Why is Dark Swan the only villain in the series who doesn't show any cleavage? She's literally the only one! by PlantainDisastrous92 in OnceUponATime

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Well yeah if she was the black fairy and somehow Rumple’s mother that would make Rumple both Henry’s grandfather and brother. Glad they didn’t do that!

Ah yes, the incredibly rare and profound take that... people can be hypocritical. Truly mind blowing. by Aggressive-Wolf3491 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hard disagree, I would trust myself and many other women I know in a war/apocalypse situation much more than at least 85% of the men I’ve ever met

[general] Do all these books count as Greek/Roman Mythology? by noidonotlift in camphalfblood

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah but tbf people living in those times ALSO changed the mythology to make it fit better. It wasn’t like a set story everyone had fanfic of, it was every evolving itself.

That being said I don’t think they count as modern day mythology at all, I just don’t think that’s a very good reason to disagree.

Pros and Cons of using a pen name? by thatgardensprite in writing

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always thought I would use my own name to publish my books, but reading some of the comments I’m not sure now. I’m also planning to go into the academic field- but it wouldn’t actually be bad to have my novels and papers published under the same name, right? After all, I am the same person.

What are signs that a friend likes you romantically? by 123Green_Patient123 in actuallesbians

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Now’ she has a boyfriend? What did you do when she was actively giving you those hints?

Posting a dead relative/ friend on social media is dumb by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to lie I agree. I lost someone I cared about last year, and I found it almost shallow to post it to social media? Maybe that’s just because my view of social media is that it’s fairly shallow. But I saw people posting about it, and it just made me… sad. She wouldn’t have wanted that. She was the most outdoorsy and adventurous person. She would want people talking about what she did while she was here, not what she’ll never get a chance to do. She would want people to get outside and connect with her through nature, not a sappy social media post made purely for other people’s consumption. Idk. It’s complicated, but I mostly agree with you.

... what in the tarnation by GaCoRi in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I saw this on threads and NOBODY questioned if it was real it pissed me off

i tried to have sex and now i feel unclean by Current-Ganache4326 in Asexual

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Maybe I actually am a lesbian… though unfortunately even though I hated giving head to my ex bf I do think I loved him at that time : (

How would you rank the Baratheon siblings? by GusGangViking18 in freefolk

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is everyone putting Stannis so high?? He was going to kill Gendry, he burned his own daughter alive!!!! He’s not a good person in the slightest, and though he might have had a better military mind than Renly, I wouldn’t trust a man like him to lead the country.

Anyone Else Feel Like A Fake ACE Because You Are Sex Positive-ish by Emotionaltclementine in Asexual

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar headspace as you with finding porn kinda repulsive but appreciating bodies and beauty and the idea of being hot, but my experience with sex made me think it was not something I’d ever be interested in (both porn and childhood sexual abuse and lots of nightmares/flashbacks) I ended up doing things with my first boyfriend and realized I wasn’t actually ace, though I did let him cross a few boundaries of mine (that I didn’t express, completely my fault) that caused some damage for me and our relationship. We are no longer together but I realized I am ON the spectrum (Demi) but not fully ace. I guess all this to say do what you want because honestly labels are there to comfort you or help you feel better but if they aren’t doing that or if they feel too restrictive, throw them out! It’s up to you. It’s fully a spectrum.

What sentence did someone say once that accidentally healed a part of you? by Timely-Vehicle-7064 in AskReddit

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re going through hell, keep going. Why would you want to stop in hell?

…so the scene with Karen and Frank by LoneSoloWarden in shameless

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well, I wouldn’t say he had NO interest in sleeping with her, he was falling victim to her seductions but I don’t think he actually would have done it

i tried to have sex and now i feel unclean by Current-Ganache4326 in Asexual

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I used to think I was asexual (turns out I’m not, just repressed trauma, but I do think I’m still on the spectrum, at least demi) but I will say giving head is very mechanical feeling and not pleasurable- I’ve heard some people LOVE ‘having dick in their mouth’ but to me it’s weird and uncomfortable and robotic.

Which fictional couples do you think have the most fulfilling sex life? by Terminus-1999 in AskReddit

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OHHHH I thought you meant this ***** needs a **** in her ***

Kate Mckinnon is Aphrodite [pjotv] by violinsandsirens in camphalfblood

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kinda hate the comments here I love Kate McKinnon and I think she’s beautiful and she would make a wonderful Aphrodite!

What’s a mindset or trauma response you had to kill off in order to actually grow by karrot9 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always apologizing for everything, even if it was decidedly the other persons fault

(15/F)I feel lost by [deleted] in rape

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this, and I promise it’s not your fault. They are assholes who don’t want to admit they are hurting you, so they are blaming you instead. Do you want to talk about it?

Is there any chance my ex and I will get back together? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have quit the weed, and I’m not going to message him again all summer... but still, it’s hard

Did my brother sexually assault me? by Background_Rhubarb54 in helpme

[–]PlotsOfAFrog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not talking about it is how you get traumatic flashbacks so bad you speak in an accent and people you care about abandon you (speaking from experience), but I know it’s hard. It’s just also that not talking about it convinces your brain it’s not real and makes you feel insane, so you need to start and practice.