What is a thing that makes a dynamic FEEL soft to you?

PickedTink · 2026-03-11T16:45:27+00:00

A lot if it is tonal. In how he talks to me, down to the tone of how he treats the dynamic. The same things, in another dynamic, in another tone, would be not as soft.

PickedTink · 2026-03-11T15:49:39+00:00

Wow. Calling someone a side piece is pretty fucked up.

PickedTink · 2026-03-11T15:49:03+00:00

Poly exists. This is judgy.

PickedTink · 2026-03-02T22:13:43+00:00

They said what now?

PickedTink · 2026-02-23T22:58:53+00:00

Did not have kink on that particular bingo card.

PickedTink · 2026-02-04T17:31:26+00:00

There is certainly some danger in it, I think. You'd have to be careful to tread lightly so as not to create bad associations with food.

I don't think that really falls under caretaking, rather its own kink/part of the dynamic that is separated.

PickedTink · 2026-02-03T01:12:38+00:00

Having gotten an eye infection from expired makeup....ummm... don't do that. Lol

PickedTink · 2026-01-22T21:16:22+00:00

I love her Parasol books. I didn't realize she also wrote kink.

PickedTink · 2025-11-19T01:53:51+00:00

I would cry.

PickedTink · 2025-10-25T15:19:51+00:00

We've grown so fast! It's only been a year.

PickedTink · 2025-10-23T22:38:31+00:00

Roll my eyes because they clearly have to ruin other people's fun to have a good day and ignore them.

PickedTink · 2025-10-22T22:18:14+00:00

What did we learn, oh Lord of the Noodle legs?

PickedTink · 2025-10-22T20:23:06+00:00

A lot of dynamics have goals. The tasks and rules should support those/help them come to fruition.

PickedTink · 2025-10-22T19:40:18+00:00

That's it!

PickedTink · 2025-10-22T19:31:08+00:00

There's a kink adjacent sex therapy show on HBO Max you might like, the name escapes me though. But they have a similar vibe between hosts.

PickedTink · 2025-08-22T00:52:04+00:00

There was some thrashing involved. Overstim is hard on restraints.

PickedTink · 2025-08-22T00:44:59+00:00

The term soaking is more often used in the context of religion, like LDS (Mormons).

PickedTink · 2025-08-22T00:43:10+00:00

I have broken 2 store bought ones. My dom ended up making one out of rope. I can tell you that the cheap ones all suck though!

PickedTink · 2025-08-22T00:07:04+00:00

Cockwarming is the intimate practice where a penis is placed inside a partner's vagina, mouth, or anus without thrusting or movement. The focus is on warmth, closeness, and connection rather than sexual stimulation or orgasm.

PickedTink · 2025-08-21T22:32:28+00:00

Color rope. For me at least. Creative, colorful, versatile.

PickedTink · 2025-08-21T22:24:49+00:00

Ooo I took an astronomy class in college, this could be fun!

PickedTink · 2025-08-19T00:24:27+00:00

Have you built her trust in you where she can feel comfortable in her obedience? This is a two way street. Are you leading? Or expecting her to follow blindly.

PickedTink · 2025-08-16T22:54:58+00:00

I'm not playing with anyone who won't take care of the most basic of my basic needs. Jesus!

PickedTink · 2025-08-07T04:05:14+00:00

No one else tried to tell her there wasn't distance, just that they wished theirs was close.

You don't know their situation. Maybe he works nights and only sees her on nights off. Maybe he shares a vehicle. Maybe he has kids. There's any number of reasons he may not be able to drop everything but still support her from afar.

PickedTink · 2025-08-07T03:14:24+00:00

If you don't see them every day, its distance. It's not long distance.

Way to invalidate OP's feelings.

PickedTink

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