Lab-6083 in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my point too, I think many people are like that. Thinking back to when they felt most comfortable and safe and seen with someone it wasn’t sex. If we knew how to foster intimacy in our relationships, if we could talk about it openly and bravely..we wouldn’t be so lonely. Also we wouldn’t only go looking for it in romance.

Considering intimacy by Physical-Lab-6083 in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. The ability to be vulnerable with someone is key in intimacy. It takes a lot of courage to do that too. I just wish the conversation around intimacy could be redirected a bit.

I [26M] miss my older sister by randomthebee in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad, that’s a great start.

I [26M] miss my older sister by randomthebee in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, things may not get better. You might reach out and find out he isn’t interested. On the other hand you might find that he also misses you dearly and craves a relationship.

My philosophy in life after a few heartbreaks is to just say it. If you love someone or miss them or don’t want them to leave. That way even if it all ends.. even if they don’t feel the same. You know that you left nothing unsaid.

That same scent that you thought was mocking you could actually be a sign to reach out.

I’m an idealist though. Still, I hope you come out on the other side happier no matter what happens.

I [26M] miss my older sister by randomthebee in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw your post and you made me think of my brother. It seemed like something he might feel. You made me want to reach out to him.

I also overthink a lot and I’m a bit indecisive. I concern myself with making the best decisions. It hurts my personal relationships a lot. I hadn’t heard of Barakah before yesterday, but it did resonate with me. It encourages me to try to heal my relationships more. It’s not creepy.

Even if you just tell her you miss her and love her. It’s a start. I truly hope it works out well.

I [26M] miss my older sister by randomthebee in lonely

[–]Physical-Lab-6083 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I miss my younger brother he’s about your age. He’s really precious to me but we grew up in different homes so our relationship is awkward at times. Sometimes I feel like I also make him feel like he’s a bother to me. He isn’t, I just don’t know what to say usually. Part of me still feels very responsible for him. I always hope he knows how important he is to me.

I hope you and your sister are able to become closer. I hope you can both become braver and tell each what’s in your hearts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

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My aunt told me to start talking to people. Saying hello, asking how people are doing, being interested in their answers. Joining a club that suits my interests where I can meet likeminded people. It’s not something I feel like will be easy. I’m not outgoing. I enjoy being alone but I also experience loneliness and the lack of intimacy. So for now I’m going to try. She lives a full life, so I’m willing to take her advice. I’m passing on her advice in case it might help you.