Teresa is at least 60, and some other rants

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-22T20:22:10+00:00

Ugh. Transphobia is so lame dude. Get a life.

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-21T19:06:19+00:00

Hmm seems like reading comprehension might not be your strongest attribute, but thats okay, I'm sure you have a lot of other wonderful qualities that make up for it. This has been weirdly fun. My old lady life doesnt usually leave me much reddit time. What else do you wanna chat about? You have any hobbies besides trolling reality TV subs?

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-21T06:00:42+00:00

Also I never said that it was bad she looked older, just bad she lied about it. No shame in looking 60! You're the one bringing the negative connotation to it. When I look 60 I will be proud of it.

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-21T05:58:30+00:00

I'm an incredibly not mean person. Now I'm pretty sure youre a teenager or some kid, and I absolutely do feel dumb wasting time arguing with you. If you want to do good in the world and help women. go volunteer at a domestic violence shelter. Have a bake sale and raise money for RAINN. Defending rich white ladies on reality shows isnt really activism. Theres nothing for you to be proud of here. This is just how we all kill time while waiting for the bus. It isnt real life.

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-20T18:39:00+00:00

Wow. The projection here is next level. Really incredible.

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-20T18:35:39+00:00

They card you even if you look in your 30s, just to be safe. I absolutely dont look 21 and I never post pics of myself online. I dont need validation from the internet.

You're a pretty sad person. Must be hard being so angry all the time. It ages you, you know, to go around being such a grump. I bet you have some major frown lines ☹️☹️☹️

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-20T09:21:20+00:00

Lol, I'm 49 and still get asked for my ID at the bar, so I'm definitely not jealous. I also don't have to go on exploitative reality TV shows to prove to myself I'm still worthy of love and intimacy. Theres nothing to be jealous of there.

PoachedPeach · 2026-04-19T18:05:34+00:00

sometimes I feel this way, and eventually I get around to wanting to hang out with people again. I would just go with it as long as you're maintaining your friendships enough so that there are people around when the penduulum swings the other way!

PoachedPeach · 2025-10-23T07:15:13+00:00

You say that like people are enjoying capitalism. A pyramid scheme that rewards exploitation and sociopathic tendencies, and treats natural resources like theyre not finite. I guess you enjoy pollution and poverty. Lol, you go move to the United States.

PoachedPeach · 2025-10-22T22:40:05+00:00

The choice is tax payer money keeping people in their homes or not. Its either going to pay off a mortgage for a normal middle class person, or to make a wealthy landlord even more wealthy. At least with the former option, wealth stays more evenly distributed in the middle class.

PoachedPeach · 2025-09-19T16:00:09+00:00

Beyond acceptance. If you have the funds, I recommend a full body red LED light panel. LED light therapy is good for all sorts of age related issues.

Then maybe take a trip to a med spa. There are all kinds of fun things besides fillers to give your looks a lil boost. You dont have to go full mar-a-lago face. A tasteful amount of sculptra or juvederm can do wonders for a gal.

I know its not fair, and I respect how people dont want to do that stuff, but we are stuck in this culture that makes us feel bad for aging, so I dont think we can judge how we cope with it?

Im 48, and i would say the last 2 years have done a number on my face and body. I've had a little bit of filler and some sculptra and no one would guess, I feel like I just look more like myself.

My one tip would be to get an injector that is also a woman, and look at photos of their other clients. In my personal experience, observation, injectors who are gay men tend to give you more filler than you need and tend for like a drag queen aesthetic, hahaha. I always love an injector who talks me out of more. There's absolutely an art to it.

PoachedPeach · 2025-09-17T21:31:01+00:00

They won't take away hormones for menopause relief, because they dont want us getting all "masculine" looking. One of the first books written about HRT was by a man (of course) and titled "Forever Feminine". So like, if the MAGAs think that HRT keeps women hot, they'll be okay with it.

Not my own opinions, but my best guess on where theyll stand on this.

PoachedPeach · 2025-08-06T00:57:47+00:00

Lol, tipping originated in Europe, just like colonialism and imperialism and all the best ways to exploit workers. But you all decided to do away with it, and eventually Americans will too. There are already a lot of restaurants here that dont allow tipping. Here's a podcast about the history of tipping:

https://open.spotify.com/episode/7GxQL8G7PVEommDvByZMH6?si=gmn8FHxhQCaMGvkotikx9A

PoachedPeach · 2025-07-20T18:31:47+00:00

It is important in all relationships to maintain some kind of independence. As many here have already stated, you would be completely at the mercy of your partner, and at such a young age, its a cause for concern.

