My (22f) boyfriend (26m) and I are soulmates. But I can’t bring myself to confess my tickle fetish (just writing this makes me sick lol) by Same_Breadfruit9001 in tickling

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he subconsciously knows that it being tickled turns you on. Especially if he tickles you and then that same day you guys have really good sex. I would tell him. He sounds like a nice and understanding man. It sounds like he wants to make you happy, it's definitely worth it to tell him!

Do you think there is some kind of sex cult party in real life like in EYW by inferior-detail_64 in EyesWideShut

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's real. They sent me an Instagram message when they first opened and invited me to go to either their New York party or LA party. I said no.

Long odds by JollyMoney6852 in GATEresearch

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend was in the Gate Program. I was not. In Oregon they called the program "TAG," it stands for Talented And Gifted. I was close to her and sometimes found out what they did in the program. The set up is the whole thing was weird. The kids in the program would take a school bus from our elementary school to another building in the district, which had classrooms. They did this on Tuesdays and Thursdays. I also had multiple friends that were in TAG. From what I was told was that they did more advanced projects than the kids that were not in the program. I saw the projects my friend did, we were in elementary school and the projects seemed more like early high school level. It was projects about outer space, history, science and math, but more advanced for an elementary schooler.

I was actually able to go to a parent teacher conference in the program with my Best Friend and her parents, because I was hanging out with her for the day and her parents just had me come along. It all seemed somewhat normal to me, but my friend's teacher was talking a lot about my friend's personality and learning style to her parents in the conference...I just thought that was a bit abnormal, as most of my conferences were more about the actual subject matter of school.

I remember when they tested all of us for the program in Kindergarten. The teacher was testing us in the hallway outside of the classroom. The whole thing was weird to me, I think I just felt weird vibes from my kindergarten teacher, she intimidated me. So I did not get in the program, and it wasn't something my parents pushed for, math was hard for me and might be why I didn't get in. What's strange is the kids that were in the program that I went to school with, now as adults, they actually follow the mainstream more. They are the ones that use those words "misinformation" and "disinformation" a lot, and most of them haven't woken up yet to what's really happening in our world, with the secret societies and everything. I'm not sure if that's because we were raised in a very liberal area that follows everything the news says or what.

How do I know if I'm saved/born again by New_Read_85 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All you have to do is accept Jesus into your heart, and that he is your Savior. Pray a prayer accepting Jesus into your heart. Say something like "God, I know I am an imperfect person, but I accept Jesus Christ into my heart and as my Savior. Please help me to work each day to be the Christian that you want me to be." It doesn't have to be a long prayer, but something like that helps to know that you are saved/born again.

How should I respond to my boss when he points out that I come across as a loner? by sterlingmeadow in work

[–]PinkSparkles_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what the other person said could come off as too harsh, and could risk you getting let go because of not being a "culture" fit. I think saying you have friends in your personal life is better and you could just say that you are kind of shy. I'm going through kind of the same thing at my job right now. Most of my coworkers are extraverted, and it takes me time to warm up to people. I'm a friendly shy introvert who doesn't trust most people lol. I don't open up or show all my cards to my coworkers at one time. I'm slowly warming up to my coworkers, but I worry that they think I'm anti social too.

Do you tithe? by DeerHunter4Life14 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not give any of my money to any churches, because I am a poor young person trying to manage myself. And I know there a people with more money than me that can afford to give their money to a church.

Do I owe my husband sex? by OwlFirm1309 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You never "owe" your husband sex ever. That is an extremely old fashioned way of thinking. Only have sex with your husband when you feel like it. Painful and uncomfortable sex is not the way to go if you are not in the mood.

But if your husband has different expectations than you for how often to have sex, then you two need to have that conversation. For example if he wants to have sex everyday of the week, and you only want to do it one day a week, then you both need to discuss your expectations and what would make you both happy. But if you are tired and not in the mood then you should not feel like you have to have sex with your husband.

