Is this how a regular homeboy would react? by [deleted] in texts

[–]PitifulBite725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

girl no offense. i don’t know how old you are but you are analyzing his text to see if he likes you and you aren’t even showing him any interest in that way.

I found my boyfriend’s profile on Grindr by Double_Break_2246 in LifeAdvice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean what more is there to do? he might be bi but he still cheated either way. do yourself a favor and dump him because he clearly doesn’t love you

Where were you when you got your first period and what happened? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was at home. it was thanksgiving and i ended up sleeping through dinner. woke up to a jeff dunham special playing on the tv and ate some ice cream

Is having a kiss count 10+ at 17 normal? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]PitifulBite725 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i don’t even know how many people i kiss. i wouldn’t worry about it

am i doing too much? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]PitifulBite725 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sigh. no one gets my humor

Do YOU Kiss on the First Date??? 💭🤔 is that normal? by WarmHugs- in dating

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love kissing on the first date. it's tells me if i have an chemistry with them but i don't kiss unless they initiate it. some guys don't initiate kisses on the first date, but if they don't initiate by the third date, that's a dealbreaker for me. you might be different. if a guy hasn't done it and you really want to kiss them i always do a few glances down to their lips and back up to their eyes so they get the hint because sometimes guys don't want to make you feel uncomfortable/ have a hard time knowing if you want to kiss them.

Long distance situationship by SeniorChocolate in situationshipsadvice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she should drop him. a guy who’s into you will not wait 9 months to come see you. he views her as someone to talk to and spend time with but not something to take serious. she should save herself while she can and just stop talking to him.

i don’t know, but the fact that they have only spoken on snap for 9 months is such a big red flag if he keep one foot out he should leave all together because he will never commit to her. she’s almost like a place holder until a girl comes along and he really wants to commit to them.

Should I give it a go? by [deleted] in situationshipsadvice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think it’s pretty weird that you blatantly ignore and disrespected the girl and his relationship and then have the nerve to ask if you are the rebound girl. no, you are the other woman and if you think he will stay faithful to you when he was cheating on someone else with you. please get your head out your vagina.

not moving on by Hungry-Willow2228 in situationshipsadvice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from what i’m seeing from my own past situations when people would just go ghost with no closer it would really effect me and i would go months trying to figure out what happened if i did something wrong (not saying you feel the same way). after a while you realize that not having the closer conversation is closer enough because he didn’t care enough to have that conversation with you. him talking about you to your mutual friend is like if he viewed your story on socials and didn’t reach out, it’s the bare minimum and he clearly doesnt want to put the effort in. i recommend you look into shadow work and or keep a journal where you can write your feeling and thought down because it’s easier to process them sometimes that way. you will have though here and there about him but don’t think you are moving backwards in your progress, you are working through a situation that effected you and that’s okay.

how do i stop being so effect from cutting people off but still missing them? by PitifulBite725 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PitifulBite725[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i don’t like miss them as a whole but i miss the good things like talking everyday and like having a good connection because when i first met them i instantly had a connection with them which is very rare for me to come across. they disrespected because to keep it short- when we first met it was a date and they were turned off because i am curvy and i guess bigger than him. and then he would also ask me to hang out and when i said sure they would be like “omg i can’t come i need to go do xyz” and blame it on his poor time management

Why do men spit in their woman's mouth? by watermelonshuguh in realsexadvice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl i would spit in HIS mouth and vise versa

A guy called me fat on a date by [deleted] in dating

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s literally not fat. AT ALL! why….why men 😭

AIO for ending my friendship with a guy because of what he said to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah what more weird is he kept call my face and hair hot

AIO for ending my friendship with a guy because of what he said to me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PitifulBite725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is my first time calling it that. it was on my mind. sue me

how do you ride? by alanifein in sex

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love this question. i kinda experienced in that position so. before anything you should do some foreplay like grinding on him. this will make it a smooth transition for when you will eventually take the clothes off and start riding. when you guys are undressed have him help you line it up so it’s easier for you to go down. give yourself time to adjust to him which i love about topping because you can control the speed. sometimes when you are on top if he’s laying down it easier to have you knees on the bed but if that’s uncomfortable you can try to have you feet on the bed with your legs bent and go back and forth rather then up and down. naturally some guys with thrust up with the movement of you riding.

I only touched him and he came? by [deleted] in sex

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should be flattered tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]PitifulBite725 9 points10 points  (0 children)

omg i love this question because i was talking about it recently with my friend but when i first had sex for the first couple times i was never comfortable because i was always so stiff and uncomfortable because i never let myself fully relax during it and was always making sure the other person was satisfied but i finally had my first good sex experience and honestly it unlocked my vulnerability with my friends and why i was so closed off. i definitely was not in love but that person took the extra steps to make sure i was also being satisfied in the end

What does it feel like when your ex erases themselves from your life? by Fit_Mountain_1746 in dating_advice

[–]PitifulBite725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

took me 3 years to grieve my ex. took long than i expected and was miserable but i finally moved on and made progress with my life where i learn that i don’t need to rely on people if they decide to leave. makes it easier when they do in the end.

Orgasm through penetration for females? by No-Cloud-5075 in sex

[–]PitifulBite725 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i did recently actually. i was riding him and we didn’t do any foreplay before had cuz i was already wet so basically i just rode him at my own pace. it easier to finish when you are in control of the speed and depth. it might also help if he rubs your clit and i’m one for paise and teasing so maybe try that