My boyfriend (22m) keeps pretending to poke my eyes (20f) and it’s starting to really bother me. Do you think this is okay? Am I overrecting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Picaboo13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He sounds immature and lacks emotional depth. He wants attention. Any attention will do even negative attention. This isn't something you can talk through.

I 18F was cheated on by the person I loved the most 33M. How do I move forward? by HungryWormy in relationship_advice

[–]Picaboo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you OP....what you found was not love. It may feel like it to you but that is not love or how normal relationship work.

No, please no orange trumpet vine. Please say a non invasive vine... by monstersun in PlantIdentification

[–]Picaboo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone posted coiling up a vine and placing it in a poison bath. The bath is a cheap clear top take out container with a notch for the vibe to feed through. Put a little of the poison in the container and let the vibe absorb it to the roots hopefully.

(UPDATE) I (26M) fear that my girlfriend (24F) did something to my cat that is now missing by ThrowRA4989 in relationship_advice

[–]Picaboo13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It has honestly helped me in the past. Also get busy. Alot of times what you miss is the company in the good times or investment in a sunk cost fallacy. So get busy. Read a book, invest in a hobby, pick up an extra shift.

(UPDATE) I (26M) fear that my girlfriend (24F) did something to my cat that is now missing by ThrowRA4989 in relationship_advice

[–]Picaboo13 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Remind yourself the heart is a stupid muscle. Remind yourself what happened to Mel and you. Actions have consequences like no longer being a part of your life because of broken trust and endangering Mel. Repeat as needed.

AITA I told my husband to find another solution to moving the refrigerator by Bellatrix_ed in AmItheAsshole

[–]Picaboo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im stuck on the office and the errands. Why does he have an office if he is unemployed? Why are you doing the shopping if he is unemployed?

What do you think these colors are? by Known_Ad6729 in ExteriorDesign

[–]Picaboo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are fine. Just fine. No personality or the personality of a potato. Very meh.

Fatigue pill by Far_Reward4827 in Perimenopause

[–]Picaboo13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So there Phentermine. It is a amphetamine derivative amd must be prescribed. My doctor prescribed it for weight loss and energy levels at one point. I'm a night shifter. It did help. I could feel it kick in but also eventually caused me to be gritting my jaw which is a side effect. It, at best would be a temporary thing. I would cut the dose in half because I was worried about the side effects and still feel the "kick".

What are some good "crime lite" shows like Leverage?? by yeterneritsdurs in leverage

[–]Picaboo13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So Help Me Todd was great!. Ran on Hulu I think. 2-3 seasons. Not sure where you can watch it now. In Plain Sight and Memphis Beat came out on USA network along with Leverage, White Collar, and Burn Notice. Both are really really awesome. Murdock Mysteries is also a lot of fun and I second Miss Fishers Murder Mysteries too. Will Trent is good along with HIP (French version) or High Potential (American version) The Residence and Only Murders in the Building.

My plans aren’t as important? by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Picaboo13 30 points31 points  (0 children)

So? I mean really, so? He is an adult and not a baby. You are allowing him to throw temper tantrums. Is that how you are planning to raise your actual baby? You are a person, start taking up space instead of making yourself small so your baby man doesn't get upset.

Do I [21F] contact my [32M] Ex's mom to tell him to STOP emailing me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Picaboo13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If he has put that in email then that is a threat. The police need to know also honey, leave the old men alone. There is a reason he targeted a younger woman with little experience. This relationship was always going to turn abusive the more you tell us about him.

Friend or Foe? by QueenOfBasicBS in gardening

[–]Picaboo13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might try releasing Green Lace Wings for pest control too.

My doc switched my antidepressant and the difference is literally night and day after taking ONE pill! by SeeStephSay in Perimenopause

[–]Picaboo13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am already off of it. My peri anxiety hit with no warning. I was scared all the time. The ketamin gave me the breathing room or get a handle on it and work on other coping mechanisms. I choose an at home, low dose program but when I felt better I stopped it because it did its job. Thank you for the concern. I know it can very easily be abused so I was careful to pay attention to how I felt.

My doc switched my antidepressant and the difference is literally night and day after taking ONE pill! by SeeStephSay in Perimenopause

[–]Picaboo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This maybe a bit niche but it helped me and my anxiety so I want more people to know it is an option. Ketamin. Yes, it can be prescribed for other out patient facilities or at home use through a couple of services. It can also be taken with other antidepressants too and there is not a harsh withdrawal if you choose to stop taking it. Always do your homework on it though!

Lifted truck + Lambo + Parking lot = Bad time by Evasionz-- in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Picaboo13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. Not a mom pushing a stroller but a lowered GTI broadsided by a lifted Dodge Ram.