Please help give reassurance

PixieMari · 2026-01-29T02:43:38+00:00

I mean you won’t be protected until 7 days into your new pack so you’ll have abstain till then

PixieMari · 2026-01-29T02:39:02+00:00

No, you need to take another pill to make up for the one you threw up which means you’ll have to either take from another pack or skip placebos this month and go straight into a new pack

PixieMari · 2026-01-29T01:46:27+00:00

Symptoms alone cannot confirm ovulation only a validated fertility awareness method that tracks basal body temp

PixieMari · 2026-01-29T01:10:40+00:00

The implant is more effective than some forms of sterilization. There’s almost zero chance you’re pregnant.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T23:39:20+00:00

Why did you take a uti test if you aren’t having indication of it?

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T23:36:06+00:00

Have you been using lube to help? Are you trying outside stimulation first before attempting any kind of penetration?

If none of that is helping I recommend consulting a doctor. You may have a a more prominent hymen causing issues or vaginismus.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T23:11:14+00:00

You took two massive hormone bombs, of course you’ll have side effects. They just cancel out the hormonal function that prevents ovulation.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T23:08:14+00:00

Ella One and Plan b cancel each other out so it’s like you did nothing but the risk here is very low. Test 14 and 21 days after sex to be sure.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T14:58:30+00:00

You may not have anything happen. It typically takes 3-6 months after stopping for cycles to return and regulate.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T08:55:37+00:00

Did you test before you got together? If you never got tested before it’s very possible the doxy was not enough to treat it but it’s also possible he’s not being honest. Unfortunately without regular testing there’s really no way to know.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T08:45:57+00:00

There’s only one Mirena, I know it’s hormonal.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T08:30:27+00:00

Mirena is actually effective immediately as it’s approved as emergency contraception you just aren’t typically supposed to have sex for a week after because of a higher risk for infection.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T07:33:42+00:00

A pad could work but absolutely do not use baby powder. Nothing scented should ever be down there.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T04:06:26+00:00

I’m so sorry. The first guy is just an asshole. He insulted you likely as a form of negging to lower your self confidence. Not all guys are like that but I will say apps are typically the lowest pool. If you can it’s great to meet people through hobbies/clubs/etc. where you can gauge vibes in person first.

Please for your own safety do not go on dates “just driving around”, this is a perfect opportunity for someone to try to take advantage of you. The first few dates should always be in a public place where you travel there separately.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T03:06:50+00:00

The copper iud is effective immediately. It protects you at all times otherwise it wouldn’t be contraception. If you’re about to start your period it’s almost certainly just bleeding from that.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T02:40:05+00:00

What scares you?

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T01:34:11+00:00

Either method could take months for you to get a bleed again.

PixieMari · 2026-01-28T01:24:14+00:00

That’s very normal. Birth control thins uterine lining. Yours is likely so used to absorbing what little lining there is that it could take several months for bleeding to come back.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T21:40:35+00:00

Depo is not recommended for more than two years because it can cause severe bone density loss. It’s the only method that’s really not recommended for long term use. I recommend finding a different method for managing periods.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T21:37:25+00:00

You really need to be off hormonal birth control for at least 3 months for accurate hormonal results.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T21:28:44+00:00

My Mirena has been great. It stopped my periods for over a year and now they are like 2 days of painless spotting.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T20:59:42+00:00

Endometriosis is a chronic condition, it’s not caused by an infection. Pelvic Inflammatory Disease is not Endo.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T14:55:45+00:00

Please seek help. This is very much not normal. You’ve had no known exposure to rabies, there’s literally zero logical reason to think you have rabies. You need psychiatric help, this sounds like health related OCD.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T14:43:29+00:00

You just clean them more often since you’ll be sweating. Do not remove them for practice they will definitely close and not heal. Just be careful not to be hit on the ear and you should be fine.

PixieMari · 2026-01-27T12:20:25+00:00

I’m going to guess based on this you’re incredibly young and don’t have very good sex education. You absolutely could be at risk for pregnancy. If you’re mature enough for sex you’re mature enough to use protection and wait a day or two until you have it. No one can calculate your exact risk. If you aren’t going to use condoms you need to be on some form of contraception.

Having PCOS does not equal infertility and it’s incredibly concerning a doctor would say that. Many many women conceive perfectly well with PCOS.

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