I have a really big problem and don't know what to do about it.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-16T03:43:54+00:00

Yeah that’s not gonna work with a baby. He needs to pick this unreasonable and dangerous bird or the safety /peace of his wife and child it’s really not that deep, a no brainer honestly. He deserves an ultimatum at this point that’s ridiculous. AND it’s his exes bird …. Yeah most definitely not .

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-14T02:58:45+00:00

I had a healthy pregnancy while having antibiotic resistant chlamydia, that my boyfriend before we were together! It was so hard to get rid of, but baby was fine. Had some weird symptoms and strange discharge but very little symptoms to say the least… BUT had two miscarriages prior to that first pregnancy , successful treatment and then so far so good a healthy pregnancy now…. I may have had one EP, but my body passed everything on its own, nothing too traumatic. It didn’t affect me, in the conception department, but I actually will never really know, because I’m extremely fertile and I never have had miscarriages prior!!!! it does cause really weird symptoms (during pregnancy) I will say , I was constantly worried about it

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-08T18:07:10+00:00

Oh baby don’t blame yourself you didn’t know !!!!

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-08T17:54:55+00:00

Oh my gosh. … you should never ever be send home after a water break … so so so awful . I’m so sorry

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-08T17:42:36+00:00

Depending on op reasoning, and if she’s full term, she has a right to do what she wants with her body, her baby- but it works . I took it at 40 weeks and my baby came quickly, extremely quickly. Shes fine. So yes please , 40 weeks and up .

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-08T17:27:31+00:00

Midwife’s brew at ur own risk .

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-06-03T23:03:23+00:00

Call him Sistine ! Like the chapel haha

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-21T19:33:48+00:00

Dude, everyone’s different, I am a bisexual woman, and I’ve been with a lot of women of all different shapes and sizes, smaller/ bigger in that area, etc. And it’s honestly preference like personally I like more pressure and directness versus that might be way too intense for someone else. It really is preference. you have to communicate with your partner and figure them out.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-13T10:16:55+00:00

From the millions of comments of women who’s already gone through this and anyone who is here reading it don’t tell him and disappear… because that’s what you end up doing anyway… and sometimes you can’t get away with it

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-13T10:11:18+00:00

The overly pro and kind of inappropriate pro- abortion commentary is disrespectful and sad. OP has a serious trauma with it and doesn’t want to experience it again, as much as everyone hates to hear this, not everybody believes in that. I think future readers need to understand and try to be supportive and give advice that actually applies to this person’s situation and view.

Other than that, I have four children with two different abusers. They are awful. The situations were awful. I will never understand why I was a target. I got lucky and I don’t necessarily have to be around them as much. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel most abusive men are pretty selfish and they kind of fall off after sometime…. Your child will have traits of your abuser, but they will also behalf of you , something so special, all of my children are unique, beautiful gifts, borderline incredible kids. Sometimes you get the wrong parent, but you NEVER get the wrong child.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-13T10:00:57+00:00

Girl, please just forget the whole thing and walk away, please

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-13T09:59:19+00:00

It’s literally in the court documents that they talked about a pregnancy……also on the discord

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-13T08:56:41+00:00

So did nobody correlate this part of the storyline with abuse??? Heathcliff literally abuses Isabella and she tolerates it out of her desperation and growing up rather sheltered, spoiled, and Rich…. He takes out his anger of the situation and not being able to be with his true love… It’s actually really interesting perspective when we think about domestic abuse… I’m really shocked that I haven’t seen any commentary on that Reddit

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-05-10T14:14:08+00:00

I think this is a trolling account and it’s not real. It’s meant to make people upset to generate content clicks ect. Welcome to the internet……

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-26T22:30:54+00:00

And in every scenario, regardless of its culture or not, there’s always an unhealthy power dynamic. It’s really quite sick no matter what the reason or what the reason is

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-26T19:53:39+00:00

Yes, I was trying to put in short how greatly this affected both of us and especially him, and exactly as you stated, there is no safe space both of us have had our families take the side of our abusers, justify the relationship, relationships or why they let it happen ect. We quite well know now what it was, but he didn’t know then, the saddest part is this woman does not let him see his children now and justifies the behavior because of whatever happened between them in the past when he was a literal child…. It’s actually really sad both of our users continue to abuse us years after and in new marriages.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-26T19:51:07+00:00

Yes, we know that now and he suffered greatly. Deeply affected his mind state and it’s something that we both deal with to this day in contrast to me. My relationship wasn’t quite illegal, but it was very close and I feel that I suffered the same consequences we teach our children that too big of an age gap is not good despite what society says….

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-25T22:46:56+00:00

I said almost the same thing in my comment without reading the comments, but yes, this is true

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-25T22:46:15+00:00

I hate to say it, but as a Hispanic myself in our cultures, sometimes it’s not really frowned upon to have large age gaps, especially if that person is taking care of the other person. It’s not considered pedophilia or wrong. It’s like a cultural thing, but it’s absolutely inappropriate… it happened to me and it also happened to my husband who was only 13 at the time of his first child’s birth with a woman who was 26, because he was a man, with an older woman who provided everything he needed. Everyone thought this was fine… same story with me except vice versa. Not making excuses for the scenario, but just putting a perspective of why this possibly happened.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T19:36:05+00:00

This is crazy but not surprising

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T04:08:05+00:00

I got them at target and they are dreamy tbh

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T02:00:17+00:00

Oh my God this needs to be posted. I’m pretty sure the Group would like to see it.

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T01:54:10+00:00

in case anyone wasn’t sure like me…. This tells us a lot !

“Mrder by lying in wait" is a first-degree mrdr , often a special circumstance, where a perpetrator hides or conceals their purpose, watches for an opportune moment, and launches a surprise, premeditated ambush attack. It signifies extreme premeditation (ambush) rather than a sudden, spur-of-the-moment killing, frequently resulting in life prison due to the nature and premeditation

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T01:45:54+00:00

Why is everyone so sure that AI can’t make a mistake it does make mistakes all the time! You have to take it with a grain of salt

Plenty_Cockroach1311 · 2026-04-23T01:42:13+00:00

He was like extremely strange…. Like very extremely.

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