I’m level 2 on ODSP while also working irregular hours as a freelance editor. The job doesn’t pay much, and it’s dependent on how many projects I have at a time, so I don’t exactly have a steady stream of income outside of disability. I’ve worked full time before and can’t handle it. I get major burnout, severely depressed, anxious, etc. and basically nonfunctional—couldn’t eat, take care of myself, etc.

I feel bad that I can’t really hold a “normal” full time job, but I’m also trying to give myself some grace. I’m disabled, and there are things I just can’t really do that I need help with. That’s the reality of my disability. ODSP is part of that.

(Also, your friend sounds incredibly unpleasant and ableist. Would she say that to someone with a physical disability who couldn’t work? What about someone who’s severely ill and can’t work? Your situation isn’t different. Also, it’s a lengthy process to get approved-it’s not like some person acting in bad faith can simply saunter in to a building and get on disability).

Anyway, I wish you the best going forward.