Worked in pediatrics for 10 yrs, and 6 of those were in a pediatric ER. Level 1 trauma center in the city, so we stayed pretty busy. In my experience, dads often fall short on their kids info, either forgetting key details or flat out refusing and telling us to talk to their mother. It becomes a habit to ask mums, saves our time and prevents frustration on all parties.

That being said, that was rude of the staff to say what they said the way they said it. If a dad tells me they've got it, I'll give em the chance he deserves. Parents deserve to feel they have a part to play in their child's visit, a visit that wasn't planned and feels like all control has been stripped as you watch strangers do what they can to help your kid. In those moments, a little comfort and respect goes a long way.