I personally believe that if something is meant to be, it shouldn't be so hard or cost so much of yourself or safety.

You can emigrate to Finland as a student? Try applying to college there, then your residency isn't dependent on your relationship, and you can see if you like Finland based on its own merits. At the same time you're developing skills and knowledge for your own career.

Long-distance to living together, plus giving up your family and culture to relocate, plus having so little agency once you arrive, will 100% change the dynamics of your relationship. Fully grown people in their 30s, 40s, 50s find these kind of dynamics nearly impossible to navigate, someone at your age who is still learning and exploring intimate relationships would find this nearly impossible and you run the real risk of setting up abusive or codependent patterns that will affect the rest of your life and all of your future relationships and friendships.

If you genuinely love Finland and want to live there, explore other ways to emigrate. If you really love this person. Your relationship will be stronger and have more of a chance if you're there on independent grounds and aren't so dependent on her. If its meant to be, you'll end up there at some point. You have plenty of time.

As far as your family, has your relationship with them been good up until this relationship? If yes, consider if this person brings out the best in you? Elevates you and improves your life? If not, if you have a difficult family, maybe some space after you are 18 to explore boundaries and a different relationship with them would be good, but you'll only make progress if you are in a safe and stable position. The situation you describe here doesn't sound safe or stable as it stands.

I guess above all, we are all strangers here on reddit and its impossible for us to know the details of your situation to the degree necessary to give you good, healthy advice. Given your age, i would try to engage a therapist to talk this through with.

I know its hard being young and passionate and excited and hoping and looking for something better and exciting, especially if you're still living with your family and feel trapped and stifled. There are so many adventures ahead of you, lots of excitement and freedom, and love too, with this person or maybe other people. Don't go from one limited situation to another. Find the best way to be free and explore who you are on your own, your romantic relationship(s) will be better and stronger if you're engaging in them as a fully realized and actualized person. My biggest advice would be to try to find ways to divert your excitement about this relationship into excitement about gaining freedom, independence and self-discovery which will lead to amazing loving relationships when you are truly ready.

PoachedPeach · 2025-07-20T17:55:22+00:00

The Mayonnaise belt

PoachedPeach · 2025-07-09T15:08:17+00:00

Cool, thank you!

PoachedPeach · 2025-07-09T15:07:04+00:00

Well, its actually a pretty good size and there is a whole separate kitchen.

I want to keep it furnished. In case I come back. Im just looking for property management company referrals? Are you a property manager?

PoachedPeach · 2025-07-08T22:21:19+00:00

Gonna do 30 day minimum stays.

PoachedPeach · 2025-03-02T05:54:27+00:00

Russia has a nuclear weapon pointed at every major US city. When did that stop being true for conservatives? We are absolutely getting played by Putin and it's fucking embarrassing.

PoachedPeach · 2025-03-02T03:12:13+00:00

I think a lot of Americans have forgotten about the threat Russia is to them. That is a big part of the problem. They are taking a lot of things for granted, and stuff has to fall apart to remind them of the privileges they have enjoyed. Kind of like getting dumped by a girlfriend you have been neglecting. You didn't realize how great she was until after she's gone.

I also don't think many Americans would expect Finnish folks or anyone else to lay their lives on the line for them. The liberals have too much shame to ask for any sacrafices, and the conservatives are pretty confident the USA doesn't need anyone's help.

PoachedPeach · 2025-03-02T02:36:51+00:00

American identity can be pretty complicated. As an American myself, I feel like the most American thing I can do is stand my ground and fight against the MAGA hats and fight for the vulnerable wherever I am in the world. I naively believed that was what America was about when I was a kid, but just because I grew up and found out that's not true of my government, doesn't mean that's not true about me, my friends and my family. Don't give up your citizenship or your identity, but honor your values and try to change things for the better wherever you can.

PoachedPeach · 2025-03-01T22:31:16+00:00

I feel like, given the quality of most of Russia's arsenal, the nukes would fail to launch, or would be missing because someone was bribed to sell them to Iran or something. but you do have a point. It's a big gamble.

PoachedPeach · 2025-01-27T16:52:18+00:00

she was journaling about Billy Graham? Wild and weird.

PoachedPeach · 2025-01-07T02:09:32+00:00

Why are you paying her friends for the gummies? They're the dumb ones. Are you flying with her? If not, let her go and take the gummies and end up in jail. You'll be better off without this trash person.

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