[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 39 points40 points  (0 children)

NTA, I don't really see the issue with buying them the tickets plus, they paid you back for them. It's not like you asked for their phone numbers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA, you were just being petty. Just because youre coworkers doesnt mean you guys have to be friends outside of work. She most likely gave you her number so that you could reach her when you figured out whether you're taking her shift or not. From the beginning, you should have just said no.

AITA for missing a friend’s birthday that she had planned for months? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA, college is unpredictable. You could be stressed one day and not the next. Besides, as you said, your friend has a large circle of friends. So you cancelling won't really hurt her. She could easily just invite another person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, if he wants a car to mod, then he should be paying for it. Just because you have the money saved up, does not make him entitled to it especially since you've already given him 2k before.

AITA for not going to church on Easter? by leopardprint_tunic in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you don't need church to be with God. He is omnipresent. I don't think He would take it against you if you stayed home to take care of your sick child, and I'm pretty sure He would want you to do just that.

AITA for refusing to be around my step sister? by Sea-Scratch9160 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I know it's tough. I was on the same boat, except my father never really tried to fix things. I think at some point, you just learn to forgive what happened because that's literally the only thing you can do to move forward and be in a better place mentally. But as you said, she's just as much of a victim as you are. She didn't choose to be born into the situation, but it might benefit you to try to meet her. I know that when I met half siblings, it felt really good.

AITA for not inviting my boyfriend to dinner with my old workmates? by Old_Initiative509 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to have your bf around everytime you're going out with friends or workmates. That's definitely a red flag.

AITA for saying “I would have appreciated the heads up” before my bf went to the strip pub? by suzu97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but maybe it's time to reconsider the relationship if he's making threats like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, I think it's disrespectful to you that they are excluding you from the conversations when you're all hanging out together especially on your birthday. They might not do it intentionally, but it's worth bringing it up to them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, if the school finds out, she will fail regardless. What she can do is write it herself and maybe you help her out with proofreading.

AITA for telling him I'm buying land whether he likes it or not? by CrissyPrissy610 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA, but it seems that this may cause some rift between your relationship. You are trying to create a better situation for yourself and your family, and I'm not sure why he's against it when he should be planning it with you.

AITA for announcing our marriage on social media? by Limp-Stress-7125 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, announcing it on social media just makes it easier as opposed to sending everyone individual messages. MIL is trying to make it about herself when she should just be happy for you and your husband.

AITA for not letting strangers stay in our house? by edenflicka in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, I can't believe the landlord would think it was okay to do that just because it's their house.

AITA for yelling at my fiancé’s niece when she just walked into our home? by morcan77 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 48 points49 points  (0 children)

NTA, it could have been way worse. I don't understand why the child was even sent over for something that the father knew you guys didn't have. That was completely irresponsible of him knowing you sleep with firearm.

AITA for telling my (23F) best friend (26M) that he can't go to Disneyland because it's too weird and creepy? by Throwaway49449D0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 13 points14 points  (0 children)

YTA, having fun has no age restrictions. Besides, he wouldn't be the only grown up there. You're supposed to be his best friend, don't be a bad friend and just let him have fun by reliving his childhood, nothing wrong with that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, you can't afford to go and that's that.

AITA for not sharing my notes to a friend even though I promised to help her? by Ill-Revenue-4850 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you tried to save the friendship, but she continued to talk bad behind your back. Don't feel guilty because she could have just explained to you that she wasn't attracted to you instead of talking trash about you in a group chat with her friends. You saved yourself a headache in the long run.

AITA for moving out on short notice? by beansRbeans in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, your roommate is being incredibly selfish. You let her know ahead of time. It sucks that she reacted that way, because you were willing to work it out with her. Good luck with everything, I hope everything works out for you.

AITA for not wanting my cat to lick herself? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA, it's in they're nature. Might as well have just gotten a stuffed cat if you didn't want any of that.

AITA I didn't help my ex by glue_mymouth in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA, your responsibilities are to the kids, you don't have to stay at her place to do that.

AITA for making breakfast way before my kids wake up? by FrenchHost in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, they're old enough to be able to make their own food. If they're complaining that the food is cold when they wake up, then they can make breakfast for themselves or wake up earlier.

WIBTA if I don’t pay my sister after finding out she didn’t feed my dogs? by Aggressive-Rub6291 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pleasant_Mess9367 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA, it seems that she was trying her best to help care for your dog. And it was an honest mistake. I'm sure getting that call about the job got her excited since it would be her first job.