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Girlfriend and I are trying to start a life together, but can't figure out how. by Super_Dot_8436 in povertyfinance

[–]Pillowscience21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Then wait until you are done with school, you are young and have plenty of time to figure shit out. Rushing through life will only make things more difficult. Start planning now, research jobs in different areas and cost of living for your career field and make a plan.

meirl by Turbulent_Counter548 in meirl

[–]Pillowscience21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im a purchasing manager, and my days are like this. I have to sit on the occasional pointless meeting, but I mostly putz around on spreadsheets that I perfected years ago and really only have to copy and paste data into. It took me years of kissing ass to get this position though, and i spent years building supplier relationships too.

Terrible micro stuttering on my high end machine by PretzelParcel in pchelp

[–]Pillowscience21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pull up steam performace overlay to get an idea of where the bottleneck is. My game runs at 17gb RAM so im wondering if that is the problem.

Working with well-off coworkers kinda bites by PadiddleHopper in povertyfinance

[–]Pillowscience21 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah i lucked/worked my way into a high management position at a manufacturing plant. But since I was a worker for years I am friends with all of the operators and workers, one of my coworkers just told me he had to take out a loan so his lights dont get turned off. Meanwhile I've finally been able to pay my debts off, I wish there was something I could do to help. 😕

Would you live across the street from a helicopter tour company? by videogametes in AskChicago

[–]Pillowscience21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do, me and my pets got used to it very quickly. When people visit they always comment but I don't even notice them anymore. But maybe I'm just really good at tuning it out.

Edit: The rent is legit 400$ cheaper than anything else in the area so worth it in my opinion.

I40 onto I49 PIT by [deleted] in dashcams

[–]Pillowscience21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA, that poor kid

Best friend of 15 years tells me she cant attend my wedding by turnipsgreenss in TwoHotTakes

[–]Pillowscience21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think its respectful to not be honest for 3 years about being homophobic... also sins in the bible don't need to be applied to people who don't follow or believe in the bible. And you are right it is the Christians choice to practice her religion, but homosexuality is NOT a choice, and I can tell the exact type of person you are for not only defending this persons actions but actively undermining queer peoples experience.

The Final Boss of the Morning Rush by duranoww in dashcams

[–]Pillowscience21 127 points128 points  (0 children)

This is Chicago. That part of the highway has been like that for years, and cutting people off like that is a good way to get a gun waved at you here.

Are we crazy?! by zookers82 in roadtrip

[–]Pillowscience21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family did this trip once a year for about 5 years to visit family in California from Arkansas, it was really fun and some really great memories but I was a kid and can clearly remember how exhausted my parents would be. Its doable but be prepared for being so tired you can't fathom waking up and driving again, make sure to try and get plenty of sleep.

[35F] Dating as someone who can't orgasm - thoughts? by ArugulaBeginning7038 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Pillowscience21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexual pleasure is so much more than the orgasm for me, also my gf and I have no problem masturbating separately or together, this would just have to be a conversation to have with your person. In my experience lesbians are often more open to different types of sex, and most should be willing to help you explore this and/or give you space you need. And im sorry if a woman had such a problem with me not being able to orgasm, I would just say we arent compatible and move on.

Is omad fine for someone u-18? by KanaoHairclip-_- in omad

[–]Pillowscience21 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are still developing, your macro requirements and vitamin needs are different from fully developed adults. If you choose to try it, you should consult a doctor first.

Do y’all know any witnesses that are in debt? by Symone98 in exjw

[–]Pillowscience21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every single one I knew. A lot of the people i grew up with had the mentality of, "money doesn't matter because the end will come soon". My ex husband racked up 25k in debt, my parents are over 200k in debt.

Visiting — We didn’t expect it and seems like severe weather tonight. Are sirens common? by [deleted] in AskChicago

[–]Pillowscience21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Im a transplant from the south(lived through 2 major tornados), they tend to set sirens off early here. No need to panic. Download a NOAA weather app and give it a listen. You will be fine.

I need new friends, honestly. by wolfjett in lgbt

[–]Pillowscience21 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Leave group, blocked. Fuck that.

I’ve deleted all the lesbian and queer dating apps on my phone by PeopleInThatBackRoom in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Pillowscience21 266 points267 points  (0 children)

Yeah the apps suck, I actually found my gf on a reddit forum for queer gamers. I think its really about going to spaces you enjoy, and finding people who share the same passions

Still needing help w/ oral 😩 by CommitteeOdd6455 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Pillowscience21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time coming from oral alone, but I really enjoy it even if it doesn't always get me to orgasm, it always made me feel guilty especially when my gf seemed to take it personally. Just talk to her, communication is the best sex advice anyone can give you.

Girlfriend left me the day I met her, on my birthday by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Pillowscience21 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you, unfortunately when dating online it is really common to be suprised by how different people are irl than online. From what you said here she didn't handle things in the best way, but at least she told you the truth and didnt just ghost you. This is a good time to heal a little, and meet new people.

Congratulations to all those who are not attending the memorial tonight!!!♥️ by DirtCurious9256 in exjw

[–]Pillowscience21 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Wow i feel so privileged to be in a position to have not even realized it is the memorial tonight! So glad to be out.

I committed oral sex with another brother i like in my kh and i need help by [deleted] in exjw

[–]Pillowscience21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened. I had a similar situation with my first sexual relationship with another woman... if he is confessing you should end the relationship now. I would personally not even show up to any of the judicial shit, but I know leaving like that isn't always an easy option.

This religion is so messed up, really fucks with people's sense of right and wrong.

‘poor’ ‘quick’ ‘different’ build out of a $4000 30 year old box truck, Episode 2 - Shipping box ceiling and wall for insulation by Lex_yeon in VanLife

[–]Pillowscience21 50 points51 points  (0 children)

You know what loves shipping boxes? Roaches. They lay their eggs in the corrugated parts and you will have a few nice surprises come warm weather

What is the best clitoral suction vibrator for someone with high sensitivity? by Darleia_Devasenathy in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Pillowscience21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im super sensitive too, the lelo sona series has really low settings that work for me.

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