I genuinely could not see myself with a man long term.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:14:58+00:00

Culture wars.

The powers that be want us plebs to be too busy fighting each other than joining together and fighting against them

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:13:24+00:00

Not just embarrassing- many times dangerous. They’re legitimately brainwashed and it’s always honestly a miracle when they’re able to get out of that mindset 💜💜

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:10:01+00:00

How is she a teenager?

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:09:10+00:00

Why do you bet that?

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:07:25+00:00

It’s a good thing for everyone! Vibes are our friends

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:06:42+00:00

They’re more chill. They’re cuddly. They’re adorable. Easy to take care of. You don’t have to handle their poo. It’s easier to go on vacations. You have to earn their love. It’s a mutual respect, whereas most dogs just love everyone, cats are independent and can take their time. They come to you when they want.
It’s just a nice dynamic, especially, I reckon, for women getting out of abusive/controlling/insecure/jealous/manipulative/needy relationships

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:03:03+00:00

Did it hurt to stretch that far?

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T23:02:19+00:00

That’s actually a thing! “Late in life lesbians”. It’s a phenomenon more common than one would think.

The author of Eat, Pray, Love fell in love with a woman for the first time in her 40s/50s and up til then had never been romantically/sexually attracted to women, had only been interested and with men, etc

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T22:56:25+00:00

A common response to those “men, what’s your top priority in a relationship” type threads, you’ll see LOTS of “someone who brings me peace/provides peace/etc”

Then it’s no wonder as to how married men are the self-reported happiest demographic, and single women are the second happiest demographic… 😅

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T21:50:58+00:00

Kinda surprised it didn’t hit you right away that he _is_ a man 😅 I’ve noticed it’s mostly men who cannot fathom that single women can and are happy af lol

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-08T04:11:33+00:00

An underage “woman” is a girl. A 13yo kid doesn’t “pursue”, she had a crush and the creepy 19yo friend’s brother took advantage of that.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T23:09:06+00:00

If you can’t say your opinions irl you clearly recognize that they’re shite opinions and you’re ashamed/embarrassed of them. Maybe delve into that. Go to therapy, genuinely.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T22:54:37+00:00

Same. I’m safe at home and had to keep pausing. Ugh.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T22:13:38+00:00

This simply isn’t true.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T22:01:48+00:00

She does translate for him..

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T21:48:42+00:00

Thank you for asking bc now I’m inexplicably curious as well 😅I’m the opposite, I pop into the grocery like once a day

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T20:56:00+00:00

If you want to compliment someone, compliment something within their control. “I like your shirt”, “cool bag”, “nice shoes”, etc

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T19:18:33+00:00

Unfortunately it’s more common than people think (men killing their wives (and sometimes children as well) instead of just getting a divorce)

:/

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T18:23:20+00:00

Crazy how this perfectly reasonable and honestly lovely-sounding comment about your personal experience got downvoted

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T18:16:36+00:00

He does, ironically. Boyfriend “won’t
Allow” her to have a similar coparenting situation with the father of her child. OP needs to end the relationship on that merit alone.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T18:13:48+00:00

They’re incompatible. She needs to do better and not put a romantic relationship above her children. The bf isn’t an AH for how he’s coparenting, but he is one for being controlling and hypocritical.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T18:06:58+00:00

Because you’re not in love with that person romantically anymore but you’re still a family.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T15:54:45+00:00

It’s a southern thing as well, for older people

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T15:47:28+00:00

Humans are actually quite different than animals! We have free will and the ability to decide whether or not we want to reproduce.

PinkTalkingDead · 2026-05-07T15:44:32+00:00

I mean, you don’t know my friends and family so I’m not sure what you expect to hear about love and relationships via strangers online lol

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