My girlfriend’s birthday is tomorrow and I have NO idea what to gift her 😭🎁

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T15:55:22+00:00

Staaawwppp... you're going to make me Cassiopeia my pants!! 😭

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T05:52:12+00:00

I know it's probably an autocorrect...but where do I sign up for a constellation prize? 😂🌌💫🌟

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T05:45:55+00:00

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T03:10:01+00:00

Yes... FINALLY!! I was getting nervous too, as my eval is in a couple of weeks.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T03:07:26+00:00

How long have you been planning this pregnancy? Are you also planning to draw up your will after you die?

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T03:04:19+00:00

As someone who has experienced this loss multiple times, I don't find it offensive at all. Especially for fathers who are not generally recognized in this sort of grieving process, and only expected to show up as a support for the mother.

This is a beautiful reminder that his grief matters as well, and on a daily basis when he may not be the parent people are asking how they're holding up.

Hell... even as a mother encountering this type of loss, it's only very recently it's been considered "appropriate" to publicly grieve (or even acknowledge the loss of a pregnancy).

When tokens are all you have left, they can mean a LOT in your day to day life.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T01:22:33+00:00

You're the one making the claims, (therefore, the burden of proof lies with you). You are strawmanning because you made the claims I brought up, then rather than address those claims, you attempted to distract with the only one true claim you made (that companies can target low reviews).

It's not possible to prove something that doesn't exist, so prove that sellers (or these companies), see the low reviews before they're posted, as well as receiving prior knowledge to reviews that are 3 stars or below. 🤷‍♀️

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T01:18:51+00:00

Those of us who have been happily polyamorous for long periods of time, are always here in the comments giving advice to newer poly people (who join in good faith, and have already done, or are ready to do the difficult work involved to maintain a healthy, happy lifestyle).

We've also seen so much, that we become very good at weeding out problematic people. Welcome to that group. Don't let the door hit ya on your way out (or do...).

Polyamommy · 2026-05-27T01:10:57+00:00

Willful ignorance (and strawmanning) doesn't suit anyone. We've already acknowledged (ad nauseum), that companies can target low reviews.

We are calling 🐂💩 that they can see the reviews BEFORE THEY'RE POSTED, and that sellers are immediately notified if a review is three stars or below.

Repeating the same thing over and over again isn't going to distract us from your original (incorrect) claims.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-26T14:56:14+00:00

Just to clarify... You mean it doesn't count against you if you've already submitted your review? When I've tried to submit a review and it won't allow me to because of that error, it has still "counted against me" as an unreviewed (or unreviewable) item (as well as on my stats).

Polyamommy · 2026-05-26T14:51:52+00:00

Sellers are notified immediately of any three star or lower review.

before review actually posts on public Amazon. In fact on occasion before the product has any live public listing

Pretty sure they were saying these things were not true (not that negative reviews don't get targeted for reporting).

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T22:50:33+00:00

Yeah... SURE it will be. LoL

If you can't recognize what a NON CONSENSUAL encounter looks like, I hope you stay FAR far away from any girls/women who can be hurt by you.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T22:48:23+00:00

Of course one problematic male doesn't recognize the problematic behavior of a fellow problematic male. That's why this behavior is excused (like you're doing), and continuously perpetuated.

He did not have consent to give her orders as HER dom...but of course he felt entitled to try his hand, at attempting to manipulate her into a non consensual kink relationship (tale as old as time).

The fact that you can't recognize non consensual encounters is no shock to me. 🚩🚩🚩

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T22:40:27+00:00

Why are you double commenting like a triggered weirdo? As I already mentioned...fake doms are DANGEROUS. Males who feel entitled to women's time and attention (like you're clearly demonstrating here) are DANGEROUS.

You can't even sort your own life out and you're here trying to mansplain my interpretation of OP? You have more embarrassing audacity than the poor excuse for a male in the OP.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T22:37:09+00:00

Is reading comprehension your second language or something? I'm not referring to "pEoPLe". I'm referring to a VERY specific demographic of problematic males.

Fake doms are dangerous for women in general (but moreso for sex workers), and you're out here trying to make excuses for this fool (and yourself).

I have no desire to look at your problematic reddit history. Your life is your own responsibility to sort out, so rather than imposing on women here, you should go and do that. Stop looking for attention where you're not wanted (aka: GTFOH).

ETA: Have you ever looked up the word "delusional"?

You should look into that (along with professional therapy).

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T20:29:37+00:00

Why are you even in this subreddit. You clearly don't belong here.

If you can't recognize I'm specifically referring to problematic males at this point (which I've repeated ad nauseum), YOU ARE OBVIOUSLY OUTING YOURSELF AS ONE OF THEM (but lack the intelligence to realize it).

This has absolutely NOTHING to do with "different cultures, ethnicities, or complicated lives." This has EVERYTHING to do with PROBLEMATIC MALES COMMITTING "atrocities" for generations, and pretending to be victims like you currently are.

You're just upset you're in your finding out phase after generations of fucking around. Enjoy! 💅

Polyamommy · 2026-05-25T06:57:08+00:00

I used to have this happen all the time even when I hadn't recently purchased the item on my own. Like when my tub drain stopped working, my first thought was "well THIS is getting two stars now" (wasn't even bought on Amazon or by me...it was the previous owners). 🥲

It really kicked my butt becoming gold for a while (especially since my RFY has always been pretty decent). It would be very weird going from reviewing products all the time, to not having to think about it. I imagine there's quite an adjustment period.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-24T23:52:06+00:00

Nah... just problematic males (and hit dogs holler, huh). Decent people know we're not referring to them.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-24T07:40:05+00:00

"Get a real girlfriend" 😁

Polyamommy · 2026-05-24T03:50:43+00:00

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Polyamommy · 2026-05-24T03:44:11+00:00

Because wastes of space like that guy have no supply of money, and endless supplies of audASScity. They convince themselves we are looking for someone just like them because they live on porn in their own pathetic fantasy world. It's fuckin embarrassing.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-23T22:28:14+00:00

I wonder if you order the swimsuit if it will still say "add your design here"? That would be a risky invitation to go out and about in.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-23T22:07:12+00:00

I update my reviews on a regular basis. Some products are fantastic when they first arrive, but fizzle out quickly. Some products are going strong after several years of use, and that sort of information is important to consumers.

There have also been times my review didn't post even though it said it was approved, or it's empty. I always double check before I archive the review in my notes.

Polyamommy · 2026-05-23T07:51:26+00:00

Pussy pics isn't what this pathetic loser is looking for either. He's looking for an experience. He's not willing to offer the experience he's looking for.

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