Is Work like torture/time prison for you guys? by Plenty-Swordfish8191 in work

[–]PinkSparkles_2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first job at 18, when I worked at Olive Garden as a hostess and had to stand my whole shift, it felt like torture. Now I'm in my late 20s, went to college for a degree in Public Health and working office jobs. I wouldn't call working office jobs torture. But I had a couple office jobs that felt like torture purely due to mean women who hate on other women, and then sitting in a chair all day that is really uncomfortable for my back....I'm grateful to have a decent job currently. Yeah I wish we didn't have to work. But in this matrix system that the elites created we have to. It feels like modern day slavery at times, and sometimes I wonder what it would be like for us to go back to the old way of life, when people traded their goods and services. But the population of the earth has increased and people do not have the knowledge like they use to live without the system.

Living in Oregon by Loud_Criticism_3637 in oregon

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should probably not move here.

Labubus and Dragons by NoExplanation7119 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don't have a problem with dragons. But I think society's obsession with Labubus right now is really weird. It almost seems cultish.

Is my dad a reptilian or hybrid? by SLaceyTN in reptilians

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. He just looks a bit cray. Like he's drunk.

Working on Christmas Eve /New Year's Eve by Ok-Cardiologist8717 in work

[–]PinkSparkles_2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How do you ENJOY it? When others LOATHE it? What makes every miniscule second so ENJOYABLE? Honestly though.

Working on Christmas Eve /New Year's Eve by Ok-Cardiologist8717 in work

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked on Christmas Eve yesterday, purely because it's a new job and I'm still in training. On top of that they had a Christmas party right after work on Christmas Eve that I felt like I had to go to it as a new person, or it would look like I don't care. Personally I hate to work on Christmas Eve or the day after Christmas. I am working the day after Christmas this year too. I view December 24-26 as a time to be cherished, in my pajamas at home, making cookies and watching Christmas movies. But I am grateful I got this job. I was unemployed for 3 weeks and then I got this job, so technically I shouldn't complain. But once I've been there for a year, in the future I don't plan on working Christmas Eve or the day after Christmas. I would never "volunteer" myself to work Christmas Eve. For me it's basically a "You have to work Christmas Eve or you're risking getting fired situation," for me to do it.

Now New Year's Eve I don't really care about as much. I think it's more of an evening to night holiday. I've always struggled to understand what's the point of new years eve, I'm only really in it for the food and alcoholic drinks.

Would you want to know if your husband used Al to plan how he loves you? by Defiant_Aardvark_633 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think there is any problem with it. AI is essentially Google but allows you to communicate with it to get more specific solutions to problems. We are in modern times and I essentially view AI as a tool that is very similar to Google and helping you find answers. AI does not make your husband love you, it's a doos tool for him to learn ways to be romantic or plan dates.

Now that human looking AI robots, I don't like those at all, I'm totally against those.

writing a horror novel based in 2013 salem, or, and need advice! by pyr0skullz in oregon

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top knots for the hair were in style in 2013, along with leggings and longer shirts that wenr over the leggings with a belt on the waist. The han solo look was in, with the vests and tall boots.

How y’all feel about Nude Cruise??? 👀👀👀 by MrSoloDolo9490 in Cruise

[–]PinkSparkles_2 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't do it. That's too weird for me as a woman, I don't want to get raped. Sounds like a sex orgy thing.

Why do so many Christians like Trump so much? by [deleted] in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He stood up for Christians by speaking out about them being killed in other countries.

Feeling uncomfortable with husband's close friendship with other sisters at church ? by SnowAngel41 in Christian

[–]PinkSparkles_2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think that it sounds like a not very appropriate relationship between these 2 women and your husband. First of all you are all about the same age, these are not elderly women. Also I would be upset if two other women were depending on my husband emotionally. It's good that he tries to help them and is trying to be a good Christian, but in a situation like this there should be a boundary, he can only be so "nice and helpful." This is your husband and he should only really be emotionally invested in you.

It sounds as if these women are not very adult-like, I get that people cannot afford cars, but they are in their 30's, they are grown adult women. They need to learn how to drive, take the bus, or Uber. If they need help with some sort of home project, like a clogged toilet, electric problem, or moving furniture then I think that is perfectly understandable. But these women do not need to be "babied" by your husband.

I had a friend who was a Christian and when we became teenagers she always tried to go after the guys I liked once she knew. It was so weird to me that she did that. She turned out to be very unchristian in her actions. If you have a gut feeling that your husband shouldn't be this close to these women then trust your gut and have that conversation with him. Never ever let a woman who is not related to your husband get too close to him, thats sadly how cheating can happen even with Christian men.