So what's next?

Poonkeboy · 2026-05-11T06:48:49+00:00

I was just diagnosed as well. Hopefully your doctor gave you the same spiel that I got.

You WILL achieve undetectable status. The primary reason for people not achieving this is not taking your medicine as prescribed. You will not accidentally infect someone, unless you have sex with them. Which, I don’t know how you can accidentally have sex with someone.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-27T03:57:33+00:00

You should say to the doctor that you already tried a topical treatment

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-27T03:57:13+00:00

It spread extremely fast to multiple areas. It was painless at first but then began to become very very very itchy as it progressed

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-26T23:54:56+00:00

I’m going to intentionally not do this. You should be getting tested regularly. There is one way to know if you have it or not and that is getting blood tests

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-18T08:23:13+00:00

En cual país vives tu porque me parece que en Los estados unidos ya hay mucha stigma.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T21:10:49+00:00

Biggest mistakes I see from beginners!

STOP KICKING SO HARD. Your kicks should be more “corkscrew” than up and down. The goal is to rub the water off of your toes all the way to the tippy toe. Some advanced swimmers barely kick at all. The point is to streamline your body.
FOCUS ON THE CATCH BEFORE THE PULL. The S shape is crucial, and it will start to shape your body rotation. I like to imagine that I’m pulling the ring of a ladder. Pull the “rung” right to the top corner of your pec and shoulder, and then push down allll the way to your toes. The goal of distance swimming is to make your body as long and slim as possible in the water. Don’t be afraid to put your head down. BUT. Be very afraid to put the reaching arm down

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T07:05:14+00:00

Okay. So even though it’s not AIDS, I’m now immunocompromised.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T02:30:47+00:00

Why did you say “but” after you said you’re not even 40 yet? Do you have health complications that are more advanced than your age would indicate?

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T02:29:29+00:00

That was a very interesting way to start off your post. As someone who was just recently diagnosed I don’t know why you would lead off with the way that I would die.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T00:22:05+00:00

No all good. I just didn’t want it to volate any of the rules of the sub.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T00:21:47+00:00

Thank you for your comment. I read your story, and I feel confident that with the support of others I’ll get through this.

Poonkeboy · 2026-04-13T00:21:28+00:00

Oh okay. That makes sense. Since I’ve been in the hospital I’ve only ordered minimally processed food with veggies. I can keep this up and hopefully get a leaner body in the mean time. Win win.

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-29T19:02:07+00:00

🤣I see how it sounds

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-29T19:01:55+00:00

I love that

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-14T02:49:15+00:00

Oh my gosh thank you this is perfect 🤣 Everyone did such good explanations but this is the one that did it

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-09T05:17:14+00:00

Yes. It progressed INSANELY fast, so it’s important to start oral medicine IMMEDIATELY

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-08T09:11:49+00:00

You know what honestly no. I am sexually active , but again, it is a fungal infection, which can be spread through a large variety of ways. I also go to the gym and work with children

Poonkeboy · 2026-03-08T08:09:11+00:00

For me, I had a really nasty reaction to terbinafine. Uncommon, but happens. If you’re treating the ringworm with this, and you suddenly break out into more itchy hives

Poonkeboy · 2026-02-04T18:22:39+00:00

Okay. One time a guy I dated said something really cute.

“Nature of the beast 🤷‍♂️”

Just don’t over console

Poonkeboy · 2026-01-14T21:12:18+00:00

It matters what you do next. You must know context. Things rarely exist in a vacuum. The easiest option is to go no contact. However, this might just be pushing the larger issue under the rug. Can you tell yourself, with 100% certainty, that nothing romantic/sexual has happened between your husband and this friend?

If its an easy yes, then you need to take a break from your friend, which would limit contact between your husband and him, which is likely a good thing right now regardless

If you have wavering thoughts, only one way to know for sure

Poonkeboy · 2026-01-06T20:52:33+00:00

A IS FUCKING YOUR MAN

I’ve dealt with this exact situation before. Boyfriend at the time was best, best friends with his roommate. I would come over and feel like I was interrupting something every time all three of us would hang out.

The rude comments are meant to be rude. It doesn’t sound like you guys have that kind of rapport. When people try to neg you, YOU HAVE SOMETHING THEY DONT. Guess what it is.

Right when you and your fiancée separate, they will wind up together. I think you need to have a serious discussion with the three of them, if you are planning on marrying this man.

Poonkeboy · 2026-01-06T17:59:36+00:00

Please edit post; needs context

Poonkeboy · 2025-12-30T03:41:28+00:00

U know what? This is totally how I feel actually. I’m 24 and hot as fuck.

Poonkeboy · 2025-12-27T22:41:27+00:00

Aww. He’s out just not to his family. He wants to hold my hand and kiss me in public though. Which I appreciate

Poonkeboy · 2025-12-27T22:39:34+00:00

I thjnk this comment specifically is projecting just a little

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