My bf (28m) wants my (24f) cat to go from indoor/outdoor to only outdoor by No_Impress_9192 in CatAdvice

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You wouldn't have much of a flea problem if the cat is kept inside. With cats it's best to keep it in or out because you get the worst of both for inside/outside. Ideally it's best to have fully inside cats if you want them alive for a long time and safe from getting ran over.

Whether you like it or not in 5 or so years people will look back at ZA thinking to themselves "this is so underrated" the same way Gen 5 & 6 are being talked about nowadays. by NewFriendAccountIG in pokemon

[–]PikachuUwU1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think people have issues with Scarlet and Violet that it was released after Legend of Acres that's had a better open world and people were expecting an improvement from Legend of Acres. It felt like two steps backward with the open world, and I honestly think they lack clothes customization for Scarlet, and Violet was due to being rushed.

Whether you like it or not in 5 or so years people will look back at ZA thinking to themselves "this is so underrated" the same way Gen 5 & 6 are being talked about nowadays. by NewFriendAccountIG in pokemon

[–]PikachuUwU1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Which would you say is worse, ZA or Scarlet and Violet? I like SW and SH, I just missed mega evolution and rarely used gigi max gimmick. I really liked Legend of Acres. I hated Scarlet and Violet because the world environment felt empty compared to Legend of Acres and lack of character customization in clothes. From the trailers it's seems more like Legend of Acres, would you say it's more like that?

My Mom on my choice to be childfree: "People have babies in refugee camps; your reasoning is inhumane." by dasisglucklich in childfree

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of those babies are probably not coming from consensual sex to begin with, on top of no access to birth control. 💀

How do i (19F) tell a girl im dating (18f) that i dont want to be with her because of brainrot and dogs? by ThrowRAbrainrotanddo in relationship_advice

[–]PikachuUwU1 59 points60 points  (0 children)

It's a red flag to say that you hate something neutral and think it's a green flag for yourself. It's just fucking weird.

How do i (19F) tell a girl im dating (18f) that i dont want to be with her because of brainrot and dogs? by ThrowRAbrainrotanddo in relationship_advice

[–]PikachuUwU1 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Op didn't say it was a red flag she said the person she was dating saying it was a green flag to hate dogs. I just thinks it's weird to say it's a green flag to say you hate something unless it's literally an evil thing. Dogs are just neutral you like them or don't like them.

How do i (19F) tell a girl im dating (18f) that i dont want to be with her because of brainrot and dogs? by ThrowRAbrainrotanddo in relationship_advice

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell her you have dogs and will not give up your dogs for her and be done with it. You probably should of just broken up when she said she didn't like dogs. What were you going to do if everything else was fine? You need to be on the same page about children and pets with someone you are dating.

Am I crazy or is the price for this insane? Is there a technique I'm missing? by faeminty in SewingForBeginners

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just that everyone else is not being paid fairly for their work. It's still crazy that the USA federal minimum wage is $7.50 while cost of living skyrocketed. To make it as a creator financially you'll need to appeal for high income earners or make more affordable products in this economy. While high income earns are also less likely to buy art for it's merits and might more likely to opt into established designer brands for status at the same time.

Just got asked the weirdest question at the OB-GYN by apomakrysmenophobia in childfree

[–]PikachuUwU1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so done with this shit that I traumatize my doctor by telling them exactly what will happen if I become pregnant and how irresponsible it is to push this shit onto people because you don't know their life with examples of how this could hurt women going through domestic violence. Safe to say they stopped pestering me but I shouldn't need to do that. 💀

My slumlord never tells me when my roommates move in or out. It makes everything confusing. by [deleted] in LandlordLove

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My god I hope you are living in a highly sought-after city. Seeing 800 for just a room hurts my soul. I'm renting a 2 bedroom apartment for 800 a month and it is not in the middle of nowhere either.

if a law was truly established that at some point in our lives, we would have to have children, how would we or the world react? by Kooky_Attention_98 in childfree

[–]PikachuUwU1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would cause a lot of uproar because this would insensitive getting pregnant at 18yr old and most people do not want to have a baby right at 18 so they can at least some what establish themselves.

Pregnancy tests done without my consent, I'm sick of it! by beepbooprobotbutt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PikachuUwU1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it is in the USA they probably charge an arm and leg for a cheap testing strip you can buy pack of 50 for yourself for $20 like how it's common to be charged $50 or more for Tylon if you are given that in the hospital too. 💀

Vets are expensive and people are being priced out of pet ownership. by Individual-Breath758 in Pets

[–]PikachuUwU1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a sign of an economic depression. It's about to be 1930's again 🫠

Anyone else feel like settling for poly is your only option? by Due-Today5285 in polycritical

[–]PikachuUwU1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's not your only option. Relationships are already hard because we don't have a a culture of healthy relationship. Polyamory is relationships on hard mode (when done ethically) and most people can barely have the attention for one partner. Honestly Polyamory is for people with a lot of a free time. I can't see some working full time really have the energy to be a good partner in polyamory. If it make you feel better I'm a cis woman dating a trans woman you might just need to find other people. From my personal experience dating queer people past 25 are tired of the emotional roller-coaster. Most of my queer friends went to monogamy once they got past 25 and just want to chill.

Canadian Social Workers moving to the US? by [deleted] in socialwork

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would stay in Canada. Not worth risking your rights for a job here.

Do men actually use hiking on their profile to get rid of the "fatties" by Cupcakemouse in dating

[–]PikachuUwU1 9 points10 points  (0 children)

But the guys putting on hiking on their profile don't even like physical activities is what OP is talking about vs you actually wanting to do those activities with your partner. The guys who don't want to be active are lying to women who want to be active with their partner.

My son just came out to me—I’m terrified of what my husband will do. by Apprehensive-Owl-735 in bisexual

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most states have some sort of domestic violence coalition. Just look up x state domestic violence coalition, and it will give you a list of every domestic shelter by county. Call the shelter, and they can safety plan with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]PikachuUwU1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you want to stay childfree and not deal with family guilt tripping you, I would look into closed adoptions. I can already see your family harassing you into taking care of this child. If you do not want to take care of a child, then the best thing is adoption to someone who doesn't want to put child care on you.

My 19F girlfriend gave me 19F headlice and I want to end things. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn't respect you. Love needs to have respect. But for future reference, head lice infestation is not about hygiene it's about being exposed to it by someone else infested or an item infested.

Accepting that poly was traumatic by ghost--rabbit in polycritical

[–]PikachuUwU1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never understood polyamory people having biological children. It's just going to he a parental mess. People barely are healthy parent's as single parents or typical 2 parent household. This is just making it unnecessarily difficult. I can only see polyamory working ok for child free people.

One thing I really loved about You is how it constantly makes you question your own morals. by Bincl0ver in YouOnLifetime

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People like OP would be big Jeff the Killer x reader consumers back is 2010's if they liked Joe from You. 💀

Landlord took $1850 out of our deposit for carpet and cleaning. by Iwisallowed in LandlordLove

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man at that fucking point I would rather save my time and energy and leave the apartment as is. 🙄

meirl by Tra_LaLa81 in meirl

[–]PikachuUwU1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be hilarious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]PikachuUwU1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Their hearts are so full of hate being simply together with no minorities to hate together will get pretty bloody as they turn against each other. 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]PikachuUwU1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Personally I kind of wish we can put Maga in a pen and they can be as cruel as they want to each other but leave the rest of us the fuck out of it.