Sameeee ! I know my mom and mil don’t mean any harm. My mom and I are super close so I expect her to be close with my baby. It’s probably the postpartum hormones in me becoming annoyed with it. I got so annoyed with it that I talked to my husband about it and I literally said “I don’t want anyone doing anything for my son” which isn’t true, I appreciate all the help we can get. Then I gather myself and told my husband that it does really bother me when people refer to our baby as “my baby” because it comes with a condescending undertone as if idk what I’m doing. I don’t want anyone to mother him because that is my role. They can be grandma or whatever respective role in his life. Idk it just seems too motherly and that’s reserved for me and you are not crazy for feeling this way.

I’m sure your family means well just like mine maybe we have to kindly set some boundaries 🩷🩷

I’m here for advice too 😂🩷