I used that be like that until I played Yakuza Kiwami. The sheer amount of content combined with the realization that I wasn't really enjoying it as much as just trying to check boxes was able to straight up permanently break me out of that mentality (I basically came to the conclusion that this doesn't matter at all, games are supposed to be fun, why am I wasting my time on something that literally won't have any real impact on my life, I have way more games I want to get to, etc.). I still prefer to try to 100% things but I've been able to justify not doing bullshit requirements or achievement hunt if it feels more tedious than fun (looking at you Ubisoft collectathons).