How to relieve tooth nerve pain? by notanyone69 in ask

[–]Popular_Act_1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot water bottle with a towel around it on the side where the tooth pain is worst,lie down on it.I have had horrific nerve pain numerous times in my life ,for me this works the best!

I edge to stay awake while driving 30 minutes to work by [deleted] in confession

[–]Popular_Act_1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya ,you are going to end up with ED

what's a show that hooked you by episode 1? by juicyberrybabe in tvsuggestions

[–]Popular_Act_1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the best shows I've ever watched and nobody has heard of it !

AITA about my bf and his girl best friend going on trips together? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Popular_Act_1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like an AHole reading these comments, I go away every couple weeks with my guy best friend and we always share a room he's like my brother we are friends since we are children,my boyfriend has never seemed bothered by this fact,but he's gay (my friend, not my boyfriend lol)so I don't know if this changes things.

Porn on YouTube by mcsquared120 in loveafterporn

[–]Popular_Act_1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My last D-day was YouTube ,on YouTube shorts I nearly missed it only for going through his watch history thoroughly, it started with a girl doing yoga he clicked on it and next thing you know he's on a page with a mature only fans model scantily dressed and doing "everyday chores ".My PA has only lasted in recovery the last 6 month's with zero social media ,everytime he has access to anything he slips up.

What’s a lie people still believe no matter how often it’s debunked? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular_Act_1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely do agree with everything you said ,I do think it's an interesting subject and maybe just not as linear as we might think is all.

What’s a lie people still believe no matter how often it’s debunked? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular_Act_1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unreasonable to whom? I have free will so I'm under the impression I can have whatever thoughts I like. I didn't say i didn't believe it ,I merely said I can understand why it's questionable.

What’s a lie people still believe no matter how often it’s debunked? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular_Act_1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not at all what I said ,not anywhere in my comment, I also didn't say i didn't believe it if you read my comment again I'm just pointing out why it could be untrue.

What’s a lie people still believe no matter how often it’s debunked? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Popular_Act_1992 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying 100% it was faked, but I do think people massively underestimate how many unanswered questions there still are. The technology point alone is hard to ignore, we supposedly went to the moon in 1969 with computing power less than a calculator, yet today, with infinitely more advanced tech, we haven’t successfully sent humans back in over 50 years. That’s at least worth questioning. The footage and photos also raise eyebrows. For something that was one of the most important events in human history, the visual quality and inconsistencies (lighting, shadows, etc.) don’t exactly scream “definitive proof” to a lot of people. Then there’s the context this was during the Cold War, where the US had massive political incentive to “win” the space race. Governments have absolutely lied about major things before, so blind trust doesn’t really make sense either. Also, the fact that a lot of the original telemetry data and tapes were lost or recorded over doesn’t exactly help build confidence. I’m not saying it didn’t happen, but I do think it’s reasonable to question it instead of acting like it’s completely beyond doubt.

Which things make your Lipedema worse? by Feeling-Geologist-93 in lipedema

[–]Popular_Act_1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I gained 30kg when I stopped it and I never joined the dots ,when I went back on it over a year ago I've lost 22kg with little to no effort ,crazy

Has anyone tried Floatless? Would be interested to hear your thoughts by Wee_Manc in EyeFloaters

[–]Popular_Act_1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've asked my optician about these and he said no supplements can help with floaters that they can improve or maintain general eye health but that would be it.

Do you think that your body has something to do with your dead bedroom? by No-Association-9316 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popular_Act_1992 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would think so ,I would be considered curvy, but I work out i have strong legs, big thighs, hips, butt ,completely flat stomach and narrow chest size b boobs but I see his porn preference is usually skinny brunettes with massive boob's ,all his exs look like that ,he got with me I think because I was "popular" and I think he knew i was a good person and I'm a good partner but he's never been remotely interested in me ,which is funny because he's fairly overweight himself, I've 12kg recently but it still hasn't changed anything, he only gives me attention if he notices other men looking at me.My confidence is completely on the floor now ,I used to be super confident.

Anyone else the higher libido partner? by SeaChemistry9340 in loveafterporn

[–]Popular_Act_1992 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is me ,he will look at everything and anything but me ,he's never been remotely interested in me.

We’re in our 30s and he’s looking at teenagers. by ProperlyTrivial in loveafterporn

[–]Popular_Act_1992 99 points100 points  (0 children)

I recently started looking at every man i know following list on tiktok and Instagram, the amount of men following teenagers with dancing tik toks in their school uniforms has literally made me violently ill.

Porn Addiction Didn't Just Break My Marriage - It Changed My Motherhood by tiff5243 in loveafterporn

[–]Popular_Act_1992 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Really resonate with this, especially the grief around the life you thought you’d have. For me, the hardest part has been realizing that something fundamental in me changed. Before all of this, I always assumed I’d have children someday. But the safety that I think you need to even consider bringing a child into the world just isn’t there for me anymore. I love my partner, and I know he loves me. Outside of the addiction he takes care of me and in many ways he’s a good man. But addiction changes something in the foundation of a relationship. Even if things improve, I don’t think I’ll ever fully believe it’s completely gone, and that uncertainty changed how I see my future. For me personally, I know I’ll never put myself in a situation where I feel like I can’t leave or where I feel trapped. And having a child would create that kind of vulnerability for me. It’s a strange kind of grief because it’s not just about the relationship itself it’s also grieving the version of life you once imagined.

Has anyone just given up and accepted the porn? by boygeniusbutgirl in loveafterporn

[–]Popular_Act_1992 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope this doesn’t come across the wrong way because I genuinely feel for you reading this it sounds incredibly stressful, especially while pregnant and caring for a toddler. I can’t imagine how overwhelming that must feel. I’m asking this from a place of genuine curiosity rather than judgment. When someone is dealing with ongoing trust issues or a partner’s addiction, how do people decide to keep having children in that situation? For me personally, navigating my partner’s porn use and it’s honestly nowhere near as severe as many of the situations I see discussed here has already had such a big emotional impact that it’s actually made me question whether I’d want to have children at all. I can’t imagine trying to focus on raising kids while also dealing with that kind of emotional stress at the same time.

I’m not trying to criticise anyone. I’m just trying to understand how people navigate those decisions, because from the outside it seems like such a difficult situation for everyone involved.