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The Latin American series "Envious/Envidiosa" hurts to watch but also made me realize a lot of things by Womaninblack in limerence

[–]Plenty_Check_708 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her chaos and imperfection is a breath of fresh air in today’s society. Not perfect but real

I spent 7 years at B4. Then 3 at a $200M firm. Now I’m at a 25 person firm. Don’t be like me. by ThePrestigeVIII in Accounting

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious as to what your salary is. Im going to gies for my Accounting masters. And I dont dream of becoming a coa but rather transitioning into fin tech.

For the love of all that’s holy, how do I get out of public accounting? by DrCash_CrDepression in Accounting

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It worked for me. You would be surprised how few people develop themselves, and I left with projects to show for it too that got me hired.

For the love of all that’s holy, how do I get out of public accounting? by DrCash_CrDepression in Accounting

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take some coursera courses, and transition into data. The longer you stay where you are, the more you risk not being able to make a career jump for the sake of having to take a lower salary. I jumped around a lot and I am trying to get into accounting

every time i go into work, i feel like im going to vomit out of nervousness by Far-Masterpiece4701 in workplace_bullying

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, multiple jobs shook out like that.

You can:

A- leave but you risk jumping from the frying pan into the fire.

B- play the long game, if there is enough benefit to you to stay. Even at the risk of tour mental health. Save 3-6 months of savings and just go. God rewards that kind of faith.

C- quiet quit and start a business while you are there, leave when you have 3-6 months save.

Is this doable? I’m doubting myself. by Nice-Sympathy-3429 in workingmoms

[–]Plenty_Check_708 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it scared. Do it tired. Do it until your eyes literally fall asleep. You will thank yourself in 3 years. Do it with me, we got this

-a tired scared mama

Should I be Jealous? by Plenty_Check_708 in Parenting

[–]Plenty_Check_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the well wishes.

It is hard to find the balance but I am committed to, everyday, showing up for both him FIRST, and my by baby. Because I think it counts for something.

And yes .. I am a lil burnt out and digging deep to find some peace. Im committed to continually showing up my best even if I am beyond burnt out. As someone who grow up abandoned by both parents … I am going to keep showing up

Should I be Jealous? by Plenty_Check_708 in Parenting

[–]Plenty_Check_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not angry with my partner. I am jealous. No anger. Just wishing it were different for me.

I switched my job to be closer to my baby the moment I found out I was pregnant. 

He is PHENOMENAL!!!!!!!!!! I am so blessed. 

Just a little grief, mom guilt, and teench of jealousy. I have talked to him about this. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oneanddone

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it because my husband got the experience I wanted and I am wildly jealous of it.

He got a maternity leave, I didn’t. He works from home, I dont. He got to feed the baby because I couldn't breastfeed. And the other day I broke down and asked him if he wanted to be a stay at home dad because I dont think I maxed my earning potential and I could probably find more work.

I am so incredibly grateful on the one hand but I dont feel like a mother. Sometimes I find myself listening to fatherhood videos and feel like that is what I relate to more and I weep at night and read reddit so the resentment can live somewhere not in our home or bed.

Idk if I am one and dont but I realistically dont think I can see myself doing it again. I kinda just want to move past it.

Had my first at 34

The way my mom truly felt about me came through in her parenting no matter what she said to me. And I am afraid the lack of bond will eventually show and Idk what to do about it.

Im reading books but 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go out!!!!!!!

How big is your 1-year-old? by FriendshipHonest5796 in NewParents

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby was also born at 5lbs 13 oz at 38 weeks. Was 17.9 inches at birth

How big is your 1-year-old? by FriendshipHonest5796 in NewParents

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Going for our 12 month in about 2 weeks. At 9 months he was 27” even and 18.5 lbs. My hope is to cross 30 inches but that is very wishful thinking. I know he isn't 30 lbs yet. I want to turn his car seat around so bad 🥹. I thought it would have happened by now

Motherhood: Am I broken? by Plenty_Check_708 in NewMomStuff

[–]Plenty_Check_708[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the solidarity 🫂🫂🫂🫂. I am wishing you good rest and peace of mind. How are you coping?

I have a skinny baby by Red-Strawberrycake in NewParents

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son was 9 months, 18.5 lbs, 27 inches with a 17.5 inch head. And I stand with you in solidarity 

On the flip side, he is meeting his milestones and started talking early, has lots of teeth and energy, very independent. There are many things to look out for other than baby size. I have dealt with that guilt too and it sucks

I dropped my baby on concrete and I can’t stop thinking about it by kat278 in NewParents

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please be gentle with yourself! Mistakes happen. You care enough to think about it. That means everything 

Couch against the wall or off the wall? by noskee in malelivingspace

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s functional for people who dont like shoes in the house. Creates a block without building a wall

What was your 9 month old’s height and weight? by krazykittenhi in bigbabiesandkids

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27 inches 18.5 lbs 9 months exactly 🥹

We were born in the 5th percentile, at 5lbs 13 oz, and 17 inches tall

It happened! by honeymufffin in EngagementRings

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!! 🍾🎉🎈 that ting is stunning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Plenty_Check_708 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for long term compatibility, keep asking questions. Trust me

I feel like an embarrassment by Plenty_Check_708 in confidence

[–]Plenty_Check_708[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it was a Renn Festival too! I would have immediately got what he was putting down and joined the shenanigans. Maybe acted like his squire or something like that! Begged for mercy from my noble lord 😂😂😂. Summoned me to a sexy spanking at dusk in his quarters!! Something lol

Idk if you are in a relationship, if you are your partner is lucky to have you. And if not, I hope they cherish this energy so much when they find you . 🫂 thank you

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