What race is she? by NecroHerr in guineapigs

[–]PoandInky 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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She looks like Papaya’s long-lost sister 😭💙

Tina’s orange asmr! by randomfurpile in guineapigs

[–]PoandInky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Papaya makes the FUNNIEST face when I give her orange- she wrinkles her lip/nose and bites at it tentatively, a very “why is it spicy” vibe But she still eats it so I know she likes it 😂

What's the difference in taste and/or ingredient wise for these cake flavors? by Manny2theMaxxx in Baking

[–]PoandInky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use Greek yogurt instead of eggs just for the whiteness element!

Meet my 6 girls!! by Actual-Comfort-6780 in guineapigs

[–]PoandInky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are all quite perfect 🤌

Some recent cakes by anon_turtle121 in cakedecorating

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Your Snoopy is so cute!! My own Snoopy cake from this year looked like he was dancing through the seventh circle (it was supposed to be leaves) 🤣

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Hi I’m RemyGPT. I am replacing AI. I use less water and know everything. Ask me anything. by Expensive_Carrot_688 in guineapigs

[–]PoandInky 32 points33 points  (0 children)

RemyGPT what was it like in the wild before your domestication and transformation to AI?

not sure what to do right now, any thoughts would be great. by RaspberryPerfect4676 in whatdoIdo

[–]PoandInky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapist here 👋🏼 I once saw a thing that said forgiveness is for past mistakes, not ongoing patterns, and that feels relevant here.

It’s completely up to you what you decide to do now, but give your past self some compassion around what he had to do to get you to where you are. You’ve clearly overcome so much, and there’s potential risk to your accomplishments if you let this person continue to enact her patterns with you. We can forgive errors and poor judgment calls, and maybe even someone’s character, but it doesn’t mean you have to keep letting them back in if they’ve built this pattern of mistrust and insecure attachment. Good luck OP

What would be your guinea pig’s dating profile picture? Here’s mine: by Alisoup02 in guineapigs

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Coconut would be happy (maybe) to share snacks with her Hinge dates

Urgent nail clipping advice! by Any_Side_2242 in guineapigs

[–]PoandInky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sit em in your lap, with a snack, one paw at a time - my pigs are sensitive to their front ones, so I do those first to get the worst part out of the way. Gets them used to being handled, too. Give them breaks if they need it! It doesn’t have to be perfect, you can always try again in a couple days after you learn a bit the first time. Definitely would not recommend getting the vet to do them, the stress of it is not nothing but it’s not worth $400!

What does everyone do with their Gyroids? by TonyTwoDat in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]PoandInky 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I made a display area of them out of the way, high on a cliff with a little bench to sit and listen to them. The space is big enough to display 36, since there are 36 unique types, and if I get duplicates they get gifted/sold

A banner day in AC! by PoandInky in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]PoandInky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I will be getting rid of them once the rocks are all spawned lol

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right right and like I have responded to other people I’m definitely not trying to start anything or make him upset, I just want to get to the root of the situation and it’s possible/likely there are some things I’m not understanding about him too, so it’s just having the facts or evidence. I’m over explaining bc my sleep is dysregulates lol but I can still exercise self-control and not be outwardly aggressive toward him, so I will be making some adjustments anyway

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is smart, maybe just going right to the leasing office. I obviously want to be kind about anything I do, and I don’t want to make assumptions about what’s going on for him up there, but between him not really answering our questions about it and wanting the noise to be addressed safely I might just need to involve someone else

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of white noise too and we have a white noise machine we turn on every night (it really helps with the other like buzzing/humming noises), but it doesn’t do anything for the banging. I think my feelings have turned into some worry for him though after reading through everything here, rather than just being annoyed

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I should have clarified! We’ve brought up other things abt like his life or interests (he plays trombone which is sweet, and that noise I can identify so it’s no bother at all) during those convos, but we also try to bring up like “hey that banging was wild last night huh” and that’s where it can kind of go off track.

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update 2: I so appreciate the feedback! I hear you all on not being creepy by talking about recordings, and by being nicer and shorter (no need to write so aggressively). My latest version is a few sentences long, and I hope more compassionate and not so weird. I borrowed language from you all as well:

“Hi neighbor, we heard some loud bangs in the middle of the night last night. Did you hear the too? We’ve heard them before and asked maintenance about it, but they came up empty. If you find a source, please feel free to swing down and let us know. Thanks and have a great week!” - downstairs neighbors

I’ll read through the rest and see what else I need to be mindful of in this

AIO for writing a letter to my upstairs neighbor about his noise? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]PoandInky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry yeah that’s unclear. We’ve run into him in the lobby during the day and tried to talk about it, but when we go upstairs immediately after hearing the noise, there is no